***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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InchHighPrivateEye said:
I can relate to this 100% Everyone is starting to get married/have babies. I don't know what's wrong with me but I never really wanted to have kids or cared about marriage. Recently, I have realized that I would like to be married because I had an aha moment and I guess I "get" it now. Before it was like "why are people tripping about this? It's not cute :look:" :lol: But even now that I "get" it, I'm not ready for it now. HOWEVER, with everyone around me starting to settle down (and is it weird that Beyonce's pregnancy has affected me too? Like the end of a hot girl, p-popping era? #dontjudgeme for letting Beyonce influence my life), as I was walking to my car yesterday I realized that I sort of feel a void of a void. Like, I don't necessarily feel lonely that I don't have kids and am not married--on the contrary, if I were to see in a crystal ball that this time next year I'd be married and pregnant I'd probably do a wallslide of terror, but at the same time I feel like something is missing. It's weird. Like, I don't personally miss it, but I'm starting to be like, "wait. um....... :look:"
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@ the bolded OMG, thats actually what spurred me to write my original post. I just didn't want to actually come out and say it:look::lachen::lachen: I'm not even a big fan of hers or one that follows celebrity news closely. But she's only a little older than me. And it was just like well d@mn. :lachen:
 
We see each other tomorrow for the first time in almost a month (but it feels like four). Looking forward to good times, laughs, and exploring the new city.
 
metamorphose88 said:
Isn't it the best? My SO stands under the water so my hair doesn't get wet. :lachen: Even though I really, really want him to wash my hair.
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He stood under the water and I washed his hair. :lol: We went as far back as we could, and he pushed me against the wall and uhh..... yeah. :grin:
 
Imani said:
@ the bolded OMG, thats actually what spurred me to write my original post. I just didn't want to actually come out and say it:look::lachen::lachen: I'm not even a big fan of hers or one that follows celebrity news closely. But she's only a little older than me. And it was just like well d@mn. :lachen:
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For some reason her pregnancy is affecting me too. I'm engaged but I'm not ready for kids. At least before Bey got pregnant, it was out of the question for me to have any kids within the next 3 years. Somehow her pregnancy stir up my ovaries and I'm all kinds of confused now, lol

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So dude says he doesn't like to eat places when the waiter has dreads:perplexed Um, this is DC metro area, half the black people here have dreads, are u serious?

Other random comments; we're talking about tatoos, he says he's never gotten one bc he's afraid of commitment. And laughs like its the funniest joke ever and then repeats it again along with more laughing.

Randomly asking me do I ever perm my hair. :nono:

Says, well, he has never "technically" cheated, it wasnt like it was a "real girlfriend"? wtf does that mean:ohwell:

The only compliment you've ever given me appearance wise is that my stomach is flat. On multiple occasions. Yep, it sure is, and you will never see it. :yep:
 
Imani said:
Why do people say long distance relationships are so hard?

I would think it'd be easy bc you aren't in each other faces enough to get on each others nerves.
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No. Not easy at all. At first I thought skype would do. But nope you need to be in the room with someone. It's just a different experience. A different feeling knowing you can touch him. The conversation is different too.We can enjoy each other's company and sit in silence together but on skype we're both rushing to talk.

Last night I just wanted to be held. We were skyping each other looking like sad puppies. :lol: Distance can be hard. Especially when you're trying to build trust. Distance can increase insecurity exponentially. You have to have a very strong foundation to handle it.

The last time I saw my SO was for 2 weeks in July. We're both getting antsy to see each other. I'm trying to plan my flight out to NYC as soon as possible :yep:
 
Keshieshimmer said:
YES!!!! This is me!!!

and yeah where is this yucktastic story SUPER SWEET :lol:
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Sorry if i forget anyone
Here it is...I put it in white cause random eyes may not want to know.:nono:
She wanted me to take her to the ER because now she started thinking about the consequences of trying to beat out her competition. I know women try to turn men out but this is a bit much. I wouldn't have told ANYONE about this. To soothe her pimp man, she licked his inflamed hemrroid until it felt good. Then she turned around and got a UTI because they used honey in the threesome. You shouldn't use Honey in the vagina because it's not pasturized.
 
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Ok SUPER SWEET you taught me a valuable lesson. From this day forward I will stop being nosey as hayle.



Ok I won't be as nosey.

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SUPER SWEET Not only could I not be her close friend, I'm not sure I could be her friend anymore at all. That is a truly gross and vile story. How on earth could she be that desperate and trifling. I would just be through with her.
 
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SUPER SWEET Not only could I not be her close friend, I'm not sure I could be her friend anymore at all. That is a truly gross and vile story. How on earth could she be that desperate and trifling. I would just be through with her.
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And she had the nerve to tell me that I'm being JUDGEMENTAL.:perplexed The competition issue is out of control and consuming her thoughts,actions and judgement.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
And she had the nerve to tell me that I'm being JUDGEMENTAL.:perplexed The competition issue is out of control and consuming her thoughts,actions and judgement.
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Well I would fall back, wayyy back and let her do her thing. I know it's hard to watch a friend make such a horrible mistake. It sounds like she has a psychological problem. No woman in her right mind would do what she is doing. But what can you do? So many bad things might happen to her. Hopefully he will tire of her and move on before too much damage is done. The best thing you can do is fall back, pray for her, and live your life to the fullest. Don't get too caught up in the impending drama, her late night calls, her crying. Keep reminding yourself that she is an adult and she is not your responsibility. It is obvious that she is determined to have this experience with this man.
 
Sitting here wondering what to give my SO for his bday, a man who seems to have everything and says he doesnt really want anything, in fact he says all he wants is me...but like who wouldnt say that??? I want to do more than just give him me, he always has me :lol:. I want to trick him into thinking like "yeah, ok then that's all you'll get" then really surprise him.
 
His words: 'I care for you and I respect you, but I will not allow you to punish me for what previous dudes did. I'm not them'

I definitely owed him an apology this morning...
 
Gym date wasn't too bad. We went for a slow long run and he kept telling me he was so distracted running along side of me.

I wasn't as shy as I thought I would be being all sweaty and having slight hair reversion. It was the perfect gym date :cupid:
 
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What the hell did i just read???!!!!!! I guess that's what I get for not paying attention in class......
Licked his hemroid????? Where is that?? In his butt???
Dont answer please.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
Sorry if i forget anyone
Here it is...I put it in white cause random eyes may not want to know.:nono:
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Noooooooo! I will now go and flog myself for being nosey.

If I knew anyone who told me some mess like that, their name would forever be changed to Anusol or Preparation H in my mind. :nono:




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Ms Red said:
I focused on wanting marriage and kids for so long that I am starting to feel nonchalant about it all. This scares me.
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@Ms Red, I so feel you on this.

For most of my life, if there was one thing that I was always 100% sure of, it was that I wanted to get married and have kids. I mean even as far as picking out dresses, my wedding song, all of it. If someone had told me when I was 23 that at 33, I'd be nowhere close to having either, I wouldn't have believed them. But the truth is, the more time I spend alone (5 years now), the less interest I have in giving up my freedom, the more jaded I get towards men, and the more I believe that it just may not be in the cards for me. I'm done with the cliches, I don't want to her about him coming when I'm not looking, none of it is helping, although I know the people who say these things mean well.

So having said that, I've chosen not to spend any more time and energy on this aspect of my life.
 
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