Wow, so many reason to try to list.
I have dated some POS men in my lifetime and out of all of them, when DH asked me to marry him I said YES immediately.
Quite simply, I adore him.
He is the most loving, honest, kind hearted, hard-working man that I have ever met. He understands that marriage is work and his views on marriage being a forever commitment are in line with mine.
Although people outside of the family find him intimidating (because of his build), he is such a sweetheart, not the crying type but definitely in touch with his feelings. He wanted to be involved with every step of our wedding (I wanted to elope) and he cared about all of the details that everyone says a man won't care about.
He takes the time to understand anything that I'm doing, including haircare. He would never admit it to his friends but he is really into hair now and helps me oil my hair & do my Keratin treatments.
He will try anything that I ask with no argument (i.e., travel, wig/weave shopping, different foods).
He cleans (laundry, floors, dishes) and he can cook a bit too. His collards are way better than mine.
He can fix anything (cars & household items).
He is a great father, despite the circumstances with the ex trying to make it difficult.
And most important, I love that he adores me and that it's clear to anyone who meets him (he is always talking about me) or to anyone that see us together.