So I've been on 2-3 dates with this guy. In the past he's been quiet and reserved, even awkward at times. I didn't mind, I understand he may be shy, and he told me straight up from the beginning that it takes him some time to open up. Lately we've been chatting and texting fairly frequently. About 2 weeks ago, I was upset with something, and he stayed up on the phone with me until 3am, until I fell asleep.
Yesterday he asked if me if I wanted him to come over, to watch Netflix or something. In my mind I'm like awww he wants to "Netflix and Chill" lol. We'd been on real dates and I wanted to cuddle with him, so I said sure.
He gets to my apartment, sits on the far end of the couch, doesn't take off his jacket or hat. Hands in pockets. I'm like ...okay. So I'm trying to make conversation, he's barely talking. I'm like...sooo you wanted to come over, right? You don't want to talk? He's all "I came to watch the movie" Yall, it was a movie he admittedly seen plenty of times. Plus the movie is usually just in the background. The point of "chilling" is to spend time with the other person, or at least that's what I thought. At one point I'm being playful and sort of playing with his arm. He told me to "respect his boundaries"
So I'm being patient. I ask him about one of his hobbies, something that I know for a fact he's very interested in. His response: "You can look at the website."
At this point I am done. I can deal with shyness, quietness, but I will not deal with rudeness. I ask him to leave. He asked if I was serious (I was dead ass) and left.
Was I wrong? What in the world is wrong with him? What kind of new-age social awkwardness is this? I could see if I asked him to come over but no, he initiated and everything.
Dating is getting so old.
Yesterday he asked if me if I wanted him to come over, to watch Netflix or something. In my mind I'm like awww he wants to "Netflix and Chill" lol. We'd been on real dates and I wanted to cuddle with him, so I said sure.
He gets to my apartment, sits on the far end of the couch, doesn't take off his jacket or hat. Hands in pockets. I'm like ...okay. So I'm trying to make conversation, he's barely talking. I'm like...sooo you wanted to come over, right? You don't want to talk? He's all "I came to watch the movie" Yall, it was a movie he admittedly seen plenty of times. Plus the movie is usually just in the background. The point of "chilling" is to spend time with the other person, or at least that's what I thought. At one point I'm being playful and sort of playing with his arm. He told me to "respect his boundaries"
So I'm being patient. I ask him about one of his hobbies, something that I know for a fact he's very interested in. His response: "You can look at the website."
At this point I am done. I can deal with shyness, quietness, but I will not deal with rudeness. I ask him to leave. He asked if I was serious (I was dead ass) and left.
Was I wrong? What in the world is wrong with him? What kind of new-age social awkwardness is this? I could see if I asked him to come over but no, he initiated and everything.
Dating is getting so old.