vtoodler
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Last month, Stanford law professor, Ralph Richard Banks, released a provocative book entitled, "Is Marriage for White People?: How the African-American Marriage Decline Affects Everyone".
In it, he discusses the marriage gap between blacks and other races and the fact that so many successful black women are single. When such women do find husbands, the men whom they marry often come from a lower educational and/or professional background. This can be problematic since most women (of all races) like to marry up. In addition, men tend to marry down and can feel insecure when with a woman from a higher educational/professional background.
For these reasons and many others, Banks advises black women to consider dating outside their race. Due to sentiments of racial unity, however, many black women feel that they must keep to black men. In doing so, Banks claims that black women often end up hurt and alone. Black men have been outmarrying for a long time. Why shouldn't black women exercise their options as well?
What do you think of his book? Do you agree with him, and why do you think that black women hesitate to date outside the race, unlike black men?
In it, he discusses the marriage gap between blacks and other races and the fact that so many successful black women are single. When such women do find husbands, the men whom they marry often come from a lower educational and/or professional background. This can be problematic since most women (of all races) like to marry up. In addition, men tend to marry down and can feel insecure when with a woman from a higher educational/professional background.
For these reasons and many others, Banks advises black women to consider dating outside their race. Due to sentiments of racial unity, however, many black women feel that they must keep to black men. In doing so, Banks claims that black women often end up hurt and alone. Black men have been outmarrying for a long time. Why shouldn't black women exercise their options as well?
What do you think of his book? Do you agree with him, and why do you think that black women hesitate to date outside the race, unlike black men?
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