Thank you so much for this. I usually ignore (jk??!!) your posts but this is right on point! lol
Thank you, I remember growing my father would say, I musn't marry man who was not black and (Guyanese), both my parents are from Guyana and if black didn't marry black, you can't find love in your own race, you are not happy how God made you. When my cousin Pauline married her white husband, my cousin was an accountant and her husband was a stockbroker or something and he went to Cambridge University, my father went to see them and he went on and on about how Pauline has such a wonderful husband. The M.P. Bernie Grant for Tottenham would always talk about black affairs and both his wives were white, his first wife was Italian, and they divorced after 20 years, producing three sons, his second wife white Jewish and they were together until he died, another 20 years.
Black men have always said one thing, and do something completely different, if they marry Miss Asian or Miss Middle Eastern or whatever. Black people will turn around welcome her with open arms and say well, she isn't white, but she isn't black either. There is far too much lies and deception in the black communites, we should like what we like and marry what we like. God has given us free will, he gives us all the different races, so we can pick what we want. People want to still push that rubbish down black women's throats, you should date black men, don't write them off etc, etc.
I like ginger beer, that is my favourite drink, root beer when I am in USA, my daughter likes diet coke, she does not like ginger beer and she never will and that is fine. I am not going to argue her into the sunset, she likes what she likes, end of story. All I would say, if you like whatever you like, make sure the person as outstanding qualities and is good husband and father material. We should wish each other the best, if you curse someone else's choice in a husband, why should you get your choice in a husband. Why should you have a happy ending, and you want to ultimate stop another person's happy ending. Regardless of what package the husband is, he is still God's child. You can't have what you curse.
), only white men and, once, an Asian. I've had crushes on a few but a relationship never came out of said crushes
. But as far as dating a YT man.... eh I have too many hesitations for that and it would go against my radical beliefs a little too much LOL
