***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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HoneyA said:
We are madly attracted to each other too hmmm ... I don't want to get a relationship now though. I'm enjoying my freedom...something I have not done in a long time.
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I could have written this. I'm realizing that I have been wrapped up in one long term relationship after another since I was a teen. This last one (short enough) impacted the hell out of me. Now I just want to take my time, date and enjoy that life for a bit.
 
Angel_Face said:
I could have written this. I'm realizing that I have been wrapped up in one long term relationship after another since I was a teen. This last one (short enough) impacted the hell out of me. Now I just want to take my time, date and enjoy that life for a bit.
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This is my story to a tee thus my decision to enjoy life for what it is now. So much less stress. Our interaction is fun, easy and stress free. Whatever is to be will be and that's good enough for me.
 
belldandy said:
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Trust me. If you saw her, you would not roll your eyes. Instead you would be ignited with new hope. I am single, zero prospects and officially as of about a month or two been completely "out of the game" and am not looking back. So I am not just one of those people saying "if she can do it you can do it". I KNOW if she can do it you can do it.
 
I am putting this whole relationship business in God's hands. I guess I am still under construction, and I am just not wife/girlfriend material just yet; so when it's time for relaunch I will be ready... :)
 
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"Hanging out" with my ex tomorrow....this should be interesting...hopefully not awkward. I've had so much going on since the breakup that I did not miss you, but now that things have settled...I kinda do. Hmmm...let's see what tomorrow brings and leave it at that for now.
 
i don't trust you because of the last incident yet i want you smh


ETA : i'm tired of you complaining to me about women doing you wrong and only wanting you for your money . when you know what the deal is, maybe you need to re-evaluate why you keep going after them when you have me sitting in front of you and you claim to want me but you won't make a move then when you see i start talking to other people you get jealous! gawd!! ugh
 
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wonders why when I see this certain person I just get intoxicated by his beauty but yet he may never see mine unless I conform to social standards of beauty..I don't think I can..my beauty is as raw as a 100lb model..love is something I desire but never have obtain..why do I feel like a warmth of passion erupts just to... say your name..he may never know I love him more than my friend
 
I want to date some other guys before I make the final decision about exclusivity with my guy. He's a good guy and we have great chemistry but I'm still not sure. My failed marriage has really messed up my ability to trust my decisions and instincts. This is so frustrating.
 
So now he's getting an attitude because I decided to give him another shot to be friends. He feels like we should be in a relationship, but I want to wait and see if it will be worth it. He made me wait and see when he was deciding about his ex, and I did respectfully.

I like someone else, as well. I just don't know how long I can stall...
 
I understand you have family in town, but that shouldn't mean that I should be put on the back burner...Just impossible...:perplexed
 
Why did it take a year for me to be feeling him like this. Kind of scary because Im supposed to be working on single me. As long as he doesnt push me on a relationship we're good.
 
As much as I'd like to find 'the one' to settle down with and get married to, deep down I am really apprehensive and a bit nervous about meeting different men. My deep down fears are having to sift through people's personalities, and going through thier bullshyt, and the introvert in me is scared shytless about this :sad:. I'd just ideally like to find 'him' w/o having to meet several men before meeting him. Also, admittedly, I am very particular about what I'm attracted to so this is another fear that will probably creep up on me again. At least I'm consciously aware of this now, so I will face it head on, b/c this summer I plan to definetely date :grin:.
 
you're doing whatever you want to do but you don't want me seeing anyone ? pssttt!! yeah i'm about to keep my options open. I see now that i'm going to have treat you like i do the rest of them. you want me you better step up to the plate. you must have confused with the rest of them.
 
CinnaMocha said:
I understand you have family in town, but that shouldn't mean that I should be put on the back burner...Just impossible...:perplexed
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You and me both. Haven't even attempted to reach out to me for DAYS on end. And when I do attempt to reach out I hear nothing? Not even an acknowledgment of "Hey I got your text" or "Hey I got your voicemail"? I called him up and told him to come get his ish. I have a very short tolerance for BS.

That said, its been one helluva a lonely long weekend. :nono: :sad::sad:

Whatev. I'll be OK.
 
Rastafarai said:
You and me both. Haven't even attempted to reach out to me for DAYS on end. And when I do attempt to reach out I hear nothing? Not even an acknowledgment of "Hey I got your text" or "Hey I got your voicemail"? I called him up and told him to come get his ish. I have a very short tolerance for BS.

That said, its been one helluva a lonely long weekend. :nono: :sad::sad:

Whatev. I'll be OK.
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OMG!!! The same thing just happened to me!! WTFlip?
 
can't say that i love being single, but its definitely not the worse thing in the world.

i would rather have my peace of mind and be alone then in a situation where i am not happy
 
i admit it , i love you, i miss you , i can't even deny that i'm feeling it but i'm letting you do the work now . i got the ball rolling its up to you now.
 
(Sigh) This relationship is exhausting. I really am earning my man while I learn my man like Betty Wright said. No pain no gain...
 
I dont feel like updating my old thread just yet. My SO finally told his parents about me. His mother doesnt like the idea of him dating an american girl...she really wants him to date an igbo girl. I feel like with him telling his mom about me that he is serious about wanting to marry me one day. I really hope people realize that not all Nigerian men are out there to scam us American women.

Other thought I wonder what it would be like to be with other men...but my SO is soo wonderful and theres no guarantee that the next man will ever complete me the way he does. Even though we've been together almost 4 years and he is my first relationship
 
Hummm, he called to say that he fixed the 1 thing I had an issue with, should I go out with him again? I think I'll go on the date, can't hurt...right???
 
My love life feels like a lost cost at times. I'm just focusing on ME. Getting in shape and losing weight, stabilize financially and kick off my home business, and just be the best that I can be.
 
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