Hypothetical question
So, you see a guy, that prior to that you've only interacted with professionally, in a nightclub. What happens is you go in early before patrons get there because you're looking for a place for a wedding party to have fun. He is there with the owner and greets you with a hug. You inquire as to how much it would be to rope off a section of the club. It's too much, so you decide that the party will just come back and have fun in the general club. But when you get back, you're informed that they will just let your party have the section. MMk. Cool!
And then when you text the guy---you always thought he was cute but super professional, so the club atmostphere and the hug have you at ease--to come to your section he texts back immediately "I want you."
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See, I think that's hot. I mean, you know, hypothetically, I would think that's hot
But one of my friends was like "I want you? He needs to respect you!" But I feel like, um. He always respects me. He's never been disrespectful. He approached me when I got my job to hold himself out as someone who would give me advice or offer help. We's in a club now
Was the text (and the fact that I was about to like it) wack? Disrespectful? I thought it was hot but I didn't act on it because my friend was like umm (when I say "act on it" I mean flirt with him and dance and let him know I liiiiiiiiiiiiike him, not sex him down right in the club or anything like that--just to clarify)...But my friends are kind of killjoys and I almost started a whole thread on it last week because I was so pissed off!
Lagniappe: I kind of have a crush on this guy. And he asked me to lunch a while ago but I had to cancel so it's not like he never speaks to me in the light of day. I'm not sure why I never tried to resched lunch
I liiiiiiiiiiiiike him. Girl, he was looking so good in that club; that suit was off (not that I don't love a suit) and he was looking fine. Ugh. Hypothetically, I need a do-over.