***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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if one more married man hits on me he's going to have explain to his wife why some random woman went crazy on him
 
metro_qt said:
I did this two weeks ago.
The person and the situation was mediocre.

I miss him.
but i think back to EVERYTHING, and i wonder, why did i waste my time?
I like him as a person, but he would be detrimental to my future... my goals... my happiness.

I'd be settling if i stayed, and i knew it.

I miss him though.
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This is exactly how I feel...
And as time continues to pass (it hasn't been much time at all) the more I am upset with myself for not leaving sooner for some very obvious reasons. I'm at a stage where I am thoroughly disgusted and upset w/him and myself. I'm sure I'll begin to miss him soon enough, but the situation was sub par at best. I just can't logically accept his situation and his mindset for a 30 yr old :nono: even if I think he's a 'nice' guy.
 
I logged on, searching for this thread. Gotta vent real quick...

1. Why do women always have to be the one to carry the relationship emotionally? Why come (yeah, i said why come) I always gotta be the muth@fu*** to tell a grown @ss man how to express himself, how its not cool or helpful in a relationship to attack each other with low blows and the blame game in disagreements? I'm tired of playing freaking Dr. Phill all the d@mn time and repeating myself. And being the calm reasonable person

2. DON'T FREAKING TRY TO HAVE A PSEUDO SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP CONVERSATION WITH ME VIA TEXT, EMAIL, IM OR ANY OTHER ELECTRONIC COMMUNICATION. I'M ALMOST 3O D@MN YEARS OLD. HELL, I'M ALREADY STARTING TO HAVE HAVE ACHING KNEES AND ISH. I'M TOO OLD FOR THIS ISH. NOT TO MENTION THE FACT THAT I ACTUALLY MIGHT BE TRYING TO DO SOME D@MN WORK!

Wooooooosah, ok, thats it. I feel a little better, now.
 
:wallbash:i'm tired, i give up. you say you want me yet you overlook me. i refuse to chase you, im not desperate. if you want to get me you're doing all the work from now on. i'm just sitting back and watchin how its all going to play out.
 
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I'm done with the games. You either want me or you don't. Well, i'm out. Have fun playing by yourself.
 
Heart and head are reunited. Heart missed head badly because it was making some pretty stupid emotional decisions. Head, NEVER leave me again, ok? Thanks.
 
i'm just annoyed right now. I dont know if its pms, or if its you. And i don't care to investigate. I'm just highly annoyed. and i really don't feel like talking
 
woooooooo-weeeeeeeeee, i'm going through a thang been listening to johnny taylor all day. LOL

Now, I just finished blasting Mary J and i'm moving into Tevin Campbell 1994 I'm Ready. LOL
 
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Imani said:
I logged on, searching for this thread. Gotta vent real quick...

1. Why do women always have to be the one to carry the relationship emotionally? Why come (yeah, i said why come) I always gotta be the muth@fu*** to tell a grown @ss man how to express himself, how its not cool or helpful in a relationship to attack each other with low blows and the blame game in disagreements? I'm tired of playing freaking Dr. Phill all the d@mn time and repeating myself. And being the calm reasonable person

2. DON'T FREAKING TRY TO HAVE A PSEUDO SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP CONVERSATION WITH ME VIA TEXT, EMAIL, IM OR ANY OTHER ELECTRONIC COMMUNICATION. I'M ALMOST 3O D@MN YEARS OLD. HELL, I'M ALREADY STARTING TO HAVE HAVE ACHING KNEES AND ISH. I'M TOO OLD FOR THIS ISH. NOT TO MENTION THE FACT THAT I ACTUALLY MIGHT BE TRYING TO DO SOME D@MN WORK!

Wooooooosah, ok, thats it. I feel a little better, now.
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Sexi6tresses said:
:wallbash:i'm tired, i give up. you say you want me yet you overlook me. i refuse to chase you, im not desperate. if you want to get me you're doing all the work from now on. i'm just sitting back and watchin how its all going to play out.
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lesedi said:
I'm done with the games. You either want me or you don't. Well, i'm out. Have fun playing by yourself.
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Angel_Face said:
Heart and head are reunited. Heart missed head badly because it was making some pretty stupid emotional decisions. Head, NEVER leave me again, ok? Thanks.
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:spinning: Whew! Ladies we are >here<.
 
Why can't you be consistent? What changed? Honestly, I'm tired of caring. I'm tired of 'settling' and making excuses for your shortcomings.
 
Whhhhhhhhyyyyyyyyyyyyyy do I keep trying? Maybe I fear the loss of companionship again I don't know. I do know that I dont love him and the guy I do love I let go because it wasn't the right time.....I wish I didn't let him go. Need to find a way to get him back...Im so indecisive.
 
i felt like i needed to be wiser with my money so i decreased the size of my online shopping cart and didn't buy the pretty dress i wanted.


...within minutes i, on a whim, spent 100+ dollars to renew my e-harmony subscription . so much for my money consciousness. :nono:

summer always makes me wish i was in love.
 
Sighs. Why did I agree to a LDR? This sucks:ohwell: I want to color sooooo bad but I still want him to respect me. I think I will pull the "I can't believe I did that" trick when he comes.:look:
 
you wonder what was wrong with me for the past 2 days??? You were what was wrong with me. I just cant deal with you anymore, I dont have the strength to do it, so I am just shutting down.
 
It's so nice
to wake up in the morning
all alone
and not have to tell somebody
you love them
when you don't love them
any more - Richard Brautigan​

Daymn this feels good...to be single and content...it's so refreshing!
 
I trying to determine at what age do you stop consoling a woman over the "loss" of a man that tells her he doesn't want her and instead give her a good slap?
 
He says that because I work and study I may not have time for 'other' things, but that I try anyway.
 
Although I enjoy being single, I miss going out on dates and having stimulating conversation. I miss having someone run their fingers through my hair. I also miss mutual laughter. :(
 
So let's see, you said you were divorced...said I was wrong to be snooping cause I found out you lied :nono:. Dude really??? How tha heck are you gonna get mad cause I confronted you? Mom always said to confront a liar, don't let them think they got over on you.
 
After 2 years of not being together, he has finally told me he still has feelings for me.
Things are starting to (slowly, of course) go back to the way they were

I'm scared.

I worked so hard to hide my feelings for him but these past few days they have come back like a flood.

I am so in love with him. I think he's the one......
 
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