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Seeking8Rights said:
It's amazing how you instantly get on the defense when I bring up an issue that needs to be work on. Almost like you cannot handle someone telling you that you need to grow up. Even after 8 years, I'm not scared or moved by your mean looks and piercing stares. Dude I'm as strong as the come, it's in my blood. The women in your past may have been intimidated by you thus allowing you to control them, but I'm not.

What's even more amazing is seeing your face as I'm candid and direct about how your actions impact, me and how people view you on the outside. You sitting there with a sour mouth staring at me was pure comedy. What you thought I was going to bite my tongue, give you pass because you were raised without a father? Nope not me dude.

But when I ask you whats next, you looked as though you seen a ghost....he mumbles in pout "nothing". Then I say "how about cuddle?" :lol:

See I can confront you and love you at the same time....that's what love is and like the bible says "As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another." My love for you without fear and is deep, you have no idea. God put us together for a reason.

If I didn't care about you as a human being and desire to see you continuously evolve for the better then I wouldn't have married you.
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he is such a live saver! i ran out of time to get my baby her cupcakes to take to school and he went and got them for me! i love him so! he always comes through! meanwhile, i still haven't heard back from her dad (aka ex-husband) about her birthday.....
 
Keshieshimmer said:
Are you sure it is appropriate for him to get this student some chocolate covered strawberries? I know life isn't fair but none of the other students get something right?
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Yes, it's appropriate. We run everything by the principal before proceeding. He does something for all of the students in our homeroom when their birthday comes.

ETA: I probably wouldn't have bought her chocolate covered strawberries, but that's his money. I would have gone for something cheaper like a free icecream at lunch, but I'm just cheap like that. :look:
 
Keshieshimmer said:
Are you sure it is appropriate for him to get this student some chocolate covered strawberries? I know life isn't fair but none of the other students get something right?
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That kind of caught my eye too. It's such a well, sensual gift...or maybe I just see them that way :lol:. Last time I had them I was feeding them to my Fh...

But hey if they vote it's appropriate then so be it...eh?
 
I'M SO FREAKING TIRED OF BEING SINGLE.

It's been almost 5 years. Granted, the first two years I was separated, going through the divorce and then healing from the divorce. But even if I subtract those two years it's been 3 years basically nothing.

Is a relationship too much to ask for? DAMN
 
deltadreamland said:
Tomorrow is Mark's birthday. His birthday is the same day as one of our students that he is very fond of, so he's coming in the morning to bring her chocolate covered strawberries and a card. He informed me that he will tell her it's from both him and me. That's sweet of him.

Should I get him something for his birthday, as my student teacher? I would think yes, but I haven't had a moment to shop at all.
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I am confused. Chocolate covered strawberries for a female Is she over 50 years old? If not... All I am saying is other people may not understand. Heck, I don't even know your story. You know the world we live in.


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Well it's over and done anyway. She ate them at lunch time and enjoyed all six of them. It made her day and that is what is most important.
 
But on the flip side, this is one of the things I'm trying to get Mark to see as his mentor teacher; you cannot spend all of your money on these students-but it is his wallet not mine. Like I said, he could have simply done an icecream and called it a day. But I've noticed that he likes to do things "for show". Whereas he has a good heart/intentions from what I can tell, he always has to make a big production out of whatever kind acts he does for people..and I can't stand that. He has to let everyone know and see what he's done and that drives me crazy about him.
 
deltadreamland said:
But on the flip side, this is one of the things I'm trying to get Mark to see as his mentor teacher; you cannot spend all of your money on these students-but it is his wallet not mine. Like I said, he could have simply done an icecream and called it a day. But I've noticed that he likes to do things "for show". Whereas he has a good heart/intentions from what I can tell, he always has to make a big production out of whatever kind acts he does for people..and I can't stand that. He has to let everyone know and see what he's done and that drives me crazy about him.
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LOL, I had an uncle like this. EVERY SINGLE Christmas, he had to give out the most elaborate gifts to everyone, I was a kid at the time and I LOVED IT! The rest of the family was annoyed by it saying that he was always showing off :lol:

*Sigh* R.I.P. Uncle Mickey
 
IM AT THE LIBRARY AND THERE IS THIS DUDE THAT IS FINE AS ***!! LORD PLEASE LET THIS SEXY *** **** approach me!!! EVERYBODY PRAY PRAY PRAY!
 
Agggghhhh! WHY is it that every single frickin time we are supposed to hang out or do something....something happens that prevents one of us from being there?!?

*sigh* and I got all dolled up for you today. And you KNOW I don't do this makeup, overlystyled hair, perfume...thing.

But its ok. For the few minutes I did get to see you the look on your face made it worth it. Just wish we had more time. But *shrug* I already know.

Will be waiting by the phone tonight for our usual conversation time.... :)

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It really takes a cool, confident and PATIENT individual to deal with distance between two people in a relationship. In my case, it's long distance because he works out of state.
 
You came over before you went to work and played a couple hands of Uno..and then left...Im proud of my restraint and new found willpower..because you are so handsome to me.. Even if this doesnt work out, I have to work on setting the tone early with whoever Im interested in.

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I like it when he randomly uses the "M" word......

*lemme not get too happy before I start reading into ish*.....

it's still makes me smile tho.....
 
He's planned a "really nice date" for tomorrow. It makes me a little nervous. I wish he was my boyfriend.

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I knew it. So we've been chatting it up for a few hrs. and man....

I really wish today had gone the way we wanted.

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ChasingBliss said:
As many years as this has been happening to women, I dont understand why they still do this. Men crave relationships in prison to get through their hard times. A woman will love them and take care of them and bring them stuff. But when they get out...it's like a kid in a candy store...women every where. They know exactlly wtf they're doing. Too band many women get caught up. I've actually heard a dude say, they latch on to the desperate lonely women...you can use them all the way through your bid. *smh*
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It reminds me of something my mom has often said: men almost never stay with the one who helped them get through their "rough times". Many men cannot stay with a woman who has seen them at their weakest. They'd rather move on to another woman who doesn't see/know their weakness...
 
omg this wk has been absolute madness. school is kicking my @$$ and taking names LOL

he popped up this wk.... i was still kinda annoyed by him so i was a little chill. then i remembered how cute he was and my willpower started dwindling :lol:

i'm such a wimp
 
Incognitus said:
It reminds me of something my mom has often said: men almost never stay with the one who helped them get through their "rough times". Many men cannot stay with a woman who has seen them at their weakest. They'd rather move on to another woman who doesn't see/know their weakness...
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Yup, or they see themselves as settling. And when they get where they want to be, they think they are entitled to better (usually finer looking) women. They dont really think about ish else...
 
I woke this morning thinking about my first and really only pure love.I remember him asking me to be his girl for a 30 days and on the 31st night I asked him aren't you forgetting to ask me a question you ask every night and he asked me again and I said yes.He was so sweet and loving never mean never angry.I just wish I had met him when I was older bc I would have been able to really experience him.He left me bc I couldn't get out of the house ever I was 14 he at the time told me he was 20 but then finally said I can't lie to you Im only 18 but you were so mature I didn't think you would date me.Man I only wonder if I will ever get another chance at love.He respected me when I told him no I wasn't given it away and he didn't make me feel as though I was wrong.

I wonder what he is up to now probable really successful,married and with child..he was a strong man honey complexion a man that defended his aunt when his uncle would beat her..man I hope I get one just like him.
 
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