2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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VeryBecoming said:
Someone I know just found out her boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on her for 5 of them. She was over at his house, he went to the store, she got a call and had to leave. She drives by the store to say bye to him. He's in the condom aisle with his ex-girlfriend!

She still wants to be with him and "hope he does the right thing and chooses her."

:nono:

why would she WANT -

you know what... im not even gonna bother :lol:
 
^that was my exact response. she's truly a lost cause. maybe some of her other friends will save her but i really don't have it in me.
 
MsLauren said:
What happened to the old thread? I used to always lurk in there all the time. Can somebody send me a PM & let a sista know?? :look:

PM me too please....:look:

This guy hit on me today on the dental office.....it was a cluster off
 
So my anniversary is coming up and I have been trying to tell SO what I want. But the other day he got all annoyed and said "I think you should let me handle this on my own". O_o

I thought we were SUPPOSED to tell them what we wanted!?

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Someone I know just found out her boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on her for 5 of them. She was over at his house, he went to the store, she got a call and had to leave. She drives by the store to say bye to him. He's in the condom aisle with his ex-girlfriend!

She still wants to be with him and "hope he does the right thing and chooses her."

:nono:

Wow, 5 of out of the 6? Why did he even bother to get into the relationship in first place?

I gotta say, this recent influx of dudes getting caught cheating posts is very disheartening. :nono:
 
VeryBecoming said:
Someone I know just found out her boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on her for 5 of them. She was over at his house, he went to the store, she got a call and had to leave. She drives by the store to say bye to him. He's in the condom aisle with his ex-girlfriend!

She still wants to be with him and "hope he does the right thing and chooses her."

:nono:

Wah wah waaaaaaaH?!!!!!!
How did she find out? Is it possible that he bumped into her at the store? We're they shopping together? Do they use condoms?
Ugh it's these stories that make me paranoid to the point where I want to be single single single I'm so scared!!
 
Oh - dude said he had been wanting to holla for like a year :look:
:grin:Oh snap is he cute and workable?:look:

If one more person calls to tell me about how "Such-N-Such that I graduated high school with just got married", Im going to scream..
:sad: I know that has to suck right now but don't give up on love no matter how long it takes to find THE ONE.

Chextual tension is building between Co-worker and I. :look: Am I allowed to say that?
Is he the one that did or didn't kiss? :grin: Its rainin men halle lose ya!:lachen:

Someone I know just found out her boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on her for 5 of them. She was over at his house, he went to the store, she got a call and had to leave. She drives by the store to say bye to him. He's in the condom aisle with his ex-girlfriend!

She still wants to be with him and "hope he does the right thing and chooses her."

:nono:
Dang sounds like a Trina Braxton like situation. I know that hurt like hell but if she is willing to forgive. Allz you can do is be a friend til she busted his behind again. Was the ex really and ex though? Sounds like she mighta been a rebound.


My damn arms and upper body is hurting like hell ya'll!!!!!!!! I gotta secret....

Ok ya'll real talk the only reason I drove home is because my damn dude got us lost on the way and doesn't pay attention. I felt like hell if I don't drive I'll fall asleep, end up in Neverland messing around with his arse and I wanted him to get a decent amount of sleep before work/10pm. Next time I will not do this to my body and just be down for getting off course for 1-2 hours.

I don't think I like him right now. I had to make an emergency appointment for acupuncture for 1pm because I cannot sleep from the pain.
 
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Wow, 5 of out of the 6? Why did he even bother to get into the relationship in first place?

I gotta say, this recent influx of dudes getting caught cheating posts is very disheartening. :nono:


Ugh, tell me about it! I just found out the guy I've been talking to for the past couple months is married. Why won't these losers just stay single!?!? :nono:
 
The Inventor says he is out of the country this summer because he's completed his thesis.
So what's the point of all this?
I want someone to frolic with this summer! I am not about to have some long-distance nonsense with anybody. NOT if you're going to be on the other side of the world, daggone it. Who will I experience summer heat with?:confused:

My love life always sucks in the summer. It's this forsaken city, that's what it is. I just know it!
 
Wow, 5 of out of the 6? Why did he even bother to get into the relationship in first place?

I gotta say, this recent influx of dudes getting caught cheating posts is very disheartening. :nono:

must be the impending change in seasons :lol:

boo season is over... :rofl:
 
Can someone PM me too? I have no clue what happened to the old thread until I came in here.

Anyhoo, I met a really cute dude on Friday. He is Haitian just like me and it feels so nice to vibe on such an initimate level. I really liked his confidence. He walked from across the club to talk to my friend and I. He taught me some great dance moves although I warned him that I might break his feet. Ever since he taught me that simple technique I felt like Ginger Rogers gliding over the floor. He loved my dress but I did not tell him I got it for $5 at the thrift shop, LOL! I am looking forward to meeting him on Thursday night. He got me grinning like a Cheshire cat.

I met another dude yesterday at McDonald's. I went in to let them know that as I was driving their stacked crates all fell in front of my car and to be more careful in the future because they could have fallen on some small children. As I was walking back to my car I met a really nice dude, who I ended up going to Panera Bread with a few hours later for lunch. It was nice.

My dude from Florida is coming up to see me next weekend. I love him so much but he is 22 years old than me! I would love to be his wife but it does not help that in 10 years he can retire. I really wish he was closer to my age.

I also have a nice Liberian man that I am talking to. He already loves me, LOL, but the feeling is not mutual. Not to be rude but I think African men seem to fall in love easy or just maybe don't like to date. He is cute. He looks like a shorter version of Tyson Beckford. I LOVE HIS EYES!

I took off my profile from OKCupid!!!! Grrr........... dang disaster! I'll stick to meeting men in person. I feel like I am missing someone. I probably am, but these are the only 4 that stick out to me.
 
must be the impending change in seasons :lol:

boo season is over... :rofl:

You know what, I think you're right.

Ninjas wanna be single when it's warm so they can holla at the chicks walking around half nekkid. :lol:
 
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Wah wah waaaaaaaH?!!!!!!
How did she find out? Is it possible that he bumped into her at the store? We're they shopping together? Do they use condoms?
Ugh it's these stories that make me paranoid to the point where I want to be single single single I'm so scared!!

He confessed everything to her. Said he was tired of living a lie...yet he still hasn't decided which one he wants to be with. I guess she was never really an ex, eh?

These cheating stories don't scare me from dating or make me paranoid. It happens, but it also doesn't happen. Just like hearing someone had a heart attack working out doesn't stop me from going to the gym...idk.
 
Oh did I tell y'all that I ran into the ugly guy (who turned out to be married) on Saturday? I was at a Caribbean take-out place/supermarket with a bunch of friends and we were just shooting the breeze as we'd all finished eating. Who walks in but Ugly with an even Uglier friend. :lol:

I was ducking and dodging! :lachen: And my friends did not help at all!! I swear I was trying to leave unobtrusively and they were blocking the door, and I couldn't say "MOVE" because I didn't want to call attention to myself. He ended up spotting me (and recognizing me as I was leaving).

The store owner asked my girlfriend who I was running from and when she told her who, the lady said, "She better run!" :lol: Apparently Ugly's friend is a drug dealer. :shocked: I swear, this keeps getting better and better. :rofl:

And by better I mean worse. Laaaaaaawd. :lol:
 
You know what, I think you're right.

Ninja wanna be single when it's warm so they can holla at the chicks walking around half nekkid. :lol:

I agree! :yep: Things are great in my camp, but still...I keep my eyes open so I am not caught off guard with foolishness. :look: You just never know... I call it being cautiously optimistic. :look:
 
must be the impending change in seasons :lol:

boo season is over... :rofl:

You know what, I think you're right.

Ninja wanna be single when it's warm so they can holla at the chicks walking around half nekkid. :lol:


Ya'll know it getting hot...the first crack of sun/warmth booty shorts come out and the nuccas heads get to turning:drunk:
 
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Dang...can I get a PM too?

I have a date this weekend. It's my first date in a loooooong time with a great guy, so I'm excited :cheer:
 
:grin:Oh snap is he cute and workable?:look:


he's... ALRIGHT. hes already set up like 2 more dates. :look: i am giong along with it cause why not. but yeah idk, he has quite a few traits that i do look for and want, and some that i am not fond of (for example, um, some of his nails were long :barf: not like his pinky or something but it just seemed like a missed step in grooming :look: am i picky? maybe idk. oh he's also not over 6ft. i rarely date someone under 6ft. not a dealbreaker im just noting it) , and of course, i dont know him all too well yet... so we'll see.
 
You're going to regret that soon, and its going to be too late. Yall can't act right for nothing! Better off on my own, and my own terms.
 
:look: so you just gone not text me today?

OT: Mortons your sig makes me want to put a picture of my very UN-abbed stomach up, just, like, out of spite :lol:
 
Well that's the quickest rebound I have ever experienced :lachen: @meesch

:lol:

she has some weird opinions about the lezbean community tho and i'm not sure i'm buying her version of the story anymore... let her tell it lezbeans are EXTREMELY superficial so all the types of girls that she likes (cute studs) only go for pretty girl types (lauren london etc tae somebody that i dont know who that is)... so every time she likes a girl she's sad because she thinks she's not their type.

it's kind of like how big man on campus type guys allegedly only go for glam type chicks with nice figures. is that how it goes? because for another thing i'm not sure why she just doesnt try going after a different type of chick...
 
:lol:

she has some weird opinions about the lezbean community tho and i'm not sure i'm buying her version of the story anymore... let her tell it lezbeans are EXTREMELY superficial so all the types of girls that she likes (cute studs) only go for pretty girl types (lauren london etc tae somebody that i dont know who that is)... so every time she likes a girl she's sad because she thinks she's not their type.

it's kind of like how big man on campus type guys allegedly only go for glam type chicks with nice figures. is that how it goes? because for another thing i'm not sure why she just doesnt try going after a different type of chick...

hmm is that right? :scratchch
 
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