***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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Hi Je Ne Sais are you willing to something different?

Repeat daily....over and over

I am open to love
I am a man magnet
I attract successful men
I am beautiful
I radiate beauty
I am dating lots of successful men regularly.

then when you are ready to get married
say everyday
I am MARRIED to a " ...".....(and list what you want).......

do it until it comes to pass...
when you meet him...let him pursue.
For every two calls he makes ..you make 1.
Act like you dont care. (they love it)

Reality is me personally...I am overweight, average looking and date all the time but I don't speak reality I speak what I want...I say what I want!

I had 3 dates last week.:drunk:

One of them asked me yesterday for a relationship.:yep:

It works!

and a prayer for you...

Thank God because HE alone is the perfect matchmaker.

Lord, release the man you have preordained as my husband in Jesus' name.

Lord, cause it to happen that the divine match will come forth soon in the name of Jesus.

Lord, let my spouse be a person who loves You wholeheartedly in the name of Jesus.

Lord, establish our home according to the scriptures in Jesus name

Lord, I believe You have created me for a special person; bring it to pass in the name of Jesus.

I now joyfully, confidently call my husband out of obscurity into my life in Jesus' name.

I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse by the enemy in the name of Jesus.

Father, in the name of Jesus, just as Abraham sent his servant to find his son Isaac a wife,

send the Holy Spirit to bring my partner to me.

Thank YOU Lord

Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
I'm lonely. I'm so tired of having no real prospects. I'm not understanding why everyone else in my immediate circle is maried or about to get engaged etc. I have been single for eight years. Maybe I am truly defective. I see no other reason at this point. I must be the problem. I'm feeling pretty defeated today. I know that I am attractive to guys here and there but if I'm not ever approached what difference does it make? This sucks.
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I'm ready to give this online dating thing a try:sekret:. I'm ready to test new waters and widen my dating pool. I want a new experience:yep:. Let's see what this yields...I can control this a whole lot more.
 
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I have a love hate relationship with facebook. This is the second time I caught you in some mess :nono:. Lawd I thought clear men were less drama :look:
 
I have a crush that I just cannot shake. Although I can only admire him from a distance there is just something he does to me. Maybe one day he will see the light
 
In the past 2 weeks, 2 people that decided to just *poof* disappear from my life pop back up.

One I am just getting over. Thankfully he realized that he should not have contacted me -seems he picked up that I was not going to play along. So not in the mood for his pity party.

The other I actually miss hanging out with, but am so not sure of his intentions. Keeping him at arms length for the time being.
 
msmills2U said:
Hi Je Ne Sais are you willing to something different?

Repeat daily....over and over

I am open to love
I am a man magnet
I attract successful men
I am beautiful
I radiate beauty
I am dating lots of successful men regularly.

then when you are ready to get married
say everyday
I am MARRIED to a " ...".....(and list what you want).......

do it until it comes to pass...
when you meet him...let him pursue.
For every two calls he makes ..you make 1.
Act like you dont care. (they love it)

Reality is me personally...I am overweight, average looking and date all the time but I don't speak reality I speak what I want...I say what I want!

I had 3 dates last week.:drunk:

One of them asked me yesterday for a relationship.:yep:

It works!

and a prayer for you...

Thank God because HE alone is the perfect matchmaker.

Lord, release the man you have preordained as my husband in Jesus' name.

Lord, cause it to happen that the divine match will come forth soon in the name of Jesus.

Lord, let my spouse be a person who loves You wholeheartedly in the name of Jesus.

Lord, establish our home according to the scriptures in Jesus name

Lord, I believe You have created me for a special person; bring it to pass in the name of Jesus.

I now joyfully, confidently call my husband out of obscurity into my life in Jesus' name.

I reject the provision of counterfeit spouse by the enemy in the name of Jesus.

Father, in the name of Jesus, just as Abraham sent his servant to find his son Isaac a wife,

send the Holy Spirit to bring my partner to me.

Thank YOU Lord
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This is awesome! I am printing this and reading and claiming everyday. Thank you so much :). And three dates in one week? Go girl!!
 
dcohen1217 said:
I have a crush that I just cannot shake. Although I can only admire him from a distance there is just something he does to me. Maybe one day he will see the light
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Ooh, I have one of these too! Everytime I see that man, I'm like "mmm, mmm, mmm", LOL. I suspect he might be interested but unless he says something, nothing is gonna go down. I swore to myself that D would be the last man I EVER showed interest in first.
 
So he said he was going to call me today to set up a date for tomorrow. I have been wating for his call all day. He has yet to call !! :wallbash: I even called and text him but he has never answered. This is the 3rd time this ish happened. I can't depend on you any longer. On to the next one.

I am open to love
I am a man magnet
I attract successful men
I am beautiful
I radiate beauty
I am dating lots of successful men regularly.
 
kay so i'm officially giving up on my crush and am just gonna adopt him as a big brother. next best thing
 
Wow! He's quirky and silly and goofy just like me! Makes me laugh. He wants to travel! And not like, "I want to go to Mexico and Florida and California." But REAL travel like China and Japan and France! And he wants to move to a big city like I do. Perfect. :grin:
 
dcohen1217 said:
I have a crush that I just cannot shake. Although I can only admire him from a distance there is just something he does to me. Maybe one day he will see the light
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i am in the same boat...except when mine did notice me, I didn't take advantage of the situation and he ended up getting in a relationship with someone else :ohwell: now I'm just sitting here trying to get over him :nono:

I don't know your whole situation, but I say take a risk...don't wait for him to make a move...
 
I went on a wonderful spontaneous date...ice cream, nice walk in the summer night's breeze, intellectually stimulating conversation, jokes...AND THEN he drops the bomb...he's 22...y oh y am I such a cradle robber?? I'm really disappointed...he's in Pharm school too...but 22 n 25 is a no go...:sigh:
 
Helpmeblongagain said:
I went on a wonderful spontaneous date...ice cream, nice walk in the summer night's breeze, intellectually stimulating conversation, jokes...AND THEN he drops the bomb...he's 22...y oh y am I such a cradle robber?? I'm really disappointed...he's in Pharm school too...but 22 n 25 is a no go...:sigh:
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wait, you're 25 and he is 22? what'd the problem?
 
Note to self--I'm the one that has the uppper hand in this relationship...I must remember not to be so blindsided by love and excercise this authority when dealing with SO and let him know he can't always have it his way...
 
Helpmeblongagain said:
U don't think its too much of an age gap?
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Nope. I have learned that ones maturity level is more important than their age. If he seems to be in the right place mentally, why not give it a shot??
I think most women don't date men younger than them because society has made it taboo, but in reality if you both click...then why not?

I dated a guy who is 3 years younger than me and I can honestly say he had his stuff together, more so than me.
 
It's been 6 weeks. Today is the first day that I have felt (know that I know that I know) that God has something and someone better for me. I am not used to having to lead a relationship (spiritually stronger, financially stronger, emotionally stronger) and this relationship was more of a burden on me than a blessing to me. I have prayed that God will send a God-fearing man who is evenly yoked with me in all areas but I have accepted that he may not come in the "packaging" I imagined. And that's fine if that's God's will. I want to be happy, not stressed. :yep:
 
Wow, how nice of you to text me today and say that you're coming to town tomorrow :rolleyes:. No sir, I have plans this weekend and I will not change them for you. :peace:
 
luving me said:
Wow, how nice of you to text me today and say that you're coming to town tomorrow :rolleyes:. No sir, I have plans this weekend and I will not change them for you. :peace:
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Ugh I hate when people do that. It is very tacky! Plus I believe they give themselves too much credit to think you'd change your plans just for them. Good for you for not being available!!!!
 
Nelli04 said:
wait, you're 25 and he is 22? what'd the problem?
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Helpmeblongagain said:
I went on a wonderful spontaneous date...ice cream, nice walk in the summer night's breeze, intellectually stimulating conversation, jokes...AND THEN he drops the bomb...he's 22...y oh y am I such a cradle robber?? I'm really disappointed...he's in Pharm school too...but 22 n 25 is a no go...:sigh:
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I don't see the issue. I'm 26 and havey eye on a 23 y.o. Long as he is mature. It's all good:-)
 
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