2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

[firecracker]

Tamster nothing wrong with checking it out and seeing whats what. The superficial stuff can be adjusted. I never liked men with nails and pinky rings myself. LOL

meesch your friend sounds hilariously cool. I don't really think the dynamics of attraction or hangups w/i is that different for straights or gays. I'm just sayin cuz my daughter shol got some hangup/issues. I keep sayin you going thru some of the same bs that you would if it was dangalang lil gurl. My daughter is attracted to dl heaux type red bone chicks. She is a amazon and the dominate. LOL

meesch, [USER=20147][USER=20147]Mortons & Tamster ya'll butts keeps me in stitches! I see morton wasn't playing when she was talking about the gym.


Ladies in regards to all the cheating and lying going on I never will put anything pass a man or woman. It doesn't stop me from trusting a man I just would never put total trust in anyone other than God.

It doesn't look like I'll be going to Vegas City of Lites jazz this weekend.

 

[meesch]

@meesch your friend sounds hilariously cool. I don't really think the dynamics of attraction or hangups w/i is that different for straights or gays. I'm just sayin cuz my daughter shol got some hangup/issues. I keep sayin you going thru some of the same bs that you would if it was dangalang lil gurl. My daughter is attracted to dl heaux type red bone chicks. She is a amazon and the dominate. LOL

that is my biffle/bff for life!!! but her relationship choices have me i swear the chicks she dates dog girls out like DUDES, for real... when we talk about relationships i stay trying to relate from the hetero point of view bc like you say i figure it cant really be all that different... but let her tell it theres a different set of rules at play...

i think she just wont admit she likes dog type chicks and is not attracted to "nice" girls. (and why she wont date chicks that look like chicks, like theyre not even an option, is another thing i dont understand.)

 

[Rae81]

I gotta stop over thinking everything

Sent from my HTC EVO 3D

 

[Oasis]

can my fellow RTs please vote for me as the temporary Beyhive chairwoman? it would be greatly appreciated. please, y'all the other two candidates are way more popular.

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on a srs note, i'm so annoyed. my ex, who broke up with me, is all up in my business. what am i doing? who am i doing it with? where am i going? mad cuz i was dating other people the next day and he's still hooked. not my problem pal.

 

[VeryBecoming]

Geez, not a single text today. I feel like he's trying to make me follow through on my promise to initiate contact.

 

[Theo]

I voted for you Oasis

Thought your speech was mad funny

 

[CarLiTa]

I am VERY happy with the vibe in my apartment. We have come so far.
I am also really looking forward to living with my new roommates next year. I think the vibe they have is really nice. This is also the first time I'm living with friends.

Ok, so why did we all squeal and threw up our arms screaming in joy watching a new, super romantic Google commercial I like this!

 

[Oasis]

I voted for you @Oasis

Thought your speech was mad funny

aww, thanks!

 

[AHeadOfCoils]

I met three cute men today and I was looking TORE up. I'm currently having a break out session on my face, my hair was in a bun, and I was just overall busted! They all asked for my number though.

I would say that I'm going to step out a mess again , but that's not going to happen. I was too self conscious.

 

[UrbainChic]

So the the new guy I met this weekend and I have a rendez-vous tomorrow after work.

He is on extra good behavior, I can tell by his texts

He's young. I have not made up my mind about that. He's very very nice to look at.

All the rest are on the backburner for now.

Hoping someone turns into something serious cuz my chacha's collecting cobwebs.

 

[Mortons]

she has some weird opinions about the lezbean community tho and i'm not sure i'm buying her version of the story anymore... let her tell it lezbeans are EXTREMELY superficial so all the types of girls that she likes (cute studs) only go for pretty girl types (lauren london etc tae somebody that i dont know who that is)... so every time she likes a girl she's sad because she thinks she's not their type.

it's kind of like how big man on campus type guys allegedly only go for glam type chicks with nice figures. is that how it goes? because for another thing i'm not sure why she just doesnt try going after a different type of chick...

Yes. Yes. Yes.

 

[meesch]

its not necessarily that im tired... or that the hours of the day are too much for me to get through... but i am starting to feel a little worn down. emotionally. im so hard on myself - always pushing pushing pushing, choosing things and just deciding they have to get done. its incessant. and im feeling... worn.

just want to stop doing stuff. just want to lie in bed with bb boy for like three days straight and not worry about anything that needs to be done. want to ignore the to do list and have it not matter. want to lean on him and have him carry some weight and just let it all... stop.

 

[meesch]

Yes. Yes. Yes.

so how is it that lezbeans got worse than dudes? if i were gay id be doing that thing where straight women threaten to turn to chicks

 

[SuchMagnificent]

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We are looking for single men and women for a different kind of TV show. It’s about finding love; it’s about meeting a few amazing people who could be a good fit for you; it’s about having a blast; it’s about making a connection. It’s not about fancy dates and roses. It is not about “TV.” It’s about a journey –and sometimes the journey to find love can be as fun as whether or not you find it.

:scratchch

 

[ElizaBlue]

I'm sooo confused....

 

[firecracker]

SuchMagnificance don't do it don't do it!!!! LOL Well unless you are doing it for pure fun and entertainment.

ElizaBlue girl things were wacky around here this morning. LOL

I got some me time going down this week. I'm going to the library and Margarita Wednesday.

 

[kismettt]

my ex and i have been talking and it has been really really good. he engages me in a way intellectually that most men just can't. he is so thoughtful and intelligent and just constantly seeking to improve himself (but not in a shallow or superficial or monetary way). i really appreciate his realness and his perspective on so many things that are happening in my head.

i had a job interview back home and he spent a couple of days w/ my family & i. he taught my little brother to play chess. and really pushed him to think critically about the choices he was making and rationalize it out loud. which was so awesome. my little brother is good at everything (and told he is, but it's nurtured obviously. he's given the tools, support, and access to be). he has a serious sense of entitlement, and when he gets older, will probably think he's intellectually superior to most. so being pushed and challenged was frustrating for him, but i think so essential (and not just told how "smart" or "gifted" he is all the time).

anyway, i really enjoy him in a way i haven't enjoyed anyone really in my life in a while. i definitely don't see us having a romantic future, we are super different/want different things. but i think a long distance friendship is pretty perfect (if we were closer, i bet i'd be forming ideas in my head about how we should date again!)

 

[kismettt]

and in general i don't like men b/c i don't really connect/relate to them anymore. lol.

i'm still casually seeing the guy from last fall, but i'm moving soon anyway. we get along. he is the epitome of a "good black man". which is so funny to me. he's a good guy. just not the one for me.

 

[BGT]

I need to stop jumping to conclusions. I thought he was ignoring me today because he was mad at me. Apparently he was on a 10 hour XBOX binge with his dad.

 

[LivingDol1]

Okay. I have a lunch date on Thursday with acquaintance guy. I'm looking forward to it. He is going to meet me near by my office and we will go someplace for lunch. At first I was paranoid about not hearing from him but I was happy to get a text from him asking me to lunch. My friend told me she thought he was stalling bc he wanted to make sure he could make the time to see me. Okay, so I guess that's what he did. This is the one to root for.

Okcupid has been blowing up for me! I have a coffee date on Sunday with a guy who has a start up and works in music. Shorter than what I go for but age appropriate, has nice hair, and a cute face... So show his photos.

Another guy that I thought was cute just asked me out. He's 38 and a teacher. He teaches Spanish and he's from Argentina. Not sure how good his English is based on his email but he's cute so I will give him a shot. I never date guys this old. I usually date younger.

I've always dreamed of dating multiple men at once and now here is my chance!

As much as I know I already like the first guy, I'm not sure if he can give me the time and attention that I'm looking for. I'm ok with a slow burn... But I need to not put my eggs in one basket. Hence the OK Cupid dates.

And on the young man front, that child called me again....! While I was seeing "Think Like A Man" with my friend who works with him. Hilarious. I haven't spoken to him in 3 weeks and he still calls. He's not stupid so I wonder why he hasn't gotten the hint.

 

[LaBelle Africaine29]

...just swung that door wide open, eh?

 

[Deluxe]

I hate when he leaves for a business trip. I can't sleep. I'm used to his snoring and his heavy arm being flung across me
When one of the girls fall asleep I'm going to sleep walk one of their butts in here with me. Maybe the extra body will help me sleep if they don't sleep wild. Hmmm.

 

[mallysmommy]

kang is back around. he is everything i don't need right now and then some.

 

[meesch]

i need a long island iced tea the size of my head.

 

[ivyness]

At the airport picking FH up. I missed him even though it was only 3 days.

 

[tropical-punch]

I would like to make a best friend. Just one. I've lived here for almost 9 months and I have zero friends. I am extremely shy and introverted so its very difficult for me to make and keep friends. I want to have someone to talk to about things because its hard keeping my feelings inside. When I try to tell my mother, she's just so aloof.

 

[firecracker]

I gave him explicit instructions not to get bacon unless its on sale. I can't wait to tell him I'm not eating that high priced bacon! LOL

I want my man to get a tear drop tat for doing time with Tia.

 

[MzLady78]

Just met the one of the new IT guys, (a brotha, so that now makes umm.. 4 Black men in this entire firm ) and damn, he is cute!

*plots some kind of IT crisis*

 

[deltadreamland]

Just met the one of the new IT guys, (a brotha, so that now makes umm.. 4 Black men in this entire firm ) and damn, he is cute!

*plots some kind of IT crisis*

Cute! Start with some scissors and/or water. j/k

 

[MzLady78]

I would like to make a best friend. Just one. I've lived here for almost 9 months and I have zero friends. I am extremely shy and introverted so its very difficult for me to make and keep friends. I want to have someone to talk to about things because its hard keeping my feelings inside. When I try to tell my mother, she's just so aloof.

I was thinking about this yesterday. I don't have any real female friends, like someone I can just call up and be like "oh, let's do x, y or z". The girls I used to hang with, they always wanna go to the same places and do the same things, then wonder why none of us can find a man. Umm, we hang out with senior citizens, what do you expect?

But I'm starting to realize that in general, Boston really is single Black female hell.