Ya'll are making some good points in this thread.
I'm really talking about the women who forget and lose all of their friends, stop maintaining friendships every time they get a man.
I know I have been guilty of doing this a lot in the past. It's something that just ends up happening when I'm not paying attention, and then one day I look up and realize I have put myself on an island and isolated myself from friends and family.
It's hard to change course, but one thing that has helped me is being single and having other things to focus on. I think that's really important.
I think women need to be open to a different reality.
This is interesting. Can you elaborate?
I just recently had a conversation with one of my guy friends. I asked him if he would get married again, and he asked me the same question. I told him that I have days where I feel like I would, but other days when I am leaning heavily on just being single and having companionship when I want it and just doing me on the days I don't feel like being bothered.
He said he's starting to feel the same way,
and IF he got married again, he wouldn't rush into it.
At least she put her foot down when ol dude said her name wasn't going on the deed. You know she could've rationalized that, if she was able to justify all the rest to herself.
She'll be out a good amount of money, but she'll be able to start from her current position with no hangers-on! Unless she takes Mr. Scammer McBrokey back
Well let's hope she learns not to make this mistake again! I hope her real name wasn't used, because other men may seek her out just to see if they can also hit a lick.
I'm also guessing she didn't tell anyone in her personal life/circle about this guy or this arrangement. There was not one person that could have told her this wasn't a good idea??? She probably wouldn't have listened to them anyway.