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was talking to my roommate (finishing up a phd program, engaged, fiance lives/works in the DMV area, we are in NC.). they'd been dating for 4.5 years and his fiance's parents found out about him a year ago :-O i was like "wow". but they are Indian/expect their daughter to marry an Indian man, so she just didn't tell them until around the time they became engaged.

they are still adjusting to both things (him being white & she having a long term relationship and now engaged without them knowing).

crazy stuff. i'm not close enough to him to be like, "how did that make you feel?" but i really want to know :look: also how did she put him off of meeting her parents for so long?? i'm sure he was understanding, but i'd have been really impatient.
 
I know he says that he's traveling a lot now because he wants to get that out of the way before we start a family, but it's still hard. :-( He's about 2 hours ahead, and needed to go to bed early because he had to be up today at 6a for work. Why did he say 'well I'm about to go to bed, you should probably go to sleep too.' lol It was 8p on a Saturday! lmbo I can't imagine moving over there, and still not having him at home. Hopefully, I'll get to work remote, and I can travel with him. If not, that'll really suck.

Why the hell does my stupid a** ex still keep texting me?! I haven't responded to him in months, but he won't get the message. Move on fool!
 
Both dates went extremely well.

Date 1 and I appear to be on the same page and physically attracted to each other. He even asked for another date while we were still on the first one. BUT the end of the date hug was not all I hoped it would be. It was that half way, tap on the back hug. I was like WTF?? :perplexed: He said he had a hard time reading me to see if I was really interested so he wanted to play it safe. He promised the next time he hugged me it would be the best hug ever. I just hope he doesn't try to squeeze the life out of me.

That isn't the first time I've heard that I w as hard to read. What should I do to convey to a man that I am really interested in him?? Do you ladies have any suggestions?? I need help on this one. :spinning:

Date 2 went better than expected. The conversation really wasn't that great but it flowed well. I am not feeling him as much but I will continue to hang out with him just to see what happens. The end of the date hug was soooo much better. It was that nice double arm, pull you in close to me type of hug.

I don't think I am going to go to brunch with the other guy today. He is acting funny and he is the one that asked me to brunch the other day, but I am kind of tired from all my running around yesterday. So oh well, two out of three ain't bad, and he is the person I am the least attracted to. :rolleyes:
 
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babyu21

Glad your dates went well. Yay! I am so happy for you.

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Thanks. I see that you are also having more luck in the dating department. :grin: It seems now that the weather is getting cooler men are ready to do some serious dating instead of just running around with their boys.

Now if I can line up a few new dates for next weekend I would be golden.
 
You're not going to leave me alone I see.

Sigh, I wish u would back off so I can put it behind me.

But if you do back off, I'm going to be sad. :sad:

I miss you dam. But I can't.
 
Yeah.. He has already planned a date for saturday.... Yay, I feel special. I had to share my happiness somewhere.... He thinks I am calm cool and collected. Yay!

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I've only known you (student/teacher) for 5 weeks and you show me you care more than some that have known me for five years or more.

My son and I drove down to FL this weekend after I got off work. He called me several times while I was on the road just to check on me and to see how the drive was going-it was a 4 hour drive.

He tried to give me my space while I was in FL because he knew I was going to visit my family, so we didn't talk much once I got there.:ohwell: Going a day without talking is not an option (a silent option) for us, so we cut it down to talking about 3 times Saturday (yeah, I know) and about 3 times today. Considering how many times we talk throughout the day, 3 is not a lot for us. :look:

He called this morning before I left FL because we had some professional/school work to do over the phone. At the end of the conversation, he wanted to know what time I was leaving. We talked once on my way home and I guess he did the math to see what time I should be back in Atlanta. Like clockwork, he called to make sure that my son and I had made it in safely from our trip.

I'm gonna hold out on this one until June 2012...I'm gonna hold out on this one until June 2012..I'm gonna hold out on this one until June 2012... Maybe if I keep repeating it, it will happen, right?
 
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I'm on pof just browsing as it doesn't ever seem to render me anything.I ran across this in a guy's profile.I know if can be game but dang this is beauitful coming from a man.

"Treat a woman the way you would want your daughter to be treated. Anything less is unacceptable.”

If only he was in my state and not a student.
 
This has been a great week for me. I have lived to enjoy yet another birthday. Flew home this weekend to visit my family. After only a few weeks of steady dating my now SO asked me today to be his girlfriend in a committed relationship. The past few weeks have been more than a joy. He respects my decision to not have sex before marriage and told me it's not a big deal as he's not pressed about it.
 
I'm finally getting to the point where I realize I need a bit of romance in my life. Got comfortable over the years being alone. Wished the dating pool was better or maybe that's just my perception?
 
And I had a quick coffee date tonight with someone. I couldn't get ready for that date for chit chatting with my student/teacher. I preferred to stay home and just talk to him, but I know that I need to continue to date other people. Le sigh!
 
VelvetRain I'm doing the happy dance for you! Glad your new relationship is going so well, you deserve it sweetie:).

GoddessMaker Your new siggy picture is gorgeous! Keep that up and you won't be single for long.

deltadreamland Good luck making it to June 2012. I'm betting that by Thanksgiving it will be on and poppin' :lol:.
 
I hate the time of the month. My hormones are often raging... physically, emotionally. The emotional part is the most annoying. I found myself longingly looking at an affectionate couple like aaah, I miss that :)
:wallbash: NO NO NO NO.
Time out.
And... why can't I formulate what I'm thinking concisely... with rational words? Rather than beating around some emo bushes to get to my point?? Damn you, Aunt Flo. Leave me alone :(
 
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I'm on pof just browsing as it doesn't ever seem to render me anything.I ran across this in a guy's profile.I know if can be game but dang this is beauitful coming from a man.

"Treat a woman the way you would want your daughter to be treated. Anything less is unacceptable.”

If only he was in my state and not a student.
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If everybody did this dating would be so much better for everybody.
 
He called, we talked, and I am nervous. I have never sweat so hard on a date before in my life. Why did I have to meet him now? This is just not a good time for me...what to do, what to do?
 
babyu21 said:
I really do but now that I may actually have to make it happen I am getting nervous. No one has had this much potential since 2008. :lachen:What's a girl to do??
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Girl quit! You've been waiting 3 years for this? Never be afraid of a blessing. You deserve to be blessed and loved:yep:.
 
This makes no sense. None. It actually makes nooonsense. But it makes me incredibly happy and I think it's real. So we'll go on not making sense in this messed up, crazy world.
 
You are perfect in every way for me. Yes you are and I love you to death...but I swear you could use a clue or two in emotional support. I mean yeah you are always there for me, but sometimes I just want a damn ear, not a mouth full of directives, protocols, instructions and problem solving....*sigh*
 
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