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What a difference a day makes. He told me he likes me and I did the same, now I feel like I can relax a little better now. He's so sexy, sweet, and smart. I hope he doesn't F this up.
 
A guy sent me a message with is number talking about he knows how to lay the pipe. If one of yall is interested, can pass the number on, cause I aint interested :look:
 
I still dream about him.
He still crosses my mind.
I still imagine the future as though he were still in it.

I still think about him.
He still lingers in my thoughts.
I still picture us together as though he'll be part of my tomorrow.

Is it him or is it me?
Is it him I miss?
Is it me who is missing?

I linger in an emotional purgatory for sins I know not...
 
He gets on my nerves a great deal but when he took the chance of surprising me by waiting by the school gates to catch me after class he gained cool points.........then got on my nerves again.
 
We had the best convo last night, lol almost 2 hrs. It's way too soon, but I can see myself falling deeply in love with him. All he wants to do is make me happy all I have to do is oblige him with that request. I never met a guy who would make time and effect in such a sincere way. I can't wait for our first date and for him to cook for me soon after that. I need someone to pinch me.
 
Today's our anniversary! It's been just one month :lol: but it's truly been the best month ever. I'm so glad you forced your way into my life. :lol: But seriously, I'm so glad you kept trying and never gave up, even though I was SO not feeling you at first. You're so special and you make me feel like I am truly OK the way I am. I always felt there was something about me I had to change in order to be loved. But no, you love me just the way I am. And I love you just the way you are. Can't wait to see you tonight!

Honey, honey
I can see the stars all the way from here
Can't you see the glow on the window pane?
I can feel the sun whenever you're near
Every time you touch me I just melt away

Now everybody asks me why I'm smiling out from ear to ear. (They say love hurts)
But I know (It's gonna take the real work)
Nothing's perfect, but it's worth it after fighting through my tears
And finally you put me first

Baby it's you.
You're the one I love.
You're the one I need.
You're the only one I see.
Come on baby it's you.

You're the one that gives your all.
You're the one I always call.
When I need you make everything stop.
Finally you put my love on top.
 
Incognitus said:
I still dream about him.
He still crosses my mind.
I still imagine the future as though he were still in it.

I still think about him.
He still lingers in my thoughts.
I still picture us together as though he'll be part of my tomorrow.

Is it him or is it me?
Is it him I miss?
Is it me who is missing?

I linger in an emotional purgatory for sins I know not...
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This is exactly how I'm feeling...

The one that got away syndrome is kicking my ar*e it is ridiculous. In my whoooole 24 years of living lol, I can honestly say walking away from him is probably my single regret. I never regret things. Ever! I'm the 'everything happens for a reason' person but damn!

Like he said our problems weren't that deep to breakup. At the time we were just insecure. I know I really hurt me and brought up his abandonment issues when I brokeup with him but...I dunno...

I was so scared and focused on being hurt while I was with him I didn't think of how much it would hurt not being with him.

I miss how we would look a each other and smile. Not a cheesy grin but a content smile a 'I wouldn't wanna be anywhere else.'

I miss being the person that brightened up his day and made him happy. I miss him making me happy.

I'm trying to move on, I really am. We weren't together that long but he really left his mark.

*Le sigh* I refuse for the next one to get away from me like he did. I will not self sobotage anymore relationships!
 
@RarityFluttershy

I went out with a guy last weekend via the matchmaking service I'm trying. We clicked on a lot of stuff like hobbies, movies, books, international events, wanting a family etc., but I felt (aside from the lack of physical attraction on my part), we didn't connect on a practical level. He certainly liked what he saw in me, but I felt he was only seeing one side of me. I enjoyed our date, but we disagreed over things I feel we need to agree on to sustain a potential long-term relationship leading to marriage and children. I just didn't know how to articulate this.

So I turned to my astrology books (and my mom:grin:). Luckily I remembered his birthday, texted him for his birth time and pulled up his chart and compared his to mine. Come to find out, his Sun naturally brings out my Ascendant [artistic side], but were he to experience my Sun [practical side] it would be disaster. Obviously these are both parts of me, I can't deny a part of myself.:perplexed His Moon and Ascendant also form challenging aspects to mine. Not to mention all the squared aspects between our other planets generally speaking, which mean challenges. I've talked to him since our date and I can see these potential challenges just waiting in the wings and I can tell he's just not what I need nor want in a relationship.:nono: The downside is I can tell he's really into me.:giggle:

If you want me to get sign specific, feel free to PM me.:yep:
 
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I'm so excited to do some living this fall. I started a fellowship program and my group mates are fantastic. Not only do I feel in my element with them and the program, but I love that we are planning to do things together (and have already). Looking forward to stepping outside of my comfort zone and make new friends.
 
barbiesocialite said:
I don't understand...finding a good guy is not rocket science......

I'm not even that nice and barely a good girlfriend......it's like UN negotiations tryna get me to agree to go on and a date and actually get me to show up :nono: :lol:

IDK, sometimes I think the problem is that some when are too nice for their own good....
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For some reason, this post make me crack up. I do not necessarily agree with your first sentence; however, I am inclined to agree that some women are too nice for their own good!
 
Had the cutest conversation last night. We are making plans for date number #2 on Sunday and it seems that he is trying to put some thought into it. I am reminding myself to take it slow and avoid the physical for the moment because I am super attracted to him. UGHH

Spoke to one of my friends to tell her about our date. She was excited but reminded me that I am a serial relationship killer. Its always so interesting to know what your friends think about you.
 
I know I said I wanted to lose weight....

but I felt some kinda way when he asked me why I was eating cake and suggested he take me running up somebody's mountain :rolleyes::lachen:
 
I wonder how long I would have to let the dishes sit in the sink before he thinks to wash them. It'd probably be way past my "eww" threshold.
 
Incognitus said:
I still dream about him.
He still crosses my mind.
I still imagine the future as though he were still in it.

I still think about him.
He still lingers in my thoughts.
I still picture us together as though he'll be part of my tomorrow.

Is it him or is it me?
Is it him I miss?
Is it me who is missing?

I linger in an emotional purgatory for sins I know not...
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This is where I am in life it sucks
 
I dont like you..i hate that I keep running into you..I wish you would disappear permanently. I try everything to avoid you, yet you are everywhere I go.. Its like you single me out..Please remove yourself from my future..

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My co-worker is absolutely beautiful on her FB pics. Someone is going to be really disappointed if they meet her online and then see her in person. IJS...
 
You really hurt my feelings this week. Sometimes I wish I could go back to the CBB I was for the last 15 years. I felt so much better, hardly anything bothered me...if anything other folks was all emotionally bruised up. God I miss those days.
 
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