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Awww. He is sooo sweet! Finally a man that realizes little acts of considerations mean alot. :infatuated::cloud9:
Got me singing Chante's got a man in this piece. Let's just hope he stays consistent:crossfingers::pray:
 
I really don't agree with all of these threads that state people should get married after being together two years...I think it depends a great deal on the logistics of the relationship...

My bf and I have been together 4 years...the first 2 were pretty bad...we didn't get along, argued CONSTANTLY, and even took a couple of breaks in between (5 months, then 3 months)...all in all, the 3rd year was a vast improvement and now we've learned to communicate better and talk our arguments out...I'll admit, I was a little childish and unsure in the beginning and so was he....(I'm 25, he's 24)....so it's like we've really been in the rship 2 years instead of 4...we've just been DEALING with each other for 4 years...that's a better way to put it...so....I'm just going to stop comparing myself to what others do and let us do what works for us... BUT, I did let him know I wasn't waiting on him....I'm not getting any younger!!!
 
Thanks for taking me to lunch! Sigh, those basketball shorts DID look good on him though...Man, I'm so proud to be that man's woman! Yikes....it almost hurts it feels so good...for once, someone just wants me...
 
i take that back, you're not ready for me yet and for the moment i think im just going to stay away for a few days, get my thoughts and emotions back in check.
 
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Now see I thought my Mom was tripping but she was picking up on something about you.
I hate to admit it but I think she might have been right.
You're hiding something. I'm not sure if I'm willing to stick around to find out.
What to do?
 
Having this talk has made me evaluate this relationship.
UGH! I hate this feeling.
My trus/father/family issues are going to be my downfall.
Maybe I should just be alone until I figure out what I truly want.
I don't need to waste his time or mine.
Hmph.
 
Now two guys confess to having feelings for their ex while dating me. WTF? I am just done. I want to be mad but I can't. I never had that kind of power over a man in any capacity. You live you learn. Now, I had to get this depression weight off...
 
Im at a crossroad in our marriage....the GOOD thing?- Im still standing here trying to decide which route to take. the BAD news.. (sigh) I'm leaning MORe to the LEFT... the FAAAARRRRRRR LEFT :eek:
 
i think i need to start getting cut throat 101 about this : You get one shot , i do not bend backwards for you because i'm the prize , all excuses are null & void , & Hindsight is 20/20. Lesson learned ? .. ok ..now ignite bridge.
 
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SO and I got into a huge argument and he asked me--rather forced me to leave his place and find my own way home since I do not drive. He doesn't live in a good part of town and once he saw me outside at 4:22am in a neighborhood where they shoot people daily for fun, he says he'll take me home. The whole ride, he's yelling at me and calling me names...NOTE TO SELF: if you ever think about getting back together, remember how you feel right now, and reconsider!!!
 
*Le sigh...*

Another date with another very nice guy...with absolutely no sparks. But hey, at least I'm meeting nice guys.

Now, if I could just find one where we have the hots for each other AND we click...now THAT will be something...

Waiting, waiting, waiting...a little frustrated, but I know once it happens, it'll be worth it. :yep: Gotta keep positive...
 
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