Do you see how 'Jada' has aged? I was watching an episode of "A Different World' where she played the character 'Lena'. And while I don't expect Jada to look as young as she did back then (16 years ago)... still ... now she looks too tired and I know too many women older than her who do not look that way.
Here's the danger, what happens when one of the partners no longer wants to be with their spouse because they prefer to be with someone else they've been sleeping with. What happens when a couple becomes alienated. Outside attachments DO occur? It's a very dangerous thing to enter into. Somewhere down the line, someone DOES get hurt and abandoned.
People aren't stupid about what this really is; the fact is that they want to play around.
An open marriage simply states that 'you are not enough' for each other; you don't satisfy me enough to keep my affections solely for you. It states that one is still searching and that they are void, missing something and are unsettled.
It's not a marriage. Not at all.
Not at all. No excuse for it. None!