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I seriously want to call someone in here out on their posts, but I will refrain. I wish they would just stop playing the I'm so innocent woe is me role, because I know the guy they're talking about and he aint doing all the stuff they claim... smh...

That is calling someone a liar. :look:


I never said anyone was lying... I said that I don't like when people try to act like they're so innocent and the other person is doing all these horrible things to them. I know that there are 3 sides to every story... his, hers, and the truth...

I apologize for derailing the thread ladies...

:yep: But if it's bothering you, just PM the person and handle it in a private manner instead of turning it into a catfight. Just my two cents. :yawn:
 
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That is calling someone a liar. :look:




:yep:

I'm sorry if I was trying to say you're a liar I would have simply used those words... what I was trying to say is that you're stretching the truth because not everything I've read is actually taking place. A liar in my book would be doing way more than stretching the truth, but hey if that's calling someone a liar than I'll own it and I stand corrected.

Again I apologize for derailing the thread and if it made anyone uncomfortable to continue posting. I will say that we should all remember that the internet is a lot bigger than we think and what we post will follow us. I'm very open online and offline about my life... I'm also a very genuine person, so I tend to have those same expectations of others.
 
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@barbiesocialite awww what's wrong with bowties?

Is he an Alpha? LOL

I was thinking Kappa! Lol

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Nope he's not greek. He's just a narcissist. :lol:

don't get me wrong I like bowties but I always wonder what goes through a man's head when he reaches for a bowtie instead of a reg ole tie. I think it's funny coincidence that both he and my grandfather are wearing them in their fb profile pics!

ETA: I'm tryna convince him to pledge grad chap....he's resistant at the moment, I'm working on him :look:
 
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I think they're so cute. I think guys like them because it's pretty much the fanciest accessory they get as men, or they're just hipsters :lol: I am slowly wearing my guy down on them. I try dropping them in with his other stuff when we go shopping but he always "mistakenly" leaves them in the store. I'd probably think it was weird though if he liked them on his own...IDK why.
 
My friend is cheating on her bf. I want to call her out so bad because this is the only decent bf she has had in a while. He is really nice and he really loves her. Grrr!!!
 
Wants someone. But he's taken. And so am I. Lol. So I shall try to remain happily so to prevent either of us from getting in trouble.

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I think they're so cute. I think guys like them because it's pretty much the fanciest accessory they get as men, or they're just hipsters :lol: I am slowly wearing my guy down on them. I try dropping them in with his other stuff when we go shopping but he always "mistakenly" leaves them in the store. I'd probably think it was weird though if he liked them on his own...IDK why.

awwww. Just don't turn him into a monster that feels himself too much. My SO is Mr. GQ in his own mind-- always has been. This fool is guaranteed to be overdressed half the time and always ready to pose for a camera :lol:
 
I can't believe I'm getting married in less than 2 weeks... our marriage license is sitting on the bookshelf in my still unpacked office lol
 
awwww. Just don't turn him into a monster that feels himself too much. My SO is Mr. GQ in his own mind-- always has been. This fool is guaranteed to be overdressed half the time and always ready to pose for a camera :lol:

It might be too late. I caught him staring at himself in the mirror the other day. We stayed at a hotel with a full length mirror on the wall and he was standing there enjoying the view. I mean really just checking himself out :lol: Or we'll be on Skype and I can tell he's staring at himself in the little window. I already told him I'm both vain/fly enough for the both of us so he needs to relax. His still dresses pretty boring though.
 
Okay so I had two dates this wknd.

The first one was with a guy who I wasn't really interested in at first. I thought he was really arrogant and full of himself, but.... I'm actually a little more interested in him now that I know a little more about him. He's missing one of his limbs and uses a prosthetic (I'm actually kinda disappointed in myself that I didn't realize that until halfway through our date... I like to think that I'm really observant.) But ironically, it doesn't weird me out or turn me off, actually it makes me like him more cuz I'm impressed at everything he's accomplished despite the fact. Yea I know, I'm weird. Like he was a valedictorian in college, and I'm wondering how he typed his papers and all that with one hand, you know? I tried to ask him about it, but he said he didn't want to talk about it :ohwell:. Ordinarily I would be worried about his ability to protect and provide, but I don't really see that being an issue with dude.... he's an I-banker and I get the sense that he's really resourceful and resilient and thinks he can do anything he wants to do which is cute. But he's a total alpha male which I usually don't do very well with. Like I just met him and we already bump heads a lot. I dunno. We'll see what happens. I enjoyed our date. I would go out with him again.

My 2nd date was with my crush :love:. He is such a sweetheart. Just a total gentleman, I mean he opens and closes all doors, pulls out chairs and all that. It kinda caught me off guard... most guys don't do that these days. Anyway, it was nice date. We actually talked a lot, about a bunch of different things. I like the fact that though you can tell he's very confident, he's not flashy and arrogant. He's got a quiet sort of confidence. He doesn't brag or namedrop which is really endearing, cuz so many people do that up here. The date was nice, and we even started to set up plans to hang out later this week, but it ended kinda awkwardly. He was dropping me off, and... sigh... :rolleyes:... he leaned in for a kiss and I gave him the cheek. I dunno why... it just felt like the right thing to do at the time. I dunno, he's cute, but I just wasn't thinking about kissing him at the moment :lol:. Anyway, he texted me a little bit later to let me know that that had never happened to him before. I told him I didn't know what he was talking about, and he was like "that cheek turn move", and I STILL didn't know what he was talking about, it was really awkward... cuz like I said... I didn't even think twice when I did it lol. I didn't put two and two together until MUCH later and I was like FRICK *facepalm* he was trying to REALLY kiss me! Doh! But you know, I dunno if I would do it differently if I could go back though. I feel like my momma taught me better than to go around kissing boys all willy-nilly.

Oh well. I hope he calls. :sad:

The thing is, I like him and I think he's cute, but I didn't really get any butterflies. It was just a date with a cute guy. Still he's one of those guys who you really don't pass up if you can get them. Honestly, he's an INSANELY good catch on paper. Really fit... impeccable resume and I think he might come from money. He's really smart too, just from talking to him I think he might even be brilliant... and he's also very hardworking which is a good combination. I honestly think he's gonna be very wealthy in a few yrs.... If I was looking for that type of lifestyle he would be a really good look, but that type stuff matters less to me these days. My priorities are shifting.

That's one thing I do like about being single and dating around, you have the opportunity to really sort out what's important to you long term, and figure out what you want and what you need....
 
^^^ I let my friends know that they can date my ex, however, I reserve the right to sleep with him anytime I want because I had him first. Needless to say, I don't have an issue with this. There is ONE ex that with get them sliced and diced though and they know who he is.
 
It's very triffling. Did she ask first to see how you may feel?

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I dont know if they went out yet but I told her straight up I think that's some skanky mess but Im not tripping too hard over it since I was never in love with him but:ohwell:. She claims she wouldnt care but that's some straight up BS as she will fight over a man.

I feel she'd go out with any male who offers her a meal and a bottle of liquour and that's type hoish and desperate to me. I cant trust hoish and desperate.
 
^^^ I let my friends know that they can date my ex, however, I reserve the right to sleep with him anytime I want because I had him first. Needless to say, I don't have an issue with this. There is ONE ex that with get them sliced and diced though and they know who he is.

I couldn't even read your whole post. I died at "I reserve the right to sleep with him at any time". :lol:

Back on topic:: Sharing is caring, but that stops with clothes, food, money, and my extra bedroom. I can't hang out with someone my friend dated and potentially slept with. I've been striking out left and right lately,but I'm not that hard up.

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I couldn't even read your whole post. I died at "I reserve the right to sleep with him at any time". :lol:

Back on topic:: Sharing is caring, but that stops with clothes, food, money, and my extra bedroom. I can't hang out with someone my friend dated and potentially slept with. I've been striking out left and right lately,but I'm not that hard up.

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I can't either. I know where some of those vajayjays been and it's not pretty.
 
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