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I find myself fantasizing about our future together (he does this too) But I don't want to get ahead of myself. It's only been 6 months! I feel like this :drunk: in love. I'm young and I need advice. How do I remain rational and not in the clouds in love? :lol:
 
So I thought he was on the phone talking to someone, but actually he was speaking patois, and it sounded so sexy to me.
Every time he passes by, he looks so climbable and strong and I love his smooth dark chocolate complexion.
He says I smile alot and he has never met a person who is always smiling and laughing. He says it's a good thing.
I think I'm back to "normal" with him.
Today I was too busy to talk to much so I'm good, so I think he's still confuse and thinks I'm just being genuinely nice.
I think it's best I keep him in the friend category and be his dream/fantasy.
 
Ahh. He said something totally unrelated that answered my own question. He was telling me that the only person I can depend on is Jesus Christ every one else is imperfect. So, basically I can stay grounded by knowing that he's just a man, thereby imperfect.
I'm so neurotic. This makes sense to me.
 
Why did this fool call me at work AND text me about bringing me dinner only to never show up with the food??!!:confused:

I am convinced he is a pathological liar and I refuse to take part in such foolishness:nono:
 
Curly Lee said:
Ahh. He said something totally unrelated that answered my own question. He was telling me that the only person I can depend on is Jesus Christ every one else is imperfect. So, basically I can stay grounded by knowing that he's just a man, thereby imperfect.
I'm so neurotic. This makes sense to me.
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Thats a Red Flag...RUN.

That's why it makes no sense... its a pre-excuse...who pre-excuses?

"didn't I tell you I was going to disappoint you...why you mad?"

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Curly Lee said:
I find myself fantasizing about our future together (he does this too) But I don't want to get ahead of myself. It's only been 6 months! I feel like this :drunk: in love. I'm young and I need advice. How do I remain rational and not in the clouds in love? :lol:
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Curly Lee
This is normal at any age, I believe. I'm sure you are in the honeymoon stage still and this will last even longer as you do not see him on the daily, am I correct? It's fine, and beautiful to feel as in love as you do, just remain alert and when his imperfections begin to show, just take it in stride (but do not play the fool if you feel that something is not right). Best believe yours will start to show as well :yep:

It's hard to be in a relationship, but so rewarding when you enjoy that person and what they bring to your life. I'm sure the other ladies can chime in :)
 
So this is random and nothing to do with relationships, but I really hate the phrase: "At the end of the day..." IDK why but it gets on my nerves.
 
Softerlove said:
Thats a Red Flag...RUN.

That's why it makes no sense... its a pre-excuse...who pre-excuses?

"didn't I tell you I was going to disappoint you...why you mad?"

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lol no girl I didn't explain it right. I was stressing about something my mother was bothering me with. We read a devotional together and he quoted the devotional, applying it to the situation with my mother.

I thought to myself (didn't say), ohhh maybe I should apply that to you also. I told you I'm neurotic. :lol:


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Curly Lee
This is normal at any age, I believe. I'm sure you are in the honeymoon stage still and this will last even longer as you do not see him on the daily, am I correct? It's fine, and beautiful to feel as in love as you do, just remain alert and when his imperfections begin to show, just take it in stride (but do not play the fool if you feel that something is not right). Best believe yours will start to show as well :yep:

It's hard to be in a relationship, but so rewarding when you enjoy that person and what they bring to your life. I'm sure the other ladies can chime in :)
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Thank you! The distance magnifies every love sick feeling. I'm enjoying it and being watchful tho. :drunk:
 
Hmm, it would be so interesting to know if there were any older, I mean elderly (60 yrs old and up) women on this forum. I would love to hear their insight on love, relationships and marriage. Mistakes they've made, how they've dealt, etc.

I know...totally random but it would be really nice...
 
I just broke up for good with my boyfriend of 5 months on Tuesday and I keep going back and forth over whether I made the right decision or not :nono:
 
toinette said:
I just broke up for good with my boyfriend of 5 months on Tuesday and I keep going back and forth over whether I made the right decision or not :nono:
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What is your gut instinct telling you? Trust your gut and don't spend to much time over analyzing the situation. Try to go out with some girlfriends or treat yourself to a mani/pedi or whatever it is that makes you feel good.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
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:nono::nono::nono:
Well what happen? We need the outcome.....
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SUPER SWEET

Man #1 from this post http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=14125207&postcount=8054

..randomly called me while I was at work Wednesday night and asked if he could bring me lunch. He also texted me the same within a few minutes. I wasn't going to call or textt him back because this arse has made plans with me NUMEROUS times and no show no call SO I decided to text him what I wanted as a 'test' so to speak.

He calls back AGAIN for directions to the restaurant that he could not have been more than 10 minutes from at the time. He was literally on a one way street to the place. He never called back to say anything else.

Now remember, I didn't ask his dumb *** for the food in the first place so I wasn't expecting him to do it. My coworker kept asking me what happened and I told her this was how he did (didnt) do shyt:ohwell:

She wanted me to call and cuss him out but its so not that serious. I cannot understand why he keeps 'pursuing' me when he ain't gon' do nuthin!!:wallbash:

He's SO highschool I can't stand it!! I need him to not ever call or contact me again.
 
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I got two dates this weekend. :yay::yay: Now what should I wear on a warm and rainy afternoon date? I usually like to do a dress but this rain has been awful. I am so :spinning: right now.
 
Had a lunch date today and I really enjoyed his company. I used to be so attracted to him, but not so much anymore. Oh well..........

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Omg. So I'm at dinner (alone as usual) and this mid 30s blk man and woman is next to me. I'm not eavesdropping they just loud as hell. They r "friends" and coworkers I guess. And he is going on and on about how he is a nice chill guy and he just wants a nice christian woman. And he can't find that. In all the dc metro area. Yeah right brother, cry me a river. Talking about what's wrong w all the women he talk to and who isn't on point, yada yada. And his "friend" is cosigning on it, "yea she is mean"

I get sooo tired of hearing these same tired dudes. Its like a broken record. Just say u don't wanna settle down and shut the hell up. Bc that's what the real issue is

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My SO proposed to me for the second time. He knows 7 is my favorite number, so he has 5 more times to ask. He said between the 3rd and 7th time he proposes I'll get my ring. The first time he explained this to me, I thought he was romantically-nutty. But each time he has asked thus far I was not expecting it and go crazy all over again with glee.

He wants to speak to my dad and uncle about our relationship. That makes me nervous as hayell! Given the fact that that I was married makes them leery of men. But, I believe in love and my SO and know our families will get along well.

On another note, it irks the heck out of me when I see a good person stuck with a loser. Here this person is, giving their spouse/SO their 1 hunnit and the other person just acts even more obnoxious.
 
I have my first date with the matchmaking service I'm trying tomorrow and another one with a different guy next Friday! I'm soooooo nervous about my lunch date, yet excited to meet someone new.:grin: I'm not expecting either of these guys to be The One or even my boyfriend. I'm just looking for nice conversation and we'll go from there.:look::yep:
 
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