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Don't sit around moping on V-day...treat yourself to a facial or attend a V-day single's event:-)
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Yeah I have someone in my life. I just hope he is home on time for the day...what he thought this was? I didnt sign up for no long distance relationship. He needs to come home to mama like yesterday :lachen:
 
You know you've been single too long when....you are reluctant to buy a single cucumber in the store:blush::look:


Its probably just my own durty mind but I was paranoid about what the other people in line are thinking...sad I know
 
life is too short to be unhappy and too long to just settle. i'm opening myself to love again and i cant wait to see where it takes me.
 
Well, new dude thinks he's falling for me to fast (punk) and wants to slow down. He forgot he was the one with all these plans and crap. Mr. Harris was pretending not to know why we are in the position we are in which is me having no desire to do nothing but reply to an email every now and then. He thought it was simply from last week but I gave him a list of his B.S. and now he's acting like his feelings are hurt. Didn't I say the list had HIS B.S. on it. Guess he thought I was that caught up. He was warned from day one that i can forgive a lot but please have stopping sense. He never stopped so I had to stop him. Why do they wait until you have exhausted all feelings for them in order for them to drop on their knees asking for forgiveness. Yes, I forgave him but explained that's all I could give is forgiveness. No go on boy...do you. That's what you said you wanted now you are more than FREE to do you.
 
It's one thing when life is good and youre just feeling good about everything... it's easy to take in lessons on building strength, loving yourself, managing hurt feelings and bad emotions effectively, etc. But when you are actuallly challenged--someone breaks your heart into a million little pieces, it's not so easy to put into practice all those things you learned.

HOWEVER, I'm realizing that I actually AM putting things I've learned to practice. It just doesnt FEEL like it because I guess I am still placing some emphasis on my FEELINGS. But my ACTIONS show that I have learned a whole lot. I'm getting better and stronger every day. In spite of my heartbreak, I've been eating well, strengthening my friendships with others, taking care of my body and keeping my distance from the heartbreaker. I tell myself I am worthy of the best life has to offer every day and I continue to treat people how I want to be treated....

When I was much younger, my feelings and emotions were the CENTER of my existence, they determined EVERYTHING I did no matter how negative it was. Not anymore. Thank GOD.


Anybody heard that song by Byron Cage called "Goodbye"??? It is a MUST HEAR.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZct0_JGBxY&NR=1
 
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I just got off the phone with this guy from blackpeoplemeet and he was so thirsty... asking me if I like dogs cuz he's getting ready to move and buy a dog and wants to know if I would be comfortable with a dog in case our relationship progresses, dude what? I don't even know your last name, to hell on how I feel about dogs. He was talking all this marriage talk...it's just funny to hear a guy who really wants to get married...I mean not funny but you know what I mean... I might meet him out somewhere tonight...if I don't post no more..y'all tell my mama that I went out with a guy from bmp so the search can begin there...lol
 
I've been trying to get over my high school crush for a few months now; I had no expectations but friendship. We were FINALLY able to meet up today to have lunch. A scenario of events happened:

1. Today was his first day of class so he had to cancel. I understand; I'm in school too; you can't miss the first day.

2. He said I will call you after my class and we can go out. His class began at 12:30pm; it is now 7pm.

I'm so glad that I found other things to occupy my time. But yet I found that from 5p to 7p; I was waiting for him (although I did take a nap).

I guess that means; that he didn't want to see me. I won't be contacting him anymore. And if we ever speak again; I'm going to tell him off.

MEN!


ETA: He just called me; I'm going to go off.
 
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.... gotta admit it, we are pretty sh!t hot in bed together. He just 'GETS' me. Oh my days, he's amazing. I haven't been able to stop thinking about him and the sex all day. I love how he makes me forget about all my body hang ups and makes me feel confident and sexy. Hmmm...
 
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I didn't snap on high school crush after all. I find that I really didn't care and spent most of my time laughing (AT HIM). I'm really pass him.

Actually to be honest, I don't know what I ever saw in him to begin with; he's not that cute, broke (or cheap), exactly my height (5'7); which I found that I really don't like men exactly my height, plus he has the lying politician mentality (you know broken promises). Ugh, I'm pass him.

Bye-bye
 
I need to cancel a date. I'm just not interested in this dude. I'm such a punk. I can't build up the nerve to do it. arrgghh...
 
Maybe mothers do know best.

I just got a phone call from mama with the opening..."I want you to take my motherly advice...are you still seeing Mr. Affectionate?"

She called to tell me that she thinks I lack respect for him and she does not want me to be like my father who is short-tempered, impatient and always critical of everything. She supposedly heard this from a little birdie (I'm guessing my sister). She won't say.

I fear that she is right. I am expecting perfection from this man and I know that if I wanted to I can walk all over him and he will allow it. I enjoy having that sort of control but also fear that I will hurt him. I am SO critical of everything he does and always brings up the fact that he isn't that or doesn't have this in place or he lacks X, Y and Z in his life.

I had to bite my tongue but I needed to hear this. If I continue acting like this I may end up losing a good man who wants to love me unconditionally.

Thanks mom.
 
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Had to take a break. It was too much for someone that Im not with. Good guy but too busy for me. Mmph he had all of my attention but couldnt make time, so I decided to fall back, and he made time when it was convenient. Now I don't care as much. I hate this limbo but I need time to miss him or at least have him miss me.
 
It never fails!:nono: As soon as I think things are going great with us, something happens to test the situation. How crazy is it that 3 people from my past show up this week and being a good girlfriend I tell you and you claim you are not mad, but become MIA all damn day!:angry2: If you were upset you should have said so because I was in the process of telling them to step off anyway. Now you've just opened up the door for them and now I'm all confused. Imma let your arse cool off, but in the future if you can't communicate to me then this is not going to work. You have one more strike buddy.
 
Why does he keep asking me to call him "Daddy"...I'm leaning towards doing it to shut him up, but if I start at something simple, eventually I'm going to be doing a lot just to shut him up...hmmm
 
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