CarLiTa
Well-Known Member
Meant to add:
What I really like about point 1 is that it's applicable to non-romantic situations and really forces you to take ownership of your social life.
When I'm feeling like: "oh man, I haven't done anything in X amount of time," I have to ask myself:
Did people invite me out?
If yes, did I go or flake out?
If not, then *I* need to invite *them* out.
Easy-peezy.
There was a nice story about this older divorced man who would throw dinner parties and have people invite friends he didn't know so that both he and his guests would get to meet new people.
What I really like about point 1 is that it's applicable to non-romantic situations and really forces you to take ownership of your social life.
When I'm feeling like: "oh man, I haven't done anything in X amount of time," I have to ask myself:
Did people invite me out?
If yes, did I go or flake out?
If not, then *I* need to invite *them* out.
Easy-peezy.
There was a nice story about this older divorced man who would throw dinner parties and have people invite friends he didn't know so that both he and his guests would get to meet new people.