2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

[Theo]

yes, just wait. we part ways (he CA, me haiti) in a little less than a month. we still haven't talked about what we will do over the summer. i hope he mentions skype, emailing, etc. he'll be busying studying and i'll be super busy working in haiti. either way, i'm waiting for him to bring this all up. it helps me gauge where his mind is at. i know where mine is i find him a little difficult to read (though we are still getting to know each other).

and yes baby steps. you never ever know with guys i think!!! have you mentioned this new boo? i feel like this is the first time i'm hearing of him.

LOL he's not new at all. He's the friend of the friend that I had all that drama with a while back. I had scaled back on hanging out with him cuz of all the drama but I dunno... I don't really like anybody else the way I like him .

I think he likes me but I think he might be holding back cuz I think he thinks I'm this heartless maneater or something. I think our mutual friend told him something cuz last wk we were out and he randomly asked if me I was gonna just drop him like I do all these other guys... I was like what??? who told you about that? i would never drop youuuuuu. But he told me he thinks I'm awesome. I felt so nice and warm inside.

I ended up staying over at his place and we had our first lazy Saturday...

 

[meesch]

that married ladies RT is going to be the most lurked thread in this place

 

[sharifeh]

Geez, not a single text today. I feel like he's trying to make me follow through on my promise to initiate contact.

VeryBecoming
what did you end up doing?

did you end up texting him?

 

[VeryBecoming]

^ I called him, he was still at work. Said he was busy debugging something all day. Whateverrrr.

 

[CarLiTa]

The Inventor is coming to my apt this weekend for dinner. He was invited by my roommate. I've also pushed our date to the weekend. I am thinking of suggesting that we hang out as friends for now. I am feeling a little awkward about his ties to my roommate... Like, I talk to her a lot about the other guys...
And also, I can tell he would like to talk more frequently... Like, daily. I'm not at the point where I want the same, and because he is my roommate's good friend, I feel this (internal?) obligation to be responsive, when I'm not really burning to be. But, it would be ice to hang out without the pressure. I think I could grow feelings that way

 

[ElizaBlue]

Arrgh...it's about that time...head throbbing....back killing me...tummy cramping...and why is it that I never noticed he smacks when he eats, or slurps his coffee and come to think of it....I HATE the way he fixes me breakfast EVERY damb morning....I don't even LIKE breakfast....I don't like him...I don't like anything....lol.

When will this sentence ENDDDDDD...I'm 48 already...come on God any day now take this "blessing" and bestow it on some unsuspecting 14 year old......pllleeeeeaaassseeeee.

 

[LifeafterLHCF]

Simple is bliss at times. You make me smile and laugh. You allow me to be me good and bad. If nothing else I have learned there are good men in the world. One day you may be all mine in the sense of you being mine and I yours. I can't rush because I want things to be right on time.

 

[SweetNic_JA]

^ I called him, he was still at work. Said he was busy debugging something all day. Whateverrrr.

It can be like that. When you get lost in the code, you can go 12 hours without moving from your computer - not even realizing how much time has passed. It's that serious

 

[Mortons]

I did something nice for you and you made me cry. And I never cry. I guess no good deed goes unpunished.

 

[Keshieshimmer]

My friend has accomplished to make me feel like the loneliness person in the room. Just because you are in love with him doesn't mean I am.

I swear I did not feel like this with her last boyfriend. I actually liked (not romantically) him.

 

[chelseatiara]

My romantic life is sucking big time at the moment.

 

[misseyblue]

After a few says of being MIA he reached out on Monday and yesterday. Ehh not really feeling the "excuse". He still gets the side eye. I'm done...next!

 

[Cheekychica]

Damn, am I the only single one in this thread?!

No you're not!! Another single lady checking in.

I did something nice for you and you made me cry. And I never cry. I guess no good deed goes unpunished.

Aw.

 

[-PYT]

I've been avoiding this thread. I admit it. It's over. I accepted that finally...fighting a losing battle was causing me pain. The negative thoughts started seeping in reminding me that I will never be as happy as I was one year ago. The devil is a liar though...

 

[VeryBecoming]

It can be like that. When you get lost in the code, you can go 12 hours without moving from your computer - not even realizing how much time has passed. It's that serious

Yeah, I know. He's gone 16 straight hrs just coding...it's crazy!

 

[Cheekychica]

I'm so sorry PYT. Dang.

 

[Arian]

Another single gal checking in..

On another note, the douche bag called...

Sent from my 4G Thunderbolt using LHCF app

 

[-PYT]

Thanks Cheekychica One day at a time

 

[Do_Si_Dos]

We are finally in a good place.

 

[Theo]

I've been avoiding this thread. I admit it. It's over. I accepted that finally...fighting a losing battle was causing me pain. The negative thoughts started seeping in reminding me that I will never be as happy as I was one year ago. The devil is a liar though...

-PYT

Not true!!!!! One day you'll look back and feel be soooo thankful that relationship ended! Real talk. If I could get to that point so can you!!!!

I know everyone talks abt Adele, but my personal fave break up CD is Ne-Yo's Year of the Gentleman. Lawd knows that CD got me thru a tough break up. Dude says everything you wish your ex was saying and feeling

 

[InchHighPrivateEye]

.#annoyed.

 

[InchHighPrivateEye]

I want some ribs.

 

[firecracker]

We had a good early dinner and listened to music choice. I cooked Navy Beans w/smoked turkey, rice and cornbread. He wanted to do the dishes right after. I never put them away. LOL

I'm looking forward to bbq'ing and getting in the pool at his place once this rain and pain subsides.

I get all the good deep tissue massages. I have carpal and cubital tunnel and cannot reciprocate. LOL So right now I'm seeing the acupuncture guy twice a week. My guy is doing the cupping and massages daily. I'm glad for his hands and arms because mine are shot to hell! This is going to be a semi quiet week outside of Church and two plays.

 

[deltadreamland]

We are finally in a good place.

Very good news...

 

[MzLady78]

I did something nice for you and you made me cry. And I never cry. I guess no good deed goes unpunished.

My romantic life is sucking big time at the moment.

Ditto.

I've been avoiding this thread. I admit it. It's over. I accepted that finally...fighting a losing battle was causing me pain. The negative thoughts started seeping in reminding me that I will never be as happy as I was one year ago. The devil is a liar though...

I'm sorry to hear this. But good for you for finally accepting the reality. I'm struggling with this myself right now so I know it's hard.

@ the bolded, you already know.

 

[MsDee14]

.........

Nevermind..this isn't even worth a post.

 

[tinkat]

-PYT

Not true!!!!! One day you'll look back and feel be soooo thankful that relationship ended! Real talk. If I could get to that point so can you!!!!

I know everyone talks abt Adele, but my personal fave break up CD is Ne-Yo's Year of the Gentleman. Lawd knows that CD got me thru a tough break up. Dude says everything you wish your ex was saying and feeling

I so agree!!! That got me through some things...

 

[deltadreamland]

In the past 24 hours he has communicated these 3 things to me:

1. Gave me a card yesterday and he wrote in the card "I have come to realize that you are the real deal."

2. Sent me an email at 1:45 this morning that stated "Cha-ching! I hit the lotto when I met you..... plus a few more unmentionables" He's definitely not referring to money here. lol!

3. We're texting at the moment and he said "you're good for me".

I can think of guys I've been with in the past and longed to hear them say these words to me..from their hearts. Of course they never said them. But with him, they just naturally come from his heart. So here is my weekly, "I love me some him". <3

 

[InchHighPrivateEye]

^^I love your posts so much. Makes me happy by association.

 

[deltadreamland]

^^I love your posts so much. Makes me happy by association.

Thanks so much! It means alot to hear you say that. I know my posts annoy a few, but whatever. I've been through a lot of foolishness with men, sooo... I'm just happy to be happy for once.