So he tells me it's not 'good'

[GreenD]

LOL @ the tiptoeing.

LOL, they need a XXX room as part of the Relationship board. I mean it's so necessary as it goes hand in hand you know? Relationship and sex, it's hard to talk about one without the other and I'm sure there are a lot of issues and concerns that you can't quite answer all out in the open you know?!

 

[sky_blu]

what? we are? They have taken and changed "BECKY" to mean fellatio now?

if you from FL or down south then you'd understand real quickly why its called Becky. Im still kinda mad Plies got everybody calling it Becky now.

 

[Jade Feria]

LOL, they need a XXX room as part of the Relationship board. I mean it's so necessary as it goes hand in hand you know? Relationship and sex, it's hard to talk about one without the other and I'm sure there are a lot of issues and concerns that you can't quite answer all out in the open you know?!

I concur.

 

[Ballerina_Bun]

Hmmm, looks like I need to post my personal crayon tutorial on YouTube …. And the toe sucking one too ...

Kidding …

 

[GreenD]

Hmmm, looks like I need to post my personal crayon tutorial on YouTube …. And the toe sucking one too ...

Kidding …

LOL, I'd subscribe!!!

 

[rainbowknots]

can i get pm'd some tips and techniques

 

[naturalmanenyc]

Apparently men talk about this at the baskbetball court. DH says to get some DVD's. He is not sure of which ones though but some of his friends bought DVD's for their wives/girlfriends. Supposedly this sparked their sex lives too since they watched together.

 

[*5+5]

I'm so happy that I created this thread b/c I have gotten such awesome leads from u ladies

With all the expert advice and techniques I've recieved I think my biggest battle now is employing them after feeling so 'shot'.

I'm more apprehensive now b/c I feel like ok, if it's bad again and again before I make improvement he'll prolly start feeling bad for me and hit me with a, 'it' ok baby u don't have to' lecture and that'll really be 'becky homicide' for me

 

[GreenD]

I'm so happy that I created this thread b/c I have gotten such awesome leads from u ladies

With all the expert advice and techniques I've recieved I think my biggest battle now is employing them after feeling so 'shot'.

I'm more apprehensive now b/c I feel like ok, if it's bad again and again before I make improvement he'll prolly start feeling bad for me and hit me with a, 'it' ok baby u don't have to' lecture and that'll really be 'becky homicide' for me

LOL, no becky homicides!!! But he should love the fact that you're trying and more importantly the practice time!! Don't forget to get creative. Break out the chocolate syrup and whipped cream and just have fun with it!!!

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

I'm so happy that I created this thread b/c I have gotten such awesome leads from u ladies

With all the expert advice and techniques I've recieved I think my biggest battle now is employing them after feeling so 'shot'.

I'm more apprehensive now b/c I feel like ok, if it's bad again and again before I make improvement he'll prolly start feeling bad for me and hit me with a, 'it' ok baby u don't have to' lecture and that'll really be 'becky homicide' for me

chile, don't worry..cuz what he won't like, anotha man will.....

i won't say nuffin bout operation deep throat just yet....gotta crawl before u walk...

 

[OrangeMoon]

chile, don't worry..cuz what he won't like, anotha man will.....

i won't say nuffin bout operation deep throat just yet....gotta crawl before u walk...

I just burst out laughing at my desk.

 

[Country gal]

He should of told you ways to improve. Ask him is it okay to practice with another man since teaching you would take the excitement out of it for him? You can always watch porn for tips and techniques.

 

[MrsBurns82]

Unless I got the wrong impression he didn't say that it sucked lachen: no pun intended) he just said it could be better and it seems as if he'd rather the spontaneity than the change in method. I'd try something new then ask him later if he liked it and play it by ear from then on as apposed to asking him for on the job training if he's turned off by that

 

[v2.0]

Any updates?

 

[Skiggle]

Any updates?

( waits patiently for updates, too)

 

[caligirl]

Actually, there are some ladies on the board who will tell you that they derive pleasure from that act... just watching their man's face and all

It feels good too physically (from what I've read...)

 

[Khaiya]

This site is pretty good for tips: http://www.howtogivehead.biz/index.html

 

[Ivonnovi]

check out www.xtube.com.

......very educational, also has a great video on "smoothing & melting the crayon" with your bare hands. LOL.....

 

[SelahOco]

This site is pretty good for tips: http://www.howtogivehead.biz/index.html

Dude's advise was okay, then the bastard went here with it:

Just one more short idea: If you really want to give your man an unforgettable experience - then bring a friend of yours, and give him head together. That would be the ultimate blow job, he would probably go crazy if you swapped his load. Just remember to be open-minded and creative. And never stop learning how to give head - you can ALWAYS get better.

 

[Khaiya]

^LOL, well truth is, that is the ultimate fantasy for a lot of men. Dude is just putting it all out there for all types.

 

[*5+5]

Any updates?

Glad you asked v2.0

(I hope this doesn’t get me banned)

First off, I received a substantial amount of great advice, so thank you sooooo much ladies. And the PMs, talk about resourceful, I could put together a “HOW TO” off of my inbox alone!!

Starting out, I made a suggested trip to Spencer’s and purchased the flavored mouth lubricant which is ‘oh-so good’, it’s great for practice also if you choose to put it on a banana and it smells really good. Oh and it increases the spit sound effects in exponential decibels

It took me a few days to get around to it, mainly b/c I was way deep in my own head and still feeling a lil’ insecure about it so I needed to give myself sometime to relax and pull it all together.

So eventually I was like what the hail, I’ve already received a bad review can’t get any worst eh?
So I got my lubricant put some of it on his abs, for refill purposes…it worked out well b/c I would lick the lubricant from his abs while I used my hands, so it was kinda like four-play & becky all mixed in together.
Oh all while applying the fish face, locked jaw method.

He never saw the tube so he doesn't have a clue to what I used or if I used anything.

He was like….ohhhh so you’ve been lazy all this time huh? He kept teasing me about holdin’ out and rationing out my skills or what have you. The other day he text me and wrote ‘playback?’ I knew exactly what he was talking about but I played dumb.

So I don’t know yall, maybe it got better or maybe he wanted to make me feel good for the effort, I guess as any good boyfriend should…so we’ll see, at this point it’s more about working on my confidence level.

 

[Bachelorette]

^I'd say things took a turn for the better> i dont think he would have sent that text if he was just booasting your ego the night before.

*ahem*

PM me this lockjaw thing lol