foxee
Well-Known Member
Ladies, it's getting a little harder out there.
1. It's getting warmer. Nice weather= more outdoor activities, most of which aren't really fun when you have no one to enjoy them with.
2. The amount of people within my circle of friends and associates getting engaged, married, or into a relationship thus far this year is really high.
3. A young man who was interested in me for quite sometime is now officially in a relationship with another person. (Thanks facebook, which doesn't really help but I'm sure that could be another thread.) I know, I know, he must not have been the one for me. But I can't help but think about whether I was sleeping on a great opportunity. He clearly stated that he was interested in a starting a very serious relationship but I was a little hesitant.
4. I'm lonely.
Just reporting.
Oh, btw, while I was having these thoughts earlier today, I heard a voice tell me to "delight yourself in Me."
I'm sorry you're having a tough time. I have my days too.
I experienced #3 a few months ago, but his status went from "Single" to "Engaged." erplexed I really hate Facebook sometimes.
Have you considered signing up for classes related to one of your favorite hobbies or even a supper club? With supper clubs you typically go to a different local restaurant once a week with the same group. It's a great way to meet new people and try places you may be too scared to eat at alone.
BTW, I love the bolded. Feel free to PM me anytime if you need someone to talk to.
Lol. I hear you. Yesterday I had an "I want to be a mommy" moment and start a family soon ... but then I let that go with a quickness. It will happen in God's time and His time is best.
I can only share this with y'all, but I have been thinking about my future kids a lot lately. I need to babysit someone's "child from hell" so I can get get over this feeling.