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Keshieshimmer said:
@HAIRapy

Wait what happened? I wanted to respond but I was on this site on my iPad and still wasn't used to the typing. Hope you get everything figured out and do what is best for you =)
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Keshieshimmer I'm sorry... I deleted it. I'm just feeling kinda messed up right now... not even confused. I know it had to be done, but I'm just used to him being around, ya know?
 
HAIRapy said:
@Keshieshimmer I'm sorry... I deleted it. I'm just feeling kinda messed up right now... not even confused. I know it had to be done, but I'm just used to him being around, ya know?
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@HAIRapy, sounds like you and I might be in a similar boat. :bighug:

I'm trying to accept that there's going to be good days and bad days and that it's normal. Yesterday was a disaster but I know where I went wrong. So, I'm not going dwell on it, I'm just gonna to keep trying to move forward.
 
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It's funny you say that. I got into the bed last night and remembered that I had only had a tiny snack bag of chips all day. I have no hunger at all. :(

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MzLady78 said:
@HAIRapy, sounds like you and I might be in a similar boat. :bighug:

I'm trying to accept that there's going to be good days and bad days and that it's normal. Yesterday was a disaster but I know where I went wrong. So, I'm not going dwell on it, I'm just gonna keep trying to move forward.
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Yes. We'll be okay though. I keep trying to remember the bad times and reminding myself that it needed to be done.

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I stay at home and you go out and work, yet you come home and untie my shoes because you know I am tired from staying up to do homework.....You don't even realize how many "phone call" credits you received for that one.

Lord, THANK YOU for blessing me with this man. That's all I can say is Thank you. :yep:
 
Soo, it appears my instinct was right..eligible black men know they are a hot commodity and proceed to act like they are rare endangered species..We went from sniggling and giggling and spending time, to one word text messages and unreturned phone calls..*delete*
Im actually thinking about deleting my online profile..too much frustration and disappointment

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The finest dude I have ever seen (through pics) is texting me. My shy arze don't even know what to say. I am shy and he has 10 times as many friends as I do on facebook, and 75% of them are these hot chicks. Gahhhhh

Maybe I need to fall back, this dude is definitely not in my league, he seems so open, and I have trouble even letting my family in sometimes.

This happened last year too. The hottest guy on campus (seriously) got my number and we were texting but I just let him go cuz I thought he would think I was weird. Now we avoid eye contact because I would avert my eyes anytime we saw each other.

I am a strange girl, lol.
 
He makes fun of me because I bring my own pillow to his house. He tells me to use one of his but I don't want to mess up my hair on those cotton breakage monsters :look: This weekend though he was sleeping on my pillow all.the.freaking.time! I'd look up and there his big ol' head was, pushing mine off my own pillow.

So he's laying down on it again, watermelon head creating a canyon in my pillow. I say to him hey, you really like that pillow huh? I'll get you a case like mine. He was like "no, I don't really like this pillow, I like you. And it has your scent so I lay on it."

He's so cute. But still, get yo head off my pillow!
 
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I wish this guy was calling/texting me now. Today was such a... not good day for me. I know he's probably still working. He took a week off from work and says he's swamped. I wish we lived closer so we could spend more time together, assuming he even wants to. I rather stay at his place tonight.

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You made it clear that you don't want Sh*t to do with me but you are calling my phone. What the point? SMH. (ON BLOCK LIST)
 
chickle ok my love Im sorry but I have to call you out.Don't you ever ever write or say he isn't in my league..Your smoking hot I just have a feeling about that.The fact he wants you and is texting you says alot..allow yourself to enjoy that bc you just don't know how many girls would give up their first born to be in your position that you so easily can trash bc your fly like that..ok carry on..
 
Im such the natural flirt when I'm in the mood.I got a call at work from a man who is over a social service program who I left a vm for.Well we were chatting and he was like Im so tried they have me doing all types of stuff but I think they use me so much for my looks..I followed up bc he is a christian man and said well thats a good thing they are just using the God giving talent ie looks..all he could do was laugh a bit and I could tell it made him blush.I ended the call by saying well have your wife or whatever keep your energized he sorta laughed at that as well..I will get info I want from men..we have chatted before but he seems to be an ok fellow and he made sure to say call me anytime for anything...man it would be funny if a dude found me while I was going through my dry spell.
 
Is tired of playing this game. Do you give a damn or is this all a big joke? I care about you and I'm just getting mixed signals.

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I guess it started as quickly as it ended...a little disappointed BUT I thank God Im not attached! Would've been nice though. I guess I rubbed you the wrong way but I just don't know how to relax and be myself.
 
really random thought: I hate that you've seen me cry.

Grant it, it was 3 years ago but your memory is too vivid and exact. I never remember anything. I hate that you remember everything. You still remember the day you met me when I was 15. Weird. You are one of the few that knows how sensitive & fragile I am, because you've experienced it. Don't walk on eggshells for me. I don't know if it's good or bad that you do everything according to how you assume it will make me feel.....I can't read it. I don't know if it's games or the real thing....

You know too much.....
 
GoddessMaker said:
@chickle ok my love Im sorry but I have to call you out.Don't you ever ever write or say he isn't in my league..Your smoking hot I just have a feeling about that.The fact he wants you and is texting you says alot..allow yourself to enjoy that bc you just don't know how many girls would give up their first born to be in your position that you so easily can trash bc your fly like that..ok carry on..
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GoddessMaker :hug2: Thanks, you don't know how much better you've made me feel. I wish I had people like you in RL surrounded by me
 
barbiesocialite said:
really random thought: I hate that you've seen me cry.

Grant it, it was 3 years ago but your memory is too vivid and exact. I never remember anything. I hate that you remember everything. You still remember the day you met me when I was 15. Weird. You are one of the few that knows how sensitive & fragile I am, because you've experienced it. Don't walk on eggshells for me. I don't know if it's good or bad that you do everything according to how you assume it will make me feel.....I can't read it. I don't know if it's games or the real thing....

You know too much.....
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barbiesocialite, I do this. It's how I relate to people naturally, especially people I'm close to. It's very important to me that I be able to predict their actions and responses to me. It's a very time consuming process to be in a position to do this, but it's very comforting to me. It's people-pleasing for the shy and sensitive soul. :yep:
 
rafikichick92 said:
@barbiesocialite, I do this. It's how I relate to people naturally, especially people I'm close to. It's very important to me that I be able to predict their actions and responses to me. It's a very time consuming process to be in a position to do this, but it's very comforting to me. It's people-pleasing for the shy and sensitive soul. :yep:
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I see. That makes sense, he is a people-pleaser aka a kiss a$$ (not you-that's what I call him tho lol). He usually turns into a$$hole when it comes to women tho.... but then again, with the exception of my first boyfriend I've never flipped out on one person as much as I occasionally flip out on him. He inspires the crazy b!sh in me. He said he doesnt like it when he makes me upset. I guess, for him learning to adjust to my emotions is a lot easier than DUCK & RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! :lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
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@barbiesocialite what are you afraid of? That he will use your emotions against you?
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hmmm his nature makes me nervous. He is King Charisma. This one has game for days. Can smooth talk his way into and out of any and everything. My mother has always commented how people are drawn to him because of his charismatic nature. He's also a bit of a commitment-phobe, even though he doesnt think so.....

I used to joke that he was the JFK to my Jackie-O. lol He's an extreme extrovert and I'm an extreme introvert. I'm very suspicious of anyone that's so good with people the way he is....Certain things I don't mind, it is what it is and comes with the territory of being with someone like him. But there is a line, I'mma be damned if I'm gonna be the one that gets played..... I don't want to be just another random girl on the list...
 
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chickle don't mention it..just walk with that gorgeous body,omg hot hair and that smile you have to wear Prada shades for bc it blinding white.See dudes who have alot of hot chicks on their jock know they could easy tap those chicks and they would happily give it up but most dudes with any sense want a lady who is different and what you think is weird is actually authenticity that separates you from the sea of airheads we live in..
 
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