For real can we get back on subject. This is a great thread and I don't want it to get the clink clank. Q
Me either Q, but it sho' nuff is on the way.
I enjoyed your earlier post too.
For real can we get back on subject. This is a great thread and I don't want it to get the clink clank. Q
I seriously must have missed something, ya'll know when I go to sleep...I miss stuff
Great post! Great experiences! This is the kinda stuff that encourages me. lol You must practice LOA.you are very right jerks are everywhere--church and etc
now im 25 single in the city--and im like a kid in the candy store--not sure what kind of male shortage is going on but my girls and i can pick a different great guy each night of the week--
its funny-- i am really like has there ever been a man shortage--i mean i live in nyc and yes there r gazillions of idiots and etc--but i just dont meet those dudes or run into them--but i dont interact with a man who i feel is a loser--idk--it boggles my mind when women say there is a man shortage im like where---or the pickings are slim---im like really--where?
of course u may have an idiot approach u or etc but if i am at a club i know what to expect and if im at our monthly ny urban professionals meeting i know what to expect as well--
idk--when we go out we meet the employed, gentleman who are sane and r really trying to settle--down i will say its interesting i feel like now men r really trying to settle down--and im the one like not yet babe---lol..too many to choose
for exmaple we went to MOMA this wknd and met some really nice guys and im like kewl-they were late 20's well educated, heterosexual, brotha's, sane, employed, no baby mama--and really funny kewl guys who we later enjoyed their company over dinner and drinks--overall great day and evening
i guess everyones experience is different--idk
It's a shame cos this thread did not have to take that turn. Now it will have to go sleep with the fish!!
It's a shame cos this thread did not have to take that turn. Now it will have to go sleep with the fish!!
OK, please say it again! Amen, I've met so many of THESE dudes it's ridiculous.
Right, now...how's it going finding a house cleaner
Um let's see.....when are you sending my baby to me, she needs to come and save me from these boys
MissScarlett....you know our birthday coming up! We're both gonna be 32! We need to celebrate!
Girl first appearances are not always the truth. Men can play sane for a while.. we know what you meant.And that's all I was saying. I have met the guy(s) who seemed to have their **** together BUT was still on other stuff.
I know, let's get back to schooling the young girls, oh wait you are a young girl and a secret clear person
have you fried that chicken at work yet like OAHQ asked you to? huh?
*taps foot* we've been waiting on you to prove yourself. YOu can't use that 'vanpooling' ish anymore, I mean you've worn that hustle out with with the clear people...time to get a new one
Right, now...how's it going finding a house cleaner
Um let's see.....when are you sending my baby to me, she needs to come and save me from these boys
its funny-- i am really like has there ever been a man shortage--i mean i live in nyc and yes there r gazillions of idiots and etc--but i just dont meet those dudes or run into them--but i dont interact with a man who i feel is a loser--idk--it boggles my mind when women say there is a man shortage im like where---or the pickings are slim---im like really--where?
i guess everyones experience is different--idk
Shoot wish I was young....turning 30 in a month! Nah haven't fried up some chicken at work yet..come on now..
But since we are trying to steer this thread in a positive path....I made some lettuce wraps(chicken) last night that will rival PF Changs....just thought I will share
And that's all I was saying. I have met the guy(s) who seemed to have their **** together BUT was still on other stuff.
I would like to apologize to the greater LHCF community for allowing the conversation to deviate from the topic. You all won't here anything more from me OT in this thread.
Girl first appearances are not always the truth. Men can play sane for a while.. we know what you meant.
for real thoughI have seen the bolded happen time and time again. Darn that. Yes I love my husband but I love myself too. I don't have time to worry about him and what he is doing. Shoot with kids, church, work, trying to grow my hair, oil pulling, oil face washing, body for lifing, cooking, cleaning, turbo jamming, trying to use up my hair products and the other million things I do I won't be chasing after Mr. Queeny20. And he knows this too. I know I am a good woman, a great wife and do all I can to make him happy. If he chooses to throw everything away over some tail, then that is on him. Q
Yall some old mamma jammas in here.
Ditto. That was also part of my point about my dad's quote on youth and vices. It's very easy to look like you have your 'ish together when your young and youth maintains your fionnesss. It's a fact that people associate more positive things with beauty. As it fades it's easier to see the little things you may have overlooked had the man been leaner, cuter, younger, etc. etc.
Not to mention men aren't stupid. You have bums printing up business cards online because they know women are waiting a lil' longer to give up the nookie. Dudes got long term game plans, they aren't outing themselves until the 3rd quarter.
Shoot we the same age and I still think I'm young. Claim it girl, claim it!!! Q
Yall some old mamma jammas in here.
Well my birthday is Saturday! What yall got on my drank?
Back to the OT: I think there is a 1% chance you might find a decent guy at the club. He could be one of those guys who is a designated driver for his boys, or someone who just popped in to check out the scene. Bottom line, I never went to the club expecting to find a SO. I was there to have fun and get my dance on. Sometimes I met some cool dudes and became strictly friends but never anything more. Q
Umm hmm. Most dudes aren't gonna show you they're crazy straight from the gate. They wait until you're all comfortable and emotionally invested to let the crazy leak out.Girl first appearances are not always the truth. Men can play sane for a while.. we know what you meant.
I agree, but I have a question.
Are the guys who go just indecent? And could guys assume the same for women?
Aww, yo birthday this Saturday?! We gon have to have a virtual party via chat!
I agree, but I have a question.
Are the guys who go just indecent? And could guys assume the same for women?
I agree, but I have a question.
Are the guys who go just indecent? And could guys assume the same for women?
In a phase I would say. I wouldnt classify those men as indecent, they just arent ready as a whole, especially those that frequent a lot.I agree, but I have a question.
Are the guys who go just indecent? And could guys assume the same for women?
Just like a neggra to classify something based on chicken.I don't think they are indecent, but people go there in a specific frame of mind and with specific intent in mind (to have fun and shake their booties). It doesn't mean that you can't find a good guy at the club and it doesn't mean that every guy you meet outside the club is decent (cuz' dudes in the club eventually have to come out ), BUT that environment is more likely to invite a high concentration of people in a particular mode and often not looking for a serious relationship.
I think of it like this. I can buy fried chicken in a white neighborhood, but the likelihood that I'll find a fried chick joint, and several from which to choose is higher in a blackanese neighborhood. Why? Because of the higher concentration of people who themselves will also be looking for some fried chicken. I'm sorry, I'm hungry, and my mind is on food