***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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I'm so overwhelmed by the fact that women have to work so hard at establishing and maintaining relationships that it sometimes makes me sad...and a bit resentful. Men don't have to do ish but sit back and enjoy the ride! Damn them! :hardslap::hardslap:

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Serenity_Peace said:
[rant on] :mad:

I'm so overwhelmed by the fact that women have to work so hard at establishing and maintaining relationships that it sometimes makes me sad...and a bit resentful. Men don't have to do ish but sit back and enjoy the ride! Damn them! :hardslap::hardslap:

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Yeah... it is an absolute full-time job. :nono:
 
sunshinebeautiful said:
Hmmm... yeah... the writing's on the wall with this one. He's not interested in having a committed relationship. On to the next.
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Girl, you too? :nono:

I've got a list as long as my arm of signs that this dude is just not that into me. I can't put anymore time or effort into this situation if he's not gonna meet me halfway.

Guess we'll just be "text pals" since that's all we do anyway. :rolleyes:

I damn sure don't need to be chasing anybody that doesn't want me.
 
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Does anyone else find themselves frequently alternating between wanting to step up their search for a mate and wanting to call it off altogether?

I swear, on Monday I can be like "hmm, maybe I need to put myself out there more". But by Thursday, I'm like "*** it, I can't be bothered".
 
MzLady78 said:
Does anyone else find themselves frequently alternating between wanting to step up their search for a mate and wanting to call it off altogether?

I swear, on Monday I can be like "hmm, maybe I need to put myself out there more". But by Thursday, I'm like "*** it, I can't be bothered".
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all the time . i like being in a relationship but the issues at hand that come with it just make me say "nevermind"
 
great feeling. ran into my "what if" guy. he told me he was single now. he asked if i was. nope....

and then he asked me to introduce him to some of my cute single black friends. :rolleyes:

yep, i don't think he's my "what if" guy anymore :)
 
Sexi6tresses said:
all the time . i like being in a relationship but the issues at hand that come with it just make me say "nevermind"
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You know, it's not even the relationships issues that bother me, it's the whole process of dating. It's hard to stay optimistic when you don't know ANYBODY that's having any luck, when you and all your friends seem to keep meeting the same kinds of losers.
 
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Dare~to~Dream said:
Dang....he must be hot s*** on a platter.
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:lachen: I erased that entire paragraph, thought it might be too raunchy for these parts.

I mean, he's not FINE or anything, but I do think he's a very attractive guy. I was drawn to him the first time I saw him, but it took a year and a night of about 2 drinks too many for me say anything. But it's not even really his looks, his swagger (for lack of a better word) is CRAZY. His personality is cool, throw in the fact that he is the best father I know and it doesn't surprise me that he's so popular with the ladies.
 
MzLady78 said:
:lachen: I erased that entire paragraph, thought it might be too raunchy for these parts.

I mean, he's not FINE or anything, but I do think he's a very attractive guy. I was drawn to him the first time I saw him, but it took a year and a night of about 2 drinks too many for me say anything. But it's not even really his looks, his swagger (for lack of a better word) is CRAZY. His personality is cool, throw in the fact that he is the best father I know and it doesn't surprise me that he's so popular with the ladies.
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Oops, didn't realize you deleted it. Lol. I was just :perplexed by reading that...so I figured he must have something going for him.
 
Dare~to~Dream said:
Oops, didn't realize you deleted it. Lol. I was just :perplexed by reading that...so I figured he must have something going for him.
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LOL. No problem.

I don't know, my girl who introduced us said that a lot of women in their age group (she's about to be 40, he'll be 44) are just bold like that these days. He's a really good guy, but obviously you wouldn't know that just meeting him, so the fact that she would be that blunt is mind-blowing to me.

That's why I keep saying I wanna come back as a man when I die, LOL.
 
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That's why I keep saying I wanna come back as a man when I die, LOL.
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My favorite lines from the book, Passport Diaries are: "In my next life, I'm definitely coming back as a man. So what if they're not in touch with their feelings? Who needs feelings when you can have all the sex you want?'
 
from "Space Heater" by Geggy Tah

...If your heart is large this little tugboat
will pull you pull you to where you want to go.
Pull you pull you to where?

Our solar system is just a teardrop in the eye
of a rare bird who nearly never cries.
Our solar system is all behind the eyes
of the one you love
Who's your space heater tonight?...


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from "Love is in Love" by Geggy Tah

...Love is deeper than loneliness
Love is nature at its best
Love is deeper than emotion
Love is in love all alone...
 
MzLady78 said:
You know, it's not even the relationships issues that bother me, it's the whole process of dating. It's hard to stay optimistic when you don't know ANYBODY that's having any luck, when you and all your friends seem to keep meeting the same kinds of losers.
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I understand, it just ends up getting old very fast
 
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Shooooot forget a woman- ain't nothing like a n1gga scorned.... dayum dude, build a bridge and get over it. :rolleyes: He heard I have a SO and now he's talking siht about me to everyone. Really? You're like 30, idiot- grow up. :ohwell: You can't possibly [attempt to] hold me down without staying down yourself you crab-barrel a$$ n1gga you. :look:
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Met a guy who's interested in having a committed relationship...hes nice...so far so good...but he's 2 yrs younger...what u ladies think about that? waste of time?
 
MzLady78 said:
Does anyone else find themselves frequently alternating between wanting to step up their search for a mate and wanting to call it off altogether?

I swear, on Monday I can be like "hmm, maybe I need to put myself out there more". But by Thursday, I'm like "*** it, I can't be bothered".
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Yeah chile... :nono: I was all gung-ho at the top of the year like this year I'm gonna meet MY Mr. Right, revamped my online profile on a couple of sites, made plans to go out to Meetups... but then once I encountered some of the usual dating B.S. I was back to feeling like, Damn, I'm tired of this half-stepping ish, and I'm ready to call it off.

*sigh* Then I realize that my vision of Mr. Right + the family I want to have is too important for me to give it up. Every time I turn around someone else is boo'd up, getting engaged, married, or having a baby. I'm not ok with having another year go by and I'm no closer to having the life that I desire. So I'm still pressing forward, no matter how frustrating it is.
 
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