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i'm considering putting sexier pictures up on my dating profile. i think it might help in getting the type of guys i want. compared to other girls' profiles i've seen, i look like im headed to church in the pix i have up.
 
I'm really trying to feel sorry for this Amber Cole child on Twitter. Where her mama at? She is steady flirting with celebs, cussing, and talking about her haters :ohwell: Better yet, where is her daddy and the belt?
 
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You havent changed...I am so tired of you acting confused..last night was the last straw....I am hurt, fed up...im tired..I almost made the newest episode of Snapped...I want you out of my life...seriously...I cant take the back and forth..if you are confused about something, call me when you get Un-fu**ing confused...im not a yo-yo...i have feelings and you havent been considering them...

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My ex-gf asked me out....idk.... things tend to get out of hand....

maybe she has a business proposition, she was telling me she think she needs a personal assistant a few weeks ago. maybe she wants to talk salary negotiations, I hope so because that would work well with grad school.... idk... in the mean time, the whole situation is dont ask, don't tell.....you do you, and I'll do me....
 
I guess the 5th time is the charm...

I went out with the the 5th guy I've met online and he's actually normal!!! I'm attracted to him and we have chemistry! Although he was one of the first guys I met when I signed up... It took us the longest to go out on a date. We have GREAT conversation over the phone and in person... Who knew that was possible... Lol! We'll see how this goes!

BTW... My stalker called me over 20 x's in one day... WTH!
 
Gah, I hate hard alcohol w a passion. Why does my head still hurt from drinking on Saturday?!?!? I'm such a lightweight. Must drink as much water as possible. So dehydrated.

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I woke up feeling sad this morning, it wasn't dream or weather induced. Then I did something stupid and now my sad feeling is enforced. Gracious I need to kick this.
 
runwaydream said:
i'm considering putting sexier pictures up on my dating profile. i think it might help in getting the type of guys i want. compared to other girls' profiles i've seen, i look like im headed to church in the pix i have up.
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I've noticed that sexier people attract one-minded men. From my experience (years ago), sexy pics attracted men who were looking for flings.
 
"a man is only as good as the woman behind him."

that's what came to mind when I was talking to my mother about SO going for his MBA or going to law school. I'm not her or my grandmothers, I don't know if I'm that strong in mind & character.....

I don't want to be one of those women that makes a man and gets rolled out on. The women I know aren't but sometimes I feel like they are an exception to the rules. All of them. I don't want to be the exception to the standard and precedent set by the matriarchs in my fam. Yea i know according to my mother that I've been taught better. I'm afraid of failure...

ETA: After thinking about it I think I'm afraid of success too, that's why it's so easy for me to leave my past relationships. I guess it's p*ss or get off the pot time....
 
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After reading the single friends thread, I'm going to make more of an effort to include my married friends in my plans. I don't even consider them alot of times :(
 
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I seriously want to call someone in here out on their posts, but I will refrain. I wish they would just stop playing the I'm so innocent woe is me role, because I know the guy they're talking about and he aint doing all the stuff they claim... smh...
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You might as well call them out but guys put on many faces also. The one I dealt with was manipulative.
 
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tinkat said:
You might as well call them out but guys put on many faces also. The one I dealt with was manipulative.
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We already decided that it was a bad idea to do that in general. Guys do put on many faces, but so do women. I'm sure a lot of folks who post in here "stretch the truth"... but yea we decided to move on from the thread and I'm not captain save-a-negro, so I'm just gonna be quiet and go back to ignoring their posts lol.
 
I get the feeling Zdubs and I are at a somewhat pivotal point in our "acquaintanceship" (can't really call it a "friendship" and "relationship" has the wrong connotations). I feel like we are at that point where we only know each other from school and it defines how we relate to each other. As in whenever we talk it's like, "How was your weekend? Did you study biochem?" Everything is tied back to the classes we're taking, I guess because that's what we know we have in common.

I feel like if we continue on that trajectory, any potential for a relationship will dissipate, especially since after this semester, he is graduating. So perhaps it's time to branch out from just talking about comfortable topics like school. But my overanalyzing self is unsure of the best way to do this. I think I'm gonna go Nike on his butt and just do it, lol. So far, he's been nothing but nice and receptive everytime I suggest something (only 3 things, but still) so that at least is a good sign.

Where to go from here, where to go from here?
 
Went on first date with new guy from online on saturday night..I was a little disappointed to see that I was damn near taller than him in heels..Im 5'1:sad:
Our conversation flowed pretty well, he is very smart, well traveled, articulate and he was a gentleman the whole time..paid for our meals and our games (we went to Dave and Busters arcade)..Im such a big kid, so that was right up my alley.. As far as attraction goes, he's ok..I didnt feel any sparks initially but I would be open to going out on a date with him again....Im just ready to be physically attracted to someone and also connect with them on a mental and intellectual level.
 
It's always something.... I have to decide and pick the right thing to not be shallow about. :lachen: cause something can change over time!
 
"I want nothing more than just to be with you. I also want to take care of you and always be there for you and be your husband."

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lushcoils said:
Idk. I guess I could smile a bit more, but all of this smiling starts to hurt after awhile. :lol: Other than that, I don't get why I'm having such a hard time.
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Well I'll offer my advice even though you didn't ask for it :lol:
but people told me to smile more, and the first day I tried that I attracted a hoodlum! I was so traumatized :lachen:
But what has worked for me is to stop caring, like I just stopped caring about whether or not I got approached, or would ever go out on another date again, if I was cute enough or thin enough to get a guy, just didn't give a FACK......... and it worked.
Smiling and looking approachable doesn't have crap to do with getting approached because I see the meanest looking women getting approached anyway. My mom and cousin look like straight up b!tches, you think that stops them from getting asked out by guys on the street or in the store or at the club? NO
But what they have in common is that they just don't give a damn about men, they see it as the man is the one who is doing the pursuing so he is the one that needs to be worrying about them! and because they embody this it comes off as this confident vibe, which as we all know men love confidence.
 
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