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TheGlamorousLife said:
are men from the Caribbean really that different from African American men:confused:
all i hear is "Caribbean Men" are possessive, controlling, promiscuous men.

okay, this is what keeps me from speaking with you (and my extreme shyness).
don't know what i'm trying to say; but all i know is i get extremely nervous around you and would like to get to know you better.
everytime i see you it's like the gates of heaven opened up:look:.

yes it is that deep and i know you feel something too just by the way your mannerism is towards me.
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Someone further down the line may have already addressed this, but I just want to say that not ALL Caribbean men are one way or another (just like us!) :)

TheGlamorousLife

My best friend's ex is from Jamaica and he is a sweet, sweet man who treats her very well. I can't explain it; he truly loves her and even though I wasn't sure about the fit, I never said anything to her because it was obvious that he gave her something from the inside. Like, that guy who helps you see how beautiful you really are, even if it's not forever.
Yes, he, like everyone has some flaws. But he is willing to work on them.
 
It was good to seeing you yesterday. I realized how much I really missed you, I could tell you missed me too. I don't know why I was nervous about you meeting some of my line sisters but you were eager to come up to my line sister's apartment for a few minutes (that is where I am crashing until I am through with my thesis). I still love your kisses and yes it seems like it has been forever since you have been here, can't wait till the end of the month when I see you more often. Looking forward to seeing you one more time before you go back to the city.
 
My ex and best friend work in the same field. He's doing me a favor and getting us into a concert for free. I shall be bussing out the pheromones with no remorse. He's already attracted to me, I just want some entertainment aside from the show. :look:



But if my plan backfires I'll be salty! :lol:
 
I've had enough of the foolishness and I hope you arent trying to get money out of me. Dude done played you and his child many times over and you help him co-sign on a loan?! So he's on an ****** cruise while he defaulted & you have less than $100 in the bank after they took money out to last you til he gets back & gets paid.

And this **** is buying a motorcycle!? Watch him vroom vroom while you and the baby sitting there hungry. I cant take this ish right now!
 
On a funnier note:

there are thugs on OkCupid??? :lachen: getting messages from such-and-such city's "fynest"... huh?

Also, got this cute message:

I searched for salsa dancer that loves caribbean food and neo-soul and there you are. Just kidding... I also was searching for someone that is into capital markets :) Learning to be outdoorsy? Im guessing someone didn't get picked a lot when the kids were choosing teams for softball lol

Fake athleticism? [ roll eyes here ] lol

I want to get into the salsa scene in [CITY] though, was into it in Chicago but had to give it up for school. Long term is great but will definitely settle for activity partner if you're really into salsa :)
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Made me laugh/smile. Not at all interested though.
 
Have you ever seen him from the back and get happy :lachen: ?Then the he turns around and you're like:grin: and then your eyes focus and it's
:ohwell:
:perplexed
:sad:
:roadrunner:

Or

He's in front of you and all you see are the hotdog rolls on his head and neck ? Or it looks like a star crunch has nested on the back of his neck ? And why is it that when he turns around and looks at you, he's like OH YEA! :lick:. And with plenty of confidence too.:nono: HE THINKS he REALLY can get it!
:whyme: :ill:

This happend three times today.....:lol:
 
Tomorrow (Friday) is the day. Hoping you will be there, I've been waiting for this day all year.
Not sure what I will say if you speak to me but I'll be happy to just be able to see you:love2:.
I'm so damn nervous:lol:.
 
NYAmicas said:
I've had enough of the foolishness and I hope you arent trying to get money out of me. Dude done played you and his child many times over and you help him co-sign on a loan?! So he's on an ****** cruise while he defaulted & you have less than $100 in the bank after they took money out to last you til he gets back & gets paid.

And this **** is buying a motorcycle!? Watch him vroom vroom while you and the baby sitting there hungry. I cant take this ish right now!
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This situation sounds like a hot mess! :sad:
 
january noir said:
This situation sounds like a hot mess! :sad:
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I had no idea all this was going on.:nono: She was already feeling bad and upset so I turned my phone off so I wouldnt really lay it into her. Dude on a cruise parlayi and you have no money for you and your daughter?:ohwell:

My random thought
I suspected the guy liked me but I def know he does today. Going to have to keep my distance.
 
Damn I love you! You freakin amaze me. I'm so glad that you are in my life. I'm sorry I ever doubted us. But I learn as much about myself as I learned about you during these trying times.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
And why is it that when he turns around and looks at you, he's like OH YEA! :lick:. And with plenty of confidence too.:nono: HE THINKS he REALLY can get it!
:whyme: :ill:

This happend three times today.....:lol:
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:lol: What about when dude looks like Shrek but he licks his lips, puts on the sexy eyes and says in his best L.L. whisper "I want you. And I know you want me too. :lick:"

:look: :look:

:whyme:

:sad:

:look:


:lol:
 
Well, I recently stopped seeing this man that I thought was a nice guy, who turned out to be a "faux" nice guy. I was just reflecting on that situation and it came to me that I really love me. I have run into "faux" nice guys before and really tried to make it a relationship but this time I felt like "I love me more than I even like you" so he had to go.

In my spirit I can just sense that a good man is coming into my life. I feel like I am now ready to receive the love of a good man because I feel good about me and love me.

I will be 41 in a few weeks and I honestly don't think I have ever felt like this before in my life. And it feels so good!!!!!!!
 
Haha not this time dude. If you really wanted to see to me you'd say so and ask me out like a big boy.
 
I dislike him terribly. The nerve of him to act up when I'm having an extra sexy day...fool!

I need to figure out if I'm overreacting though.....but I doubt it. Team ME!

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I just can't even believe she fell for it.... He's in Applebee's everynight and NO HE DOESN"T work there.

And now his friend like a HS schooler asking my friend for my number... UMMM NO!
 
I need some dick....
some nice, cares about my feelings, is genuinely interested in me dick. The kind of dick that gets me wet by just asking me how my day went...dick.
 
danibeeja_gyal said:
I need some dick....
some nice, cares about my feelings, is genuinely interested in me dick. The kind of dick that gets me wet by just asking me how my day went...dick.
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On my phone so no thanks button. Cosign times a thousand

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Lissa0821 said:
Well, I recently stopped seeing this man that I thought was a nice guy, who turned out to be a "faux" nice guy. I was just reflecting on that situation and it came to me that I really love me. I have run into "faux" nice guys before and really tried to make it a relationship but this time I felt like "I love me more than I even like you" so he had to go.

In my spirit I can just sense that a good man is coming into my life. I feel like I am now ready to receive the love of a good man because I feel good about me and love me.

I will be 41 in a few weeks and I honestly don't think I have ever felt like this before in my life. And it feels so good!!!!!!!
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I absolutely love this post! It made my morning :)
 
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