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My sweetie came up and surprised me w/ flowers and tickets to a play. I thought I wouldn't see him this weekend (he's in connect for med school I'm in NY at nyu)as he has to study for a serious test and so did I. We had a great time and fun break from studies friday night and then studied together sat and sun (funny how we can have a good time no matter what we do). I love him!
 
So..he's been ALOT more attentive and affectionate lately. Is it The Rules....or the Kegelmaster (only been 5 days but still)...?

*gasp* Or both???
 
He's tried it all. Yesterday I got the "i'm not even a good catch, I don't have much to offer. I'm just going to do me and live my life" and I said "I'm cool with that." You want to put yourself down then I'm going to agree with you 100%. Sorry, that didn't work either. coming at me with that woe is me mess.
 
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*sigh*
You are showing your true colors, but what you don't realize is that GOD is showing me how much of a bullet I dodged when all the skeletons came out of the closet!
I know who I am and WHOSE I am, and I refuse to stoop to your level!
YOU ARE THE WEAKEST LINK ! BUH_BYE FOREVER!
 
i told you how i felt , i'll see what your response is because you KNEW what it was, so miss me with the " i didn't know " umm yeah , yeah you did . 5 years and this is what happened.
 
I knw we said we'll take things slowly this time around but I wanna see you!!!!!!
I wanna call you just to hear your voice; I wanna watch csi in your arms then fall asleep. Taking it slow is a good idea because...hmmmm...err...

Owwww lol I sound like a psycho but my nonchalant front is becoming difficult to mantain
 
KPH said:
they make you laugh and feel sorry for them at the same time:lachen:
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Girl...I'm still waiting on that Mr. Harris full story thread......

I really can't believe the stuff he's doing. But he's gonna make himself look like an ***.....cause I'm not falling for the okey doke!
 
crlsweetie912 said:
Girl...I'm still waiting on that Mr. Harris full story thread......

I really can't believe the stuff he's doing. But he's gonna make himself look like an ***.....cause I'm not falling for the okey doke!
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The story hasn't ended yet:perplexed. He called me and told me he was going through some things and told me he loved me and asked if I trusted him. All this i'm a good guy K and I didn't do nothing and I was always honest with you stuff is just tiring now. I told him to keep praying. That's all I got for the brother. Told him prayer worked for me so try it.
 
Awww I love my hubby!

While we were in the car I heard that Erykah Badu was coming to DC for a concert. I was sooo excited but I know he doesn't care for concerts, so I didn't think much of it.

The other day I came home and he said "I have a surprise for you". He GOT US TICKETS.. Yeeeeeeeeeee I am so excited. My first concert since I was about 19 years old. LOL
 
We've been together 4 years and I'm wondering if I'm ready to get married...Don't get me wrong...I love him enough to want to be with him forever....maybe it's the whole planning the wedding thing, lol...the 'having kids' thing....I'm just nervous....

But, he hasn't yet proposed, so what am I worried about???:rolleyes:
 
I'll admit, I am enjoying my singlehood. It seems folks don't know what they have until its gone, or, in my case, grew tired of his BS. Now he wants to fly down to "talk things over". I think I have him where I want him though. :)

I'm definitely looking forward to seeing my old friend tonight. It's been two years since we last saw each other. I'm grateful that he's taking the time out of his busy schedule to see me...his suggestion and on his dime, of course. :D
 
its official , you're just like my ex . what do i look like making you choose me or her , you're going to do what you want to do. but real recognize real and i know that before i know it you'll be checking for me again and you might have another thing coming. the only difference is that you stated it differently than my ex when my ex was being an @$$hole. but whatever is meant to be shall be. But like you said " you're the ish!" lol so have fun
 
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Dear Poster,
Imma need you to get some self esteem and a copy of "He just not that into you". I had one just like him, it only gets worse:sad:
Love,
Nappystorm

He makes me feel like :Blush2::cloud9::infatuated::reddancer: The little things mean the most.
 
Ladies! I need help...there's this lil sexy thang @ work...I think he's interested...how do I HINT that Im interested...I want him 2 ask me 4 my #...idk how 2 hint @ these things w/o seeming desperate...:-) And its against all type of personal rules 2 just tell him...
 
If he wants your number, he will ask...you dont have to hint.

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Ladies! I need help...there's this lil sexy thang @ work...I think he's interested...how do I HINT that Im interested...I want him 2 ask me 4 my #...idk how 2 hint @ these things w/o seeming desperate...:-) And its against all type of personal rules 2 just tell him...
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This is a first for me...
Leaving someone not b/c they've done something completely awful or their a bad person, but b/c the situation is less than mediocre at best.
 
Why do we need to drive to the spot in the same car. You are not my man, i barely know you... Why would I want to be stuck somewhere out there with you?
 
The year started with a little potential, but then it fizzled. Not completely unexpected, but disheartening none the less. I think my occupation/life experiences makes me predisposed to not trust anyone. Even when its just little nuances, its hard to completely trust anyone when you have 9 out of 10 chance of predicting what they will do next. Some women say that GOD is their man, and I think for me that will have to be the case. I am not perfect, but I need perfection so that I can at least feel that I won't be hurt or betrayed. Here I sit on a Friday night writing musings on a message-board. This is not a self-fullfilling prophecy. This IS as good as it will get for me.
 
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