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Angelicus said:
So an idiot put me on the phone with an indian guy. He seemed really cool on the phone. We talked about ayurveda and vatika (thanks LHCF) and he finally asked to meet.

I thought I was going to go on a magic carpet ride and I was going to have long hair like princess Jasmine but...
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He turned out to be a old, short lightskinned indian. Not to mention...he was old and bald. Did I mention he was old? Why he couldn't be handsome and dark and be named Ravi? Cmon mannnnnn! And dude did NOT smell like Nag Champa.

And you all are going to hear me moan and complain until I get an american date. Tis all.
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:lachen::lachen: im sorry to laugh about this...but:lachen::lachen: I had the scene played out in my head with a good ending.
 
locabouthair said:
You can't always go by signs. Barack is a Leo and Michelle is a Capricorn and those aren't supposed to be a good match but they've been together so long and they appear happy.

I am supposed to be compatible with Leo's and I will never date one again.
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Thats why we take every thing with a grain of salt. as for me, this is an experiment I had to do, and so far im happy.:yep:
 
Some of these ninjas are crazy! I was on the train this morning and this black guy was sitting opposite me but further down the carriage. I could sense him scoping me out and a couple of glances confirmed this but I just continued reading my book. So we approach a station then he makes like he's going to get off, standing by the door, but instead of alighting the train he decides to sit next to me instead. :look:

I didn't make too mich of it and just continued reading, then at the next station he gets off, or so I thought. I was very surprised when I got to my stop to see the same dude staring at me intently! :perplexed I sighed inwardly as I wasn't really in the mood so I walked quickly to make my escape. The dude kept up though, I turned and gave him a look to say, "are you an effin weirdo or what." At this point he looked petrified and proceeded to go back on the train, as clearly he wasn't supposed to get off at my stop in the first place.

Why do I attract these fools? :nono:
 
'I went to Walmart. It was this 1 chick that worked there but she was eating at subway. She was soooo cute. U could tell that she didn't think she is cute tho. Kinda reminded me of u...'

What does this meeeeean? :wallbash:
 
:yahoo:YEEEEEESSSSSSS. He Is All Mines. Not Married Or Seeing Anyone. Today We Finally Had A Chance To Actually Speak For A Little Over An Hour.
He Told Me That I Remind Him Of His Mother:look:(Don't Know If That Is A Good Thing) And That I'm Good Company. He Even Asked My Birthdate And When I Told Him. He Replied, ":scratchchMmmm You're A Pisces Just Like My Mother:lol:". And Yes He Is A Sagittarius.

We Have So Much In Common. Wow It Took Me Three Years To Get The Nerve To Speak To Him And I'm So Glad I Did. He Even Asked Me To Come Back (I Won't Come Back Until The End Of The Month).

:cloud9:
 
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I can't believe this fool invited himself over to my place within hours of meeting me... under the guise of wanting to be a gentleman and help me paint. Seriously dude? Now you're accusing me of being an irate black woman cause I didn't fall for the okie doke. Lose my number.



So now you have an attitude because I'm not interested. What, am I supposed to forget the fact that we work in the same building and you're older than my father? Did you really think you had a chance?

What is wrong with men.
 
Now Im in a good area I hope to be able to find a man.I have a nice place,job is ok and all I need to complete is the ability to date.I wonder if that will happen or if I will always be the old maid..but at least I will be a pretty one.

I need to get this off my chest.I think I like my coworker.He isn't the cutest but I find that I do have a type and he fits the mold.I also notice that when I'm going through certain things and a man does take notice I tend to like them.I wish I could be in a high time like now and find one so I can be even more viligilant about his character.I would hate to be on this site and not get a guy that is to par.Being single for going on 5 yrs is getting boring.I desire companionship that only a man and woman can produce.This is probable why I cherish my lunch dates with my coworker even though I know he is skinny,latin boy who is with a white girl and Im none of that.One day I want to write about my 1st real date,first kiss,first gift,argument and maybe even engagement.
 
I can't believe we're sitting here arguing about when we saw our first crackhead lol!

"Ach, it was in Philly, by the christmas tree"

"No, remember, she was by the bus stop on the rrrrright...it was in Michigan"

"I remember because I was looking for the Arab grocery store."

"Nah, it was in Ohio, after the beach, she was on the rrrright at the bus stop."

"Ech, where ever it was, dat was the foist crackhead."

Family....:lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
The older dude :sad: I mean when he called today I was happy until he started this list:
He doesn't like to be out past 10:ohwell:
He doesn't like onion,green pepper, celery, tomatoes, lets just say fruits and veggies
He doesn't like the room to be any colder than 85 degrees
He doesn't like women who show their feet

Can he borrow 100.00 because his mom is in a home :look:
 
SUPER SWEET said:
The older dude :sad: I mean when he called today I was happy until he started this list:
He doesn't like to be out past 10:ohwell:
He doesn't like onion,green pepper, celery, tomatoes, lets just say fruits and veggies
He doesn't like the room to be any colder than 85 degrees
He doesn't like women who show their feet

Can he borrow 100.00 because his mom is in a home :look:
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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL LOL:lachen:

sorry...
 
GoddessMaker said:
Now Im in a good area I hope to be able to find a man.I have a nice place,job is ok and all I need to complete is the ability to date.I wonder if that will happen or if I will always be the old maid..but at least I will be a pretty one.

I need to get this off my chest.I think I like my coworker.He isn't the cutest but I find that I do have a type and he fits the mold.I also notice that when I'm going through certain things and a man does take notice I tend to like them.I wish I could be in a high time like now and find one so I can be even more viligilant about his character.I would hate to be on this site and not get a guy that is to par.Being single for going on 5 yrs is getting boring.I desire companionship that only a man and woman can produce.This is probable why I cherish my lunch dates with my coworker even though I know he is skinny,latin boy who is with a white girl and Im none of that.One day I want to write about my 1st real date,first kiss,first gift,argument and maybe even engagement.
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you got your place!!! congratulations, girl! give it time... things are working in your favor!
 
danibeeja_gyal said:
I need some dick....
some nice, cares about my feelings, is genuinely interested in me dick. The kind of dick that gets me wet by just asking me how my day went...dick.
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This is going on my mental vision board. (Maybe if I repeat it in my head and think about it enough, it will come true):lol:
 
What am I so afraid of? Really what is it? Why cant I act on my sensibility? Why do I let emotions take me over? Why can I give good advice but have trouble taking it myself?

I am definitely a piece of work....a work in progress none-the-less... *sigh*
 
SUPER SWEET said:
The older dude :sad: I mean when he called today I was happy until he started this list:
He doesn't like to be out past 10:ohwell:
He doesn't like onion,green pepper, celery, tomatoes, lets just say fruits and veggies
He doesn't like the room to be any colder than 85 degrees
He doesn't like women who show their feet

Can he borrow 100.00 because his mom is in a home :look:
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SUPER SWEET Damn! :nono: How old is he?
:lol: :lol: :lol:
 
SUPER SWEET said:
january noir[USER][/USER]
51 but looks about 38 and acts 88:sad:

He made me feel some kinda way and not good way either.:ohwell:
I had to go when he started discussing how to fold sheets and make a bed properly. All this talk about perked coffee vs. instant coffee,what kind of breakfast in bed, and making food soft.
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WHAT?! OMG! :lol: Well at least he knows what he wants! :lol:
He wants you to be his wife or what? :lol:

See, I can relate.. :look:
 
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I need a hobby to take the edge off.

I'm in extreme like with him, but I need something to take my mind off of him before I do too much and ruin a good thing. Keep him on his toes without torturing myself emotionally in the process.

I want to learn how to make feather earrings. Sounds like a plan!
 
We had a talk but I still don't think he understands how upset I was and still kinda am. I think I will better express myself in person, sometimes it is hard on the phone, because my voice says one thing but my face reveals it all.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
The older dude :sad: I mean when he called today I was happy until he started this list:
He doesn't like to be out past 10:ohwell:
He doesn't like onion,green pepper, celery, tomatoes, lets just say fruits and veggies
He doesn't like the room to be any colder than 85 degrees
He doesn't like women who show their feet

Can he borrow 100.00 because his mom is in a home :look:
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Tha hayell?!?! :lachen:
 
I cant wait for our movie night out. I will down the theaters for their exorbitant prices but it's really nice to sit and watch a good movie on the big screen.
 
I hope my mouth or other actions hasn't led to this silence. Again. So tired of fighting the universe. Let the chips fall where they may and let me find a man who knows I'm the one for him and does not hesitate to show me in every way possible. UGH! WTF???
 
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