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Lunch date today, and he met my mom. She already knew his background, she works with his grandma and has known her forever lol. The last time we saw each other I initiated the hug and kiss goodbye, today it was him :D. Movie date tonight to go see Iron Man 2.
 
Is there a reason some1 can't call to say they can't make it? Standing some1 up is so unnecessary its not even funny.


ETA: I jumped 2 conclusions...I was about 2 b livid
 
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Helpmeblongagain said:
Is there a reason some1 can't call to say they can't make it? Standing some1 up is so unnecessary its not even funny.


ETA: I jumped 2 conclusions...I was about 2 b livid
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Same issue only im fine with the conclusion i jumped to because the ninja can update his Facebook status as he's standing me up. All the good things i've said about him and then he pulls this crap. I wanted to act like an N word soooo bad...well i liked his status update but thats nothing compared to what i WANTED to do. So pissed off right now...
 
Friend, i don't know why you allow yourself to be a jumpoff. it's not cute and it's not 'real love' if he's not leaving his girlfriend for you. he told you he's moving out of state and marrying her soon and you still go back to him!!! It's funny how you try to act uppity and belittle others for doing the exact same thing you're doing. you shake your head at baby mamas, but you have consistently let him hit raw :nono:. no sense.
I guess it disappoints me more because i was on the other side of a situation like this not too long ago. I have a lot more words for this and will let you know how i feel next time i talk to you.
 
Sexi6tresses said:
Angel Face you were right ! i guess i just overreacted.



well now that you know that i don't take anything back, then the ball is in your court , no more jumping through hoops , no more feeling like i need to impress you , its your call either get me or lose me , either way i won't be waiting around for you to make a move. looks like its time for me to mingle and make some new potentials.
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Do what ever it is you gotta do girl ((((hugs)))).
 
sometimes I say things JUST to piss u off :yep: and I get a HUGE kick out of it!! :yep:

also for my co-workers. Its OBVIOUS that u /he are having an affair! U claim u dont care that ppl are whispering about u guys because ur 'just friends'.. well dayum.. u call him thru out the day at his desk more than his own wife does! u make a point to park beside his truck errrday.. u visit him at his desk thru out the desk and fuss at him like UR the MRS....AND at ALL of the companys after work get togethers.. u guys are acting like ur out on a 'date'. So yeah we ALL know ur hooking up with him, not that we care, BUT we DEF dont want to see it! GET A ROOM why dont'cha!

Doesnt ANYBODY respect their vows to be faithful anymore??? :nono:
 
I've recognized my issue: When I meet someone who fits my list completely but doesnt exactly want all the same things I want, i stick around anyway hoping they will eventually change their mind. It finally came out that he doesn't want a relationship and he does like me but the feelings are getting too deep so he is basically running away from said feelings...and what does my dumbass do??? Stick around and hope he changes his mind, smh....so how do I fix my problem, somebody, anybody, because I am lost...
 
i'm ready to meet someone that 'll just blow everyone else that i've ever been involved with out the water. even someone that i am involved with that will just step up. so its time for me to mingle and just focus on me while watching how everything will play itself out.
 
Miss AJ said:
I've recognized my issue: When I meet someone who fits my list completely but doesnt exactly want all the same things I want, i stick around anyway hoping they will eventually change their mind. It finally came out that he doesn't want a relationship and he does like me but the feelings are getting too deep so he is basically running away from said feelings...and what does my dumbass do??? Stick around and hope he changes his mind, smh....so how do I fix my problem, somebody, anybody, because I am lost...
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Don't compromise with what you want. You need to K.I.M.- keep it moving, focus on yourself, and continue to meet others. Don't wait around for him just move on. If he comes back and he comes correct then you can decide whether you wanna give him another try. But If this guy doesn't recognize what he could have in you then he's a fool. And what would you want with a fool.

On a side note:
I'm soooo tired of men who front like they want something serious and when you start feeling the same way they get scared and run like lil bishes. Next time a guy starts talking that mess to me I'mma flip the script on him.
Tired of boys- ready for a real man that KNOWS what he wants!
 
My friend who is a top exec. at Pepsi Co. has started deducting crap off of her list and the other night she scratched off "CAR." I went into her like a mad woman because I immediately was a mad woman and told her to keep her list in tact. Shoot, next we will be requiring at least he has an arm, a leg and he can see out of one eye.
 
Sexi6tresses said:
i'm ready to meet someone that 'll just blow everyone else that i've ever been involved with out the water. even someone that i am involved with that will just step up. so its time for me to mingle and just focus on me while watching how everything will play itself out.
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Go Sexi! LOL I'm right there with you! This is definitely my time.
 
KPH said:
My friend who is a top exec. at Pepsi Co. has started deducting crap off of her list and the other night she scratched off "CAR." I went into her like a mad woman because I immediately was a mad woman and told her to keep her list in tact. Shoot, next we will be requiring at least he has an arm, a leg and he can see out of one eye.
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Thank you, I see so many great women just settling for the bare minimum (looks ok, has a penis). Like really? REALLY? I mean like the basic requirements are now negotiable (education, decent job, no warrants etc.). You're a good friend she's lucky to have you.
 
So you can go to your ex's house and watch movies AND advertise that ish on Facebook, but you're always in late from work or too tired from work when I wanna spend time with you? You must not know about me...NEXT!!
 
So he seems to be getting his act together. Met my parents and grandmother two nights ago, that was nice.


Does anyone else work with their SO?
 
I just went out to dinner with some former/current co-workers. One girl there was a former lesbian for about 7 years, broke up with the woman, has dated guys for about 9 months and is now engaged as of today. She is shaped like a potato and hast toothpicks for legs. if she can do it, anyone who wants it should be able to do it.
 
I have managed to not deal with my ex successfully for quite some time. It feels like it's over. If it weren't, we would have reconciled by now. I can live with us being over. I realized that I did just as much damage as he did. I had to admit that to myself and it has been the hardest part. I did a lot of damage, no cheating or anything; but still damage. I really didn't have myself together during the relationship, and it showed, and I paid for it. It's hard to admit, but I have NO business in another relationship. For now.
 
We are madly attracted to each other too hmmm ... I don't want to get a relationship now though. I'm enjoying my freedom...something I have not done in a long time.
 
derring-do said:
I just went out to dinner with some former/current co-workers. One girl there was a former lesbian for about 7 years, broke up with the woman, has dated guys for about 9 months and is now engaged as of today. She is shaped like a potato and hast toothpicks for legs. if she can do it, anyone who wants it should be able to do it.
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:rolleyes:
 
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