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Etherealsmile said:
@MzLady78 @Bellatiamarie are y'all watching Aladdin? I'm watching right now. Sipping on some Cabernet sauvignon :yep:
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Etherealsmile, I only made though about an hour. Damn wine. :lol:

My mood has really improved over the last few days. I'm so focused on looking for a new job and moving out. I'm also thinking about pursuing an HR certification. If the teaching thing doesn't work out, I wouldn't mind staying in that field, but I think I'll have outgrown the HR Assistant role by then. And I definitely don't want to stay in Legal Recruiting.
 
One text from him and I think I did a backspin on my bed right now LOL...patience is a virtue I guess. Its nice to know he was thinking about me.
 
Him: for real (after being sent to VM)
Me: BSer
Him: Calllllll meeeee!
Me: I don't do BS!
Him: Ok, I won't bother you anymore.
Me: O_o
 
All4Tris said:
Him: for real (after being sent to VM)
Me: BSer
Him: Calllllll meeeee!
Me: I don't do BS!
Him: Ok, I won't bother you anymore.
Me: O_o
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So he's not gonna bother you anymore because he knows all he was bringing to the table was BS? In that case, thank your lucky stars!
 
From an Article I was reading:

Here are three important conversations to have before considering committing:
  1. Are we seeing other people? Bite the bullet, don’t make the assumption that you are the only woman and please have this conversation. It doesn’t have to mean the end of a relationship necessarily (depending on what the outcome is); it may just mean you give it more time to develop.
  2. Does Commitment Mean Marriage Is In The Future? I believe two people can have a committed relationship and not necessarily want marriage to be the end result..the last thing you want is to get in too deep with someone who does not have compatible values as yourself
  3. Why is commitment important?If it is important for you to have this conversation, let him know, BUT be prepared to back it up with facts. Is a commitment really what you are seeking at this point in your relationship and why
Good advice:yep:
 
LOL dang Gemini's! So demanding smdh. He invited me to come and watch his kids play next Friday (well not his kids but kids that he coaches). Im so indecisive which apparently bothers him...hopefully the invite still stands.
 
Last night didn't go how I wanted AT ALL. Hell, you didn't even show up!

But it was partially my fault. And today you had me smiling like usual. And I can't wait to see you. Two and half days is too long lol.

Sent from my pretty red Inspire, excuse the typos!
 
I'm kinda pissed at this one guy I'm talking to.

I had been ignoring him most of the day cuz he cuz he was being flakey yesterday. I know he only started texting me today because he wanted me to come over. He's been trying to get in my pants for a minute, and I haven't even allowed him to kiss me. I'm not a prude and there's nothing wrong with him, I just think he needs to be taught some patience and self-control. Anyway, the plan was to ignore him until I had the time talk to him about his flakey behavior, but then I started my hw for this healthcare mgmt class I'm taking.... and I was so lost.

I have no experience with mgmt/accounting/finance/ whatever. So I saw he had sent me another msg asking me if I was free... and I thought to myself, maybe he can help me with my hw (he's an MBA student). Its hard for me cuz I have no background in this, but I'm sure it'd be easy-peasy for him.

Why does this knucklehead tell me no? In no uncertain terms. And I asked him why, and he says there is no way I can come over to his house to do hw. Never mind the fact that just last wk he was begging me to come over and even told me that I should come finish the paper at his place and sleep over afterward. I'm very irritated.

I have half of a mind to delete his number from my phone, but I'm trying to develop the willpower to not contact guys without resorting to those sorts of measures.
 
I have been having these recurring daydreams of my future.I'm smiling alot,I have a great SO and I'm great with life.It scary to think optimistically.I want that future badly and if that means sitting here alone for some more years then so be it.I don't want to become a over mileage used car in the dating relationship area..
 
About to go to a broomball game with a girlfriend to see what there is to see; the guys in my classes have a somewhat uncanny fascination with winter sports. :look:
 
Just told me he's taking me to Disney World and getting a hotel with TWO beds because he wants to be nothing less than a gentleman for me.

Sings to self If you ask me, I'm reaaady....

:love4:
 
GoddessMaker said:
I have been having these recurring daydreams of my future.I'm smiling alot,I have a great SO and I'm great with life.It scary to think optimistically.I want that future badly and if that means sitting here alone for some more years then so be it.I don't want to become a over mileage used car in the dating relationship area..
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@GoddessMaker...I follow your posts and just wanted to let you know that I am sooo rooting for you to find the love you deserve. Some man is going to be blessed to have you as his mate when that time comes. Keep the beautiful spirit you have and you will definitely attract the man that deserves your love. :yep:
 
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Theo said:
I have half of a mind to delete his number from my phone, but I'm trying to develop the willpower to not contact guys without resorting to those sorts of measures.
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I think you'd be doing yourself a huge favor if you deleted it. Dude wouldnt even try to help you nor score points by helping you but wants booty? Naw......:nono:
 
NYAmicas said:
I think you'd be doing yourself a huge favor if you deleted it. Dude wouldnt even try to help you nor score points by helping you but wants booty? Naw......:nono:
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I know right? In what world does that even make any sort of sense? So rude. These guys out here are just BLOWING me!
 
Theo said:
I know right? In what world does that even make any sort of sense? So rude. These guys out here are just BLOWING me!
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That sucks, I do love that in NY there are plenty of options. Please dont settle though and good luck on your hw.
 
My date last night went well, though we both agree we're better off as friends. We're too much alike and I wasn't physically attracted.:nono: But he is a really sweet guy and I enjoyed the intelligent conversation so I'm glad I met him. My search continues and on the plus side I can always use more guy friends.:yep:
 
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