Hello ladies... I know i've been MIA.....
Tagging some buddies @
NappyNelle @
faithVA @
Nonie @
Mische @
againstallodds
You ladies know, I am quite pregnant... 30 weeks.... Moved, started a PhD program... life has been moving so fast.. sorry ive not reached out, but Ive been lurking
Pregnancy has been okay so far... first trimester was rough, extreme constipation.. and we had a scare last week when I started to bleed... spent the night @ the hospital... Thankfully, the baby (boy) is doing great, and still inside my body... please pray for me to keep him (and do well in school) till the end of the semester.
About my hair... bad news... last stylist who relaxed me over processed me... How??
So during my virgin relaxer - Ended up with textured hair + bone straight ends.
2nd relaxer = (she only touched new growth) bone straight roots + textured middle + bone straight ends...
3rd and worst relaxer experience (new stylist) = in addition to handling hair very roughly, decided to fix some of the textured part of my hair... and pulled the relaxer over my previously bone straight roots to the middle..... Well, she straightened some of the textured parts, but the previously bone straight roots are overprocessed and really breaking off...
My hair doesnt look bad at all... not too obvious to the outside eye, but the breakage is really happening especially @ the back... not sure what to do.... I may be able to keep it in check with low mani, and moisture.... but it may eventually cut it off (still staying relaxed though - enjoying the ease of styling)... One inch from BSL now.. if the breakage remains like this, I'll cut it down to APL.. and remain at APL until I trim it all away...
Im going to start self-relaxing.. stylists are just not for me...
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againstallodds I need some motivation to self relax... may have to do the half/half... but still unsure of how to keep the other half dry while rinsing/neutralizing the first half.... How do you do it?
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faithVA how is your hair doing? I know you BC'd a while ago... loving it?
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NappyNelle how is your hair and health?
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Mische the new job?
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Nonie How you holding up?
mwedzi How was the wedding??? Congrats!!!
In the meantime, Im keeping it low maintenance with cornrows, washing and DC'ing weekly etc.... Products are still the same ...
Y'all feel fee to PM me .. I'd really like to know how you are doing etc
To the rest of the ladies in here... helloo.... im still in this... just in lurk mode... heheh