Absolutely not. I do not believe that is what God intended for marriage to be at all.
That would be the intention of both me and God ...
Why get married in the first place?
Let me not into the marriage of true minds, admit impediments. Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds, nor bends with the remover to remove.
It is an ever fix'ed' mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken; it is a star to every wandering bark, whose worth's unknown, although its height be taken.
Love's not times fool, though through rosy cheeks and time, its bending sickles compass come.
Love alters not, with its brief hours and weeks, but bears it out until the edge of doom. If this be err' and upon me prov'd, I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
..... William Shakespeare (Sonnet 116) "True Love"
I ask again, why marry in the first place? Why disparage such a sacred union? Why degrade the beauty of a man and woman as man and wife, sharing their love with one another and no other. Why invade their sexual bond and fragrance with the stench of manure?
Is life so miserable to some that they spill their hurt by destroying the beauty of marriage? Making it's value less and void of stance?
Let alone with all of these diseases putting sexual health in jeopardy; so many men and women are not open if they have AIDS/HIV, an open marriage brings the risk of death into the bedroom. The death of the sacred union between man and wife; the death of being One; the death of sole and solid committment to one only another. The death of allowing no impediments.
When a man and woman marry, they become 'One' and they are 'fitly joined' to one another and with God. No outsiders allowed; they forsake all others and cleave unto one another in spirit, soul, and body. No other union in life is so sacred and unseverable.
Children grow up and leave home and pursue lives of their own. Man and wife are designed 'Eternal'.
Marriage has an enemy; a predator seeking to make its existance an endangered species and then exstinction.
Protect her; Preserve her; Keep the Life of her in sanctuary...
Marriage, the most cherished of gifts between a man and a woman.