***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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I am really torn between wanting to be more proactive in finding a mate, and not wanting to be bothered. :look:

I just had to let go of someone who meant a lot to me and I'm feeling a little drained. But going to my girl's wedding on Friday made me realize that I really do want to settle down. I'm tired of being single, but I'm also tired of the disappointments.

What a conundrum.
 
Guy #1. You're a nice guy and I know you're interested but you're not communicating much. I'm so perplexed by you.
Guy #2. You have so much to be thankful for yet you focus so much on the negative. So frustrating!
Guy #3. YOU must think I'm boo boo the fool. Keep trying, my dude. Some day you'll get it right.
 
There I go, there I go, there I go...

I wish I could transplant all his qualities into another man that is ready NOW.
 
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Wow, just wow. The entire day has passed and he didnt even check to see how i was feeling, that really shows me how much I mean to him. Other than the 2 word message this morning to find out why I wasnt at work, nothing else for the entire day. I want to see how he will talk himself out of this tomorrow at work. I strongly believe you make time in your life for the people that are important, so I guess I am not important since he couldnt find 60 seconds to ask how I was feeling. Wow, just wow. Time to stop fooling myself that he cares anything about me and move on.
 
I need more options...I only have 1 option that I actually like...that is sooo dangerous...n I want him 2 give me more...which is EXACTLY y I need 2 find him some competition
 
Every day I think about you. You possess all the qualities I like in a man. I love spending time with you, talking to you on the phone, laughing with you, the sound of your voice, I could go on and on.... and I so wish things were different. *sigh*
 
Over a year later and I still love you. I think I always will. You are such a good man; one of my dearest friends but as we did then, we have to walk away once more. It hurts. I'm so sorry.
 
Im getting on your nerves, your getting on mine. Just when I think we have our ish together, you let me know we don't. I wish you would just end it if you know its over instead of being cowardly and put it all on me.
 
i don't know why you're acting like that , i might be over reacting but as for now .. i quit... you want me , you do what needs to be done to get me but you're about to have some competition.. good luck.. you just might need it
 
HUGE wake up call tonight. Cried my eyes out. Time to move forward and am determined to do so. I am determined to focus completely on myself.

I feel much lighter now. One day at a time, Ras. One day at a time. :)
 
It should have honestly ended in 2003. Instead it dragged on into 2010 and here I am the loser. Years wasted, depression, and so much foolishness all for you to find someone else.
I am/was so stupid. Now you don't want to appear as the bad guy so you talk kindly and shower me with compliments and praises.
One day at a time. Someday you wont matter to me anymore.
 
You haven't spoken to me since Saturday then this morning you text to ask what I'm making for dinner. Why are you acting like the whole thing didn't happen?! Who's the crazy one now
 
Its funny how the tables turn.
You broke my heart and now you need me more than ever.
Without thinking twice Im helping you through your emotional breakdown. I thought I would be happy to know you weren't loving unless it was me, It amazing how one grows in a manner of months. I'm so over you but can't deny I'll always care for you.

I'm feeling like a vibrant emotional butterfly who is okay with not finding the love she desires and refuses to settle for less. Why rush when I have so much more Me-Time to endure.

I'm starting to like not worrying about someone else's feelings for a change. Refreshing!
 
Yemaya said:
It should have honestly ended in 2003. Instead it dragged on into 2010 and here I am the loser. Years wasted, depression, and so much foolishness all for you to find someone else.
I am/was so stupid. Now you don't want to appear as the bad guy so you talk kindly and shower me with compliments and praises.
One day at a time. Someday you wont matter to me anymore.
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I was going through the same thing. That just means that the guy whose really meant for you is still out there. There's nothing like YOU-Time. Cry if you need to,do whatever it takes. Just dont let his lost consume your life.Whats the point in placing blame on yourself there was something that made you stay, atleast you attempted to love. Sometimes a small beam of love is worth the risk of heartache.

Not trying to preach just hoping my words help you.
 
You called said that you could feel that I was missing you...you were right and now I'm researching on how to break soul ties. I need you out of my life all together. I'm wasting too much time thinking about you and missing you and what we had. It ended for a reason and it's past time for me to move on.
 
We're headed in the right direction....great convo last night...but to be continued tomorrow night...in person, to see if you are willing to meet my expectations. And the saga continues...
 
Maybe I shouldnt have been so harsh, you were just being brutally honest. Now I feel horrible for saying what I said and I cant help but feel like I have done something horribly wrong.
 
And as expected I get all the blame. I cant deal with the pettiness anymore, havign you in my life is wearing me out. I cant believe this started because you didnt hear me say good morning when you spoke to the others this morning. I cried today at work because of you and the things you said to me. I guess I am wrong because I expect that someone who claims to care about me will want to know how I am doing when i was sick but you didnt. I will take your advice and not expect anything from you anymore. I dont want you around me or in my life anymore. I am done.
 
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