Smiley79
Well-Known Member
This topic is so crucial in regards to having healthy relationships. This topic is a spin off of the "How to Spot a Narcissist" thread. Codependents and Narcissits often times go hand in hand; so while you may learn how spot a Narci,you also want to work on or avoid the pattern of Codependency. (You may be doing it and not even realize it) I just learned about this less than a year ago and it has been very enlightening. I wish I had known about it sooner in life; now I'm eager to dedicate a thread about it in hopes of helping others or simply give us a playground to discuss it and overcome it together. If you can identify with COD or have overcome it, please share your experiences, feelings, advice and so forth.
I have to thank a fellow LHCF member who, after reading several of my past posts on the board, was kind enough to share these videos about COD and Narcis with me. Surprisingly and ironically, around the same time, my therapist introduced me to that very same topic and suggested that it would benefit me to work on codependency issues. As I said before, I never heard of that word before in my life, so right away I found it extremely interesting and I easily identified with many, if not all, of the identifying factors. I no longer felt like I was crazy or doomed when it came to relationships. Or that I was destined to run into bad batches of love for the rest of my life. Things started to make sense now...why my relationships outcomes were so repetitive and similar in result. Can anyone else identify with this?
These are just a few helpful videos that discuss Codependency, it's traits, patterns and habits.
I highly recommend Ross Rossenberg's books and/or following his Youtube channel.
(the correlation with Narcissism)
Helpful books:
http://www.amazon.com/The-Human-Magnet-Syndrome-People/dp/1936128314
http://www.amazon.com/Codependency-For-Dummies-Darlene-Lancer/dp/1118095227
I have to thank a fellow LHCF member who, after reading several of my past posts on the board, was kind enough to share these videos about COD and Narcis with me. Surprisingly and ironically, around the same time, my therapist introduced me to that very same topic and suggested that it would benefit me to work on codependency issues. As I said before, I never heard of that word before in my life, so right away I found it extremely interesting and I easily identified with many, if not all, of the identifying factors. I no longer felt like I was crazy or doomed when it came to relationships. Or that I was destined to run into bad batches of love for the rest of my life. Things started to make sense now...why my relationships outcomes were so repetitive and similar in result. Can anyone else identify with this?
These are just a few helpful videos that discuss Codependency, it's traits, patterns and habits.
I highly recommend Ross Rossenberg's books and/or following his Youtube channel.
(the correlation with Narcissism)
Helpful books:
http://www.amazon.com/The-Human-Magnet-Syndrome-People/dp/1936128314
http://www.amazon.com/Codependency-For-Dummies-Darlene-Lancer/dp/1118095227
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