***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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ok, what are we doing ? i know you have feelings for me , you talk alot of mess but your actions speak louder . i want to ask you but i know how i felt last time - i had to drink after it- however until you decide whether or not you're going to officially step up to the plate ,im keeping my options.

i need to work on my trust factor and not being so guarded , its just that anything that remotely reminds me of that negative feeling i used to get with my ex at times will cause me to write anyone off immediately ,say forget it and start borderline dating someone else even when i can be over analyzing the situation ,be wrong and they didn't even do anything ..im starting to feel like im damaged.
 
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I saw a man this weekend that made me forget I had a boyfriend, father, brother....just about every damn thing. Its a shame too because I like NEVER ever see a guy that I find that physically attractive outside of Tv and porno's. *sigh*
 
Soooo we're back together and I actually took you back to easily, but that's ok. But you trying to test me I see....keep it up. This is THE LAST time.
 
aw that's so sweet, he offered to drive my car down after i move there. still bummed he wont be able to drive me though :(
 
Just found out the psycho ex has a gf.

Felt better when I knew he was still out there wandering. As long as he was single, my singleness wasn't so bad. Small and petty but that's how I felt.
 
Everytime I say that I'm going to stop calling/texting you, you always hit me up. How do you always know?

And why did you call me at 1:57am to tell me your prediction on "What Chilli Wants?" Did you just want to hear my voice?
 
I have a date for tomorrow night! We met by chance at a restaurant about 9 months ago. We have been keeping in touch sporadically and I reached out to him this weekend to see if we can meet up. He agreed! We're going to dinner and a birthday party with my best friend and her boo.

I'm excited. Will definitely help get my mind off things regarding the ex. :) :) :)
 
While speaking to you today I realized 2 very important things:

1. I'm over you
2. I will always love you
 
I'm so not where I want to be, but he's so good to me. I can't have my cake and eat it forever.

I don't know how to leave for the next piece of cake that may not be as sweet. :sad:
 
I think I'm in love. I sure wish he lived in TX though. That would make things easier. Oh well..if I'm considering moving to GA, it has to be love. lol
 
Just met 2 guys a couple of days ago:

  • Guy #1's idea of a first date: My roommates not here, so If you want, you can come over and watch a movie
  • Guy #2's idea of a first date: You're really interesting and beautiful and I would love to get to know you more, lets go out for coffee and ice cream.


Now I could be real ignorant and ask yall to play spot the black guy, but that would be real petty of me. I could say it has to do with age, but umm Guy#1, knows I got 4 years on him. He was also offended when I called him a baby.

People dont date anymore? We just going straight to the couch now? The whole come to my house and watch a movie has happened quite a few times.; Thank goodness I am experienced enough to know better and I'm talking Pre-Recession.
 
natura87 said:
:lachen::lachen::lachen: Oh my god!
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Right. I was sitting with my brothers, sister, and friends, and I looked at my phone and it said he called. I was thinking..."It's 2am!" So I called him back, and he said "I just called to tell you that I think Chilli is going to get with a white dude!" Then he said he was about to go to sleep and he had a job interview and to call him tomorrow. That was it. :rolleyes:

Do you think he missed me or something?
 
tonight has be awesome..if I never see you again I at least know that there good black men out there who see me as a beauty that i know I am..
 
i try to back up, get my emotions in check, tell myself the less i care then the less it will hurt if you mess up but then you reel me back in... smh
 
Issue resolved.....men and women think SO differently. It's truly amazing we ever get together and that more than just intellect governs our actions...
 
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