***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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Tonight Imma let him trick me out like a $5 hooker. I know he's knee deep in concentration so he could graduate, but dang....I need to "graduate too". :lol:

I may have to get him drunk so I can loosen a brotha up and not think about the books.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
Here it is in WHITE again :ohwell: The ex-friend got a called and needed to vent to me tonight. I can't help.:nono:

He gave her brainwashing 101. These are the words he said.....
1.All these years and no man has ever committed. You must have been doing it all wrong. Let me show you the right way to live life. We live good,travel and love unconditionally.

2.How many men have you dated?And look you have nothing to show for it. Follow me.

3.Do you think it's better to sleep with a man and recieve nothing? You must like giving it up for FREE? Payday is every night with me.

4.In order to build a house you have to have a builder. You surely can't build a house alone. Think of me as the builder, i have the tools and make the best foundation.

5.As women age there is a man shortage. If you're going to share, why not interact and enjoy the benefits of me with other women. Sistergirlfriends it is called.

6.Blackwomen waste too much time dreaming on whitemen that would never look that them. Let me introduce you to whitemen that want you and we can get all the years of oppression with pay back in cash.

7.The body was designed to release, when you close your eyes it all feels good. Think of me doing it.

8.Do you want to work for the man for the rest of your life? Time to retire from that 9-5 and join a winning team.

I can't even remember the rest....

She has been turned out!
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Chile! I Know I'm Late But Hot Damn. I'm Younger Than Your Friend And Would Have Side Eyed This Corny Sh*t. Please Tell Me She Didn't Fall For This Crap.
 
About to get ready for Date #1 with Match #3. It will be interesting because this date is actually close to my age.:ohwell: All my previous dates have been with guys 5+ years older than me.
 
ugh I am so confused..... I wish there was a button I could press to see if a guy was the one. I am tired of first dates.

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FINALLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY someone that moves at my own pace.:dance7:

Let's meet in public places for the next 5 dates.
We can do criminal and background searches together in the coffee shop.
He has a 3 month rule :giggle:
I was happy to hear him say children shouldn't get introduced until the 1 year mark.
 
So I decided not to cancel my date tomorrow...... I have another 3 first dates coming up next week.



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What ever happened to the couple that had that big engagement in Atlanta where the man gathered their friends and families in various rooms at a hotel (I think the four seasons)? The photographs went viral.
 
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What ever happened to the couple that had that big engagement in Atlanta where the man gathered their friends and families in various rooms at a hotel (I think the four seasons)? The photographs went viral.
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there was a thread in OT asking this same question earlier this year (or maybe it was last year). Apparently they finally got married but it was low key.....
 
I went out again last night. Had a lot of fun. Two guys asked for my number, one is an engineer, the other is another med student. They were pretty cute, but I don't see myself pursuing anything with them. I'm still holding out for the really cute guy I met last wk... he hasn't called yet, but I'm hoping I run into him again.

There was some random drama.... I ran into an old friend who I dated briefly in undergrad, but it fizzled out when we went to different cities for medical schools. He has a gf now, and she was at the party. Nothing happened, but I guess his gf was upset that he was talking to another girl or somthing. We had been dancing for like 2 seconds and then she sends this really aggressive minion looking girl to intimidate/interrogate me. I thought that was kind of odd. I truly didn't understand what the fuss was, but then my old friend pretty much told me that he didn't really trust himself around me either so.... :perplexed

He also told me he had been FB stalking me which I was kinda flattered by. No one had ever admitted that to me before (he's really cute btw)

Anyway, random right? I was... perplexed, but I just left it alone cuz it sounded like he had some stuff he needed to sort out in his head and I really am not looking for drama. And I'm glad he was honest. If he's really trying to build something with this girl, I'm not going to mess with it, especially since I'm NOT looking for anything serious right now.
 
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What is up with this agency and pairing me up with Pisces men?!:ohwell: Three matches in a row. I don't want to restrict guys by birth date but I may have to.:nono::perplexed I keep running into the same problems with each guys.
 
I blocked not only you, but everything and anybody that has ties with you. I guess this is really the end this time although I have a feeling you are still going to try to find your way back.
 
I'm glad you realized you were wrong and you're gonna make it up to me. Wonder what it is you have planned.
 
This debate will go on forever our diet and work out regimen will never be the same please accept the fact that I do things differently don't frown on how I diet. I've been doing it for years and I get the results I need. Thank you for your concern :kiss:
 
Another one of my friends from college just got married. She's the third in less than 2 months. All of them were in bad relationships before they found their husbands. They all seem so happy with their new husbands. I'm really happy for them.

...it gives me hope :yep:
 
So within the past couple of days,
a student asked me for directions on campus. Older man said have a good weekend to me at work. At the gym today, some lady's kid starts smiling at me and later says good bye to me. Older guy from my sports league said hi to me and started a conversation with me. Again some older men, by their truck outside as I walk to Whole Foods asked me, "Can I have some of your water?" (Note to self: Don't walk around with water bottle in when walking by certain men.) Random older dude at Whole Foods starts telling me about his dry hands and asked me to smell the lotion he just tried on.

Although I side eyed a few of these interactions, this is the most I've had interactions/approaches with random strangers in one day. Apparently, I'm making myself more approachable. So when is a quality, attractive, guy my age going to approach me and ask me out? :perplexed I'll wait.
 
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