2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

Status
Not open for further replies.
Softerlove said:
Damn, am I the only single one in this thread?!

Side note, cute tall man with tatts at Rite Aid just now could get it.....:look:
Click to expand...

Nope you're not. On another note: I've decided to go on the date with the Congolese guy, we're supposed to meet at 8pm today for drinks, hope all goes well.
 
deltadreamland said:
Thanks so much! It means alot to hear you say that. I know my posts annoy a few, but whatever. :look: I've been through a lot of foolishness with men, sooo... I'm just happy to be happy for once. :spinning:
Click to expand...

pas possible! I think we would all gush if we were in a similar situation :lol:
anyways people's positive stories show me what's out there, what is possible...
and who doesn't love positive stories. This thread has a good balance. You hear some good, you hear some bad...
 
I like this new guy...we officially met in Dec after talking for almost 2mths as roommates on a cruise :look: and we are still talking/dating now Still nothing official yet but we are not stressing titles I think we have something going on here :grin:

Even with this being long distance through alot of talking, texting, and skype I feel we are inseparable- its true that distance can make the heart grow fonder :yep:
 
I need to stop before his fear comes true and I end up hating him. Or we end up hating each other.

I never thought that could happen, but IDK, we might be teetering on the edge right now.
 
Looking back at the women in my family, I always wanted to be the one to break the cycle..These generational curses are very real..Not only am I in danger of disappointing myself, but also my family members because they look to me to be the game changer and I want to be that person..
All things aside, my professional life is well enough..my personal life is a train wreck..I thought that by consciously avoiding getting pregnant in my teenage years, drug and disease free and keeping myself up would eventually put me in the position to have and maintain a healthy relationship.
I would have never in a million years fathomed that I would be where I am now..I have to do something different, this cant be me in years to come.
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
It's raining men!!




:spinning:
Click to expand...
AHeadOfCoils Halle-lose-ya!!!!!!! You know what I mean.:lachen: Enjoy the rain and step over a few puddles. :grin:

deltadreamland I'm so happy for you. He sounds very sweet and open. I'm also happy for all the others that are finding good solid compatible men.

I am hopeful and sending prayers up for those that are seeking compassion and companionship.

We all deserve someone special to share our lives with.

MzLady78 and keep your head up!

SuchMagnificance I can feel your frustration and hurt thru the screen. I hope things turn around soon. Life has its ups and downs and no matter how well we plan life happens. Stay proactive but don't over focus on a mate. Enjoy the now and get closer to yourself so when Mr Right comes you will be truly ready. Everything will fall into place when you least expect it. Rebuke that bs generational curse. Life and love is what we make of it. Stay encouraged.
 
A856 said:
I know I drive this man crazy... God knows I know I do.
I like the way he show's his love, when I'm driving him crazy...I need to stop playing with him, before I run him off.
Click to expand...

:look: I guess I got a taste of my own medicine yesterday.
We were suppose to go on a "date" yesterday, but someone decided to hang with friends and have a few too many and that was all he wrote, leaving me hi and dry (some pun intended there:lol:) which drove me crazy:spinning:. But was told not to worry, somethings waiting for me when I get off....but I kinda just irritated him, so we might not be going on a date after all:look::sad:
 
While I would love it hang out, my face is looking jacked up! I broke out from this amazingly tasty Barqs Root Beer that I had on Monday. :nono:

Off to make another face mask. These two bumps have to go!!!!!
 
Went to my first dose of relationship counselling today. That was difficult but thorough lol.

Feeling optimistic for the future though. Once I finish the solo ones they suggested SO comes to a few couple sessions which he's fine with. Hopefully this will knock the remaining issues with communication I've had since childhood and will make my relationships/friendships even stronger. :)
 
is there a name for someone you are dating? he's called "the person I am dating" right?

so my feelings are a teeny tiny bit hurt :lol: he said he didn't want to sit with me in the library just now. said some bs about having to focus :lol: he did say i looked nice today however (which is a plus during finals. every.one. looks tore up from the floor up :lol:)
 
Last edited:
I'm just gonna fall back and let what happens happens. I'll take your lead when you make a step. I have to stop being so nice while it goes unappreciated. Makes me not want to even try anymore.
 
Now look what I've done. I between a wall n a hard place. Damn. His impression of me is mizz bossy and controlling which is some what true. LOL. We are going out tomorrow to see 'Think like a man' n dinner.
 
Vanthie said:
Went to my first dose of relationship counselling today. That was difficult but thorough lol.

Feeling optimistic for the future though. Once I finish the solo ones they suggested SO comes to a few couple sessions which he's fine with. Hopefully this will knock the remaining issues with communication I've had since childhood and will make my relationships/friendships even stronger. :)
Click to expand...

I'm feeling this post completely and in the same boat :yep::yep:
 
*heavy sigh* This ***** just asked me to rent a car for him, because he doesn't have a bank account. Seriously dude?:nono: A fling is a fling, but a messed up car rental is on my credit forever. Anddd he had an attitude because I wouldn't do it. I'm sooooooo over this, I have other things that are much higher on my priority list. Hope his po lil feelings aint hurt.:ohwell:



On another note... I recently got in touch with an old friend from way way way way back. Circa 97? He's in the military, no kids, and not married. And he's still a sweetheart...:Blush2:
 
mandii said:
*heavy sigh* This ***** just asked me to rent a car for him, because he doesn't have a bank account. Seriously dude?:nono: A fling is a fling, but a messed up car rental is on my credit forever. Anddd he had an attitude because I wouldn't do it. I'm sooooooo over this, I have other things that are much higher on my priority list. Hope his po lil feelings aint hurt.:ohwell:



On another note... I recently got in touch with an old friend from way way way way back. Circa 97? He's in the military, no kids, and not married. And he's still a sweetheart...:Blush2:
Click to expand...

I HOPE THEY ARE, DA HELL HE THANK HE IS?
 
-PYT

Yes it's a great cd..Ne-yo alway writes for the ladies. So you can cry made me boo hoo cry bc the scenario was too similar to what I was going through. It was like he was talking to me. I needed to let that hurt out though, I'm in a much better place.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
mandii said:
*heavy sigh* This ***** just asked me to rent a car for him, because he doesn't have a bank account. Seriously dude?:nono: A fling is a fling, but a messed up car rental is on my credit forever. Anddd he had an attitude because I wouldn't do it. I'm sooooooo over this, I have other things that are much higher on my priority list. Hope his po lil feelings aint hurt.:ohwell:



On another note... I recently got in touch with an old friend from way way way way back. Circa 97? He's in the military, no kids, and not married. And he's still a sweetheart...:Blush2:
Click to expand...


mandii My attitude would have scared the crap out of his attitude.
 
Last edited:
Just sent FH out the door with a homemade lunch and a big A smile. He's so appreciative of the little things I do.

Switching topics: Everytime the commentary of the SSSSSSnakes comes on CNN...I'm light weight wincing in fear my ex's name is going to be mentioned. The heaux should have just paid the heaux.
 
Im have to grab this cd yall talking bout!
Tonights agenda is dinner n a movie- think like man which would b great to discuss over dinner. Unmm last time we sat down for lunch he looked n smelled so damn good lol.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.

Similar threads

bajandoc86
Steaming Challenge 2012 - Part III
3 4 5
Replies
122
Views
15K
Nix08
Nix08
halee_J
  • Locked
**2012 Ceramides Challenge Part III (July 1 - Sept 30)**
7 8 9
Replies
269
Views
34K
Allandra
A
nappystorm
Random Thoughts
2 3 4
Replies
94
Views
8K
Eisani
E
GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I
New Christian Random Thoughts
Replies
0
Views
795
GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I
GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I
halee_J
2012 DC Challenge Part III (July 1st- Sept 30th)
24 25 26
Replies
776
Views
78K
lamaria211
lamaria211
Back
Top