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*One big long a$$ SIGHHHHHH*

Could I be any more disappointed than I am right now? No.

Oh how I wish I could tell my complete story on this relationship with every thing that has take place...I would love to get some really good input. But there is just wayyyy too much backlash on here.
 
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luving me said:
Why do people say you're spoiled if you want things your way??? I mean who doesn't want things their way??? :spinning:
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I tell FH he is spoiling me so I wouldn't be fit for anyone else...no one else will want me. He tells me that I'm not spoiled, just very much loved :kisslips::infatuated:

I'm feeling really tempted for us to just elope but I think my mother would kill me if I did it AGAIN. :look: Less than 8 months to our "wedding date" and I have not done ANYTHING except kinda pick out a dress on the internet that I'm having second thoughts about now.
 
1 year ago he proposed...1 year later he still wants to marry me but i dont know if he's my mr. good enough or my mr right. the only thing i cant stand about him is his mundane personality & his lack of sense of humor *he's a virgo & i'm a libra* he doesnt make me laugh & i cant make him laugh. if he does tell a joke it seems forced & unnatural. he doesnt really talk & we do talk the conversation is so boring. he's so...blah. i cant see myself being with a boring & cold person but he has all the other qualities i like so am i being too picky?

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newports said:
1 year ago he proposed...1 year later he still wants to marry me but i dont know if he's my mr. good enough or my mr right. the only thing i cant stand about him is his mundane personality & his lack of sense of humor *he's a virgo & i'm a libra* he doesnt make me laugh & i cant make him laugh. if he does tell a joke it seems forced & unnatural. he doesnt really talk & we do talk the conversation is so boring. he's so...blah. i cant see myself being with a boring & cold person but he has all the other qualities i like so am i being too picky?

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Girl if humor is important for you then he's mr. right now. I was in a relationship similar to that - he was a good man but he was a little too serious and our humor didn't click. It hurt when we broke up but I can honestly say now that I made the right decision. I need someone to have fun and laugh with - life is too short and challenging not to.
 
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Ok slow down DaPPeR. You met him for the first time on Monday and now, u cant get him off the brain...ughhh i hate this. I just dont want another disappointment.
 
newports said:
1 year ago he proposed...1 year later he still wants to marry me but i dont know if he's my mr. good enough or my mr right. the only thing i cant stand about him is his mundane personality & his lack of sense of humor *he's a virgo & i'm a libra* he doesnt make me laugh & i cant make him laugh. if he does tell a joke it seems forced & unnatural. he doesnt really talk & we do talk the conversation is so boring. he's so...blah. i cant see myself being with a boring & cold person but he has all the other qualities i like so am i being too picky?

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Umm...go ahead and marry him.
You'll need that serious side to handle business and be a real partner in your life. Imagine if it were the opposite; somebody where everything was a joke.
 
How Does It Feel
Now That You Know
You Could've Had Me
But You Let Me Go
You're On The Outside
Of Your Own World
Cuz Someone Else Married
Married Your Girl
 
I met you on a Tuesday....I was out of the office on Wednesday and by Thursday morning you had left seven voicemails....SEVEN...when I got back in the office and answered your call I asked you to please not call me again.....and you said don't worry I'm not a stalker type....Really?...could have fooled me.
 
^^^ Eager to talk to me is calling me the day after we met and leaving ONE message and then maybe calling back a time or two to see if you can catch me.

Leaving seven messages each one more rambling and incoherent then the last makes me think he's not right in the head....seriously...those messages were not from a person with a sound mind.
 
If FH is a "freak"...does that automatically make me a freak? Couldn't it just make me someone who can appreciate his freaky ways? :look:
 
i think i am just ready to cut all communication. this situation not working for me anymore. i will be fine alone. this phone calls "just to check in" are stupid!:wallbash::wallbash::nono:
 
I don't know if a LDR will work for me. I don't want to leave where I am and I don't know if he would want to leave where he is. We shall see.
 
After all my strikes, I think I may have hit a home run! I've been grinning from ear to ear for 2 days now and it's all because of him :D. I've never felt like this before but I like it a lot!
 
so i had to find out through twitter that you're (my friend) is talking to my ex (whom i JUST broke it off with) ---> and this is why ya cant trust folks, just shady...not worth my time...moving on!
 
I was the one, yes I was the one
and yes that was my name
inked up on his arm
and if he loved me that much
and still did me wrong
you feeling sorry, but you are holding on
I was the one, yes I was the one
key word is was, yes I was the one
I figured out he was empty on my own

--- Solange " I Would've Been the One"
 
I dont know what im going to do about this i really dont this is the first time i feel like i dont know what i want
why is everything so confusing now
 
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