***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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He's supposed to be joking, but I believe he really has told some friends about me already...nobody knows about him except LHCF :lol:
And then the joke last night about getting me a plane ticket to visit his fam for Thanksgiving...
We're supposed to meet again tonight. I'll try to slip in some serious conversation topics in between karaoke songs...
 
Ran across some photos online of this guy I used to deal with. Like d@mn, what the hell was I thinking/smoking???? I almost threw up in my mouth just a little bit.

Growing older and wiser is the bomb dot com.
 
babyu21 said:
I really do but now that I may actually have to make it happen I am getting nervous. No one has had this much potential since 2008. :lachen:What's a girl to do??
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Let it ride and allow things to play out. I was the same way. I've been working on myself this whole time in preparation for a stable and healthy relationship and now that I'm in one okay what do I do now? Enjoy yourself and allow a potential new friendship to progress.
 
VelvetRain Thanks, that is exactly what I needed to hear.

Side Note: I hate it when a man gives you the quiz. You know the "I had my favorite meal for dinner tonight. Do you remember what my favorite meal is?" Ummm, No. I didn't know there would be a quiz so I didn't take notes and I was drinking when you told me.

I told his favorite meal was Meat and we both laughed cause I seriously had no clue. Geeesh...I forgot about this part of getting to know someone. Has this happened to anyone else?

We have been talking daily since our date, which is a very good sign.
 
babyu21 said:
VelvetRain Thanks, that is exactly what I needed to hear.

Side Note: I hate it when a man gives you the quiz. You know the "I had my favorite meal for dinner tonight. Do you remember what my favorite meal is?" Ummm, No. I didn't know there would be a quiz so I didn't take notes and I was drinking when you told me.

I told his favorite meal was Meat and we both laughed cause I seriously had no clue. Geeesh...I forgot about this part of getting to know someone. Has this happened to anyone else?

We have been talking daily since our date, which is a very good sign.
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I went on a date before and this guy actually wanted to play a word association game. :lol: I thought i was in a movie! We went to his restaurant and he cooked for me and everything. So I thought the date was going well until the game. He started shouting out these words and asking for my first response. I was all nervous. :lol: He never called so I think I didn't answer correctly. I got free food tho! :lick: Men can be silly.
 
Ok, I took a little hiatus from here because there were some changes. Potential SO, that I semi-moved out here for because of the LONG distance, decided to do in his "man-cave" thing (I think he's going through some kind of mid-life crisis or depression) and get ghost for a while and now ex-SO is back in the picture (LOML) and I think (hope) it's going to work this time. He's expressed his feelings and his intentions and how he was being unfair to the relationship and to me. NOW (if all goes well), I'll be in a LDR again, because I'm on the other side of the country from ex-SO. What kind of crazy ish is this???

Now, (ex?) Potential SO is showing signs of life again, but um.......might be too late, but I'm keeping all options open until December when I go back to the East Coast. I'm exhausted. Le sigh...
 
So I got a text from Match #1 saying he can't stop thinking about me. I'm totally flattered and think we have a great connection but I'm nowhere near ready to be exclusive or anything.:nono: He's at the end of his contract with the agency but mine is just beginning, lol. He's aware of this, btw. I want to meet as many guys as I can and I need to get clarification on a few things from him if we ever were to become boyfriend/girlfriend.:ohwell: I just don't want to lead him on and let him believe I'm feeling something I'm not.

Date with Match #2 will be very interesting indeed!
 
If a man asks you what's your type, then he starts telling you he's your type. Does that mean he's interested and is just making sure he has a chance?
 
You play with my emotions. Friday, I asked if you wanted to kick it Sunday and cook/watch football. You said, "We'll see, I'll get back with you." That, to me, is bull****, and means that if something better doesn't pan out, then you'll get around to me. So I made plans of my own. You simp on me all Saturday/Sunday, being sweet and telling me I'm the 'perfect' woman, asking introspective questions and telling me you love my logical point of view.. ... and then ask me to come over to chill. :rolleyes: I tell you that I asked you previously to hang but you left me clueless, so I occupied that time. Now you are hitting me with one word answers and sarcastic *** responses... really? So if I don't follow your schedule and jump at your last minute invites, then I get shunned? *sigh* I can't do this song and dance anymore.. I'm tired.

Then NC dude hits me out the BLUE last night with a text after 2 years... that he's still in love with me. I never knew you were in love with me in the first place, I thought we were friends. 'So how do I get your heart in the same place that mine is?' Ninja I don't know....

Things are never simple, but often tiresome.
 
Um, yeah ok. If you really valued our friendship, you would make an effort. You miss me my behind. Is it so hard to just pick up the phone? Type an email? I do. I'm done with this one-sided thing. Whatever, girl. You will remain at arms length.
 
Ok as promised my eharmony updates. I wanted to wait at least 10 days before I posted about the guys. So here we go…..

Guy 1 is ready to settle down but he seems a bit inconsistent, so he is no longer high on my list. We have a lot in common, but he seems to be taking full advantage of the women on eharmony. Our conversations have been really serious. He is really looking for a wife and mother. I like him as person and find him attractive, but he has not been consistent enough for me.:ohwell: Oh yeah, I haven’t heard from him since Sunday morning. He told me he had busy weekend, and he the only thing that would have made it better was me being there. He is on a really nice career path. :look: Please don’t judge me.

Guy2 is realllllyyyy sweet and I like him so far.:yep: He calls every day, and he wants us to meet next week for a date. He makes me laugh, but I am really afraid to meet him. I really don’t think I am his type.:look: He seems like he has a really nice work ethic and has been very successful in his career. :look: He has stated that he is looking to settle down, so that is a major plus.

Guy3 is really cool. I think he may end up in the friend zone. He did win brownie points for setting and planning our date a week in advance.:yep: That really impressed me, but he seems more like a friend. Oh yeah, he is fine:lick:!!!! He has the most beautiful blue eyes.:look:
 
hopeful said:
^^^What happened? What did she do?
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OK, she broke up with him in May and once he starts talking to me in August, suddenly, she reappears and wants to talk to him about their relationship. The girl never called, texted, FB'd or even breathed his way until I step into the picture. Then all of sudden she's blowing up his phone, wanting to meet up and talk. I'm able to convince my BF that she has ulterior motives; I know her real intentions. Oh, BTW, she called me his "sista friend" which made me :lachen: and :rolleyes: at the same time (he was pissed though).

What annoys me are all these sappy, woe-is-me statuses she puts on Facebook. The chick just annoys the crap out of me; she's too pathetic. So last week he basically ended their friendship. And then her best friend "friends" me on FB (I didn't know who she was at the time). I have a super private page. All you can see is my profile pic and basic info. So now she's got her friend spying on me to get info and send it back to ole girl. It's just a matter of time before she contacts me, and when she does, I already told my BF it's not going to be pleasant for her. I've been waaaaaaaaaaaaay more than patient. Cuz I could have told her off a long time ago, but I let my BF take care of it.

Obviously, she could be worse. But I can't express to you guys how annoyed I am by this girl. :nono: You broke up with him and broke his heart. Get over it!
 
I don't understand...finding a good guy is not rocket science......

I'm not even that nice and barely a good girlfriend......it's like UN negotiations tryna get me to agree to go on and a date and actually get me to show up :nono: :lol:

IDK, sometimes I think the problem is that some when are too nice for their own good....
 
The longtime friend that I've had feelings for just sent me a message from the Dominican Republic letting me know he made it safely. It was really sweet and felt good to know he thought of me.

...just wish I knew for sure he felt the same way I do *sigh*
 
Just 7-10 more weeks and I can finally be with the love of my life. DH and I have been separated (boot camp and AIT training) since Jan of 2011 (8 long months) and I miss him terribly. I've only been able to see him twice in that time frame. I'm trying to get things ready for the marriage/military life while we are apart. I'm excited, and nervous about being a wife. We will be moving to our first place together in early November in a new state. I'm hoping he doesn't deploy soon after :( Ya girl is going to get sew up, a new wardrobe, including new drawls! lolz.
 
so much for hoping to build a relationship:lol::nono: for the next two months my life will be recruiting, interviews, info sessions, homework, exams, group projects, more recruiting, interviews, info sessions, networking events, career fairs.....gets tired just reading that**:spinning::spinning:

sorry...get back to me after Thanksgiving:sad:

I's trying to secure my summer internship and after graduation job. WOOT!:grin:
 
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