***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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1) I'm tired of being single now. It's been a 1 1/2 years and while I was good before, I realize that I'm starting to miss the little things (being held, having someone to share in my excitement, sharing affection, having an automatic companion to do things with....sigh). Plus, I'd like to get married in the next few years. It'd help to have a potential....

2) Why am I not interested in the men that are interested in me!? Grrrr....

3) PMS=Horny= ....maybe it's a good thing that I'm single. At least it's easier to practice celibacy...
 
LadyPaniolo said:
I would like to color. HARD.
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You aren't the only one. To make matters even more difficult I am seeing him tonight and his arms and lips are sooooo sexy. I just don't know what I am going to do with myself. I think a long run is in order tomorrow. I have to burn off this nervous energy. :drunk:
 
Oh wait....was he going to kiss me? Darnit!!! :wallbash:

...had a great time this weekend :yep:. Went to church and my friends said I looked different.. That I was glowing lol!
 
This was unexpected. So Match #2 from the agency called and we made plans for date #2. I'm not sure what he's thinking or what his objective is but that's why I'm giving him a second chance I guess.:ohwell: I wasn't sure if he had a good time because I had to lead the conversation yet he claims he thought I wasn't interested because of the wine??? I'm sorry but WTF?:perplexed I ain't biting. I swear, men can be so frustrating sometimes.
 
I sent my 5th grade crush a friend request on FB and he not only accepted but he remembered me we are chatting (actually he just asked how I'm doing and he recognized my brother)

GIFSoup

I think he's a kang but he's still cute :)
 
LadyPaniolo said:
I would like to color. HARD.
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I felt this way several months ago, but now over a year later, I've forgotten what its even like to color to even fantasize about it. I generally have a zillion other things to do to keep me busy and don't think about it too much.

I'm not sure if thats a good or a bad thing tho:look::perplexed:drunk:
 
After observing some of my coworkers and these awful (yet oddly entertaining) ball player wives shows, I really do see that there is a pot for every lid or simply "somebody for everybody" as my grandmother likes to say.

I swear tho, some of these threads on LHCF would have one think you need to be a virgin, church 5 days a week, size 2 hourglass with an impressive waist-hip ratio, with WL hair, full of rainbows and sunshines 24/7, a gourmet chef, etc to have a man. I see some of the most bad-bodied, unattractive, nasty attitude having, messy, annoying @ss women in relationships. And no, not just with RayRay, with seemingly decent dudes sometimes.
 
Imani said:
After observing some of my coworkers and these awful (yet oddly entertaining) ball player wives shows, I really do see that there is a pot for every lid or simply "somebody for everybody" as my grandmother likes to say.

I swear tho, some of these threads on LHCF would have one think you need to be a virgin, church 5 days a week, size 2 hourglass with an impressive waist-hip ratio, with WL hair, full of rainbows and sunshines 24/7, a gourmet chef, etc to have a man. I see some of the most bad-bodied, unattractive, nasty attitude having, messy, annoying @ss women in relationships. And no, not just with RayRay, with seemingly decent dudes sometimes.
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Imani You are absolutely right. I'm none of that I get plenty of male attention :lol: I just :rolleyes: and K.I.M. Men are NOT that complex.
 
Really dude?
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Nicca, please. You ain't slick.
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We stayed on the phone alllllllll night. Even though when he called at 9, he said he was going to bed at 10 cus he needed his rest...We both have to be up at 5am. I was beat too but I knew it wasnt going to happen. Hung up at 3am. Tired as heck, but loving it....loving him.
 
We talked for a few hours last night and after the good night hug he went in for the kiss. It was really nice and we ended up hanging out for another hour before heading home. The kiss was pretty good but his body is crazy. OMG Just touching his stomach and chest I was gone. Why me, why now?

I knew I should have taken it slow and just left it at the hug last night. But it has been so long I forgot what a mans touch and lips felt like. When I was driving home I could still smell him on me. What have I gotten myself into? Right guy, wrong time - the story of my life.
 
babyu21 said:
We talked for a few hours last night and after the good night hug he went in for the kiss. It was really nice and we ended up hanging out for another hour before heading home. The kiss was pretty good but his body is crazy. OMG Just touching his stomach and chest I was gone. Why me, why now?

I knew I should have taken it slow and just left it at the hug last night. But it has been so long I forgot what a mans touch and lips felt like. When I was driving home I could still smell him on me. What have I gotten myself into? Right guy, wrong time - the story of my life.
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i have seen you make a lot a lot a lot of posts about getting older and not finding the right man. now that you have found a man you like its the wrong time?
 
I am crying as I type this...not because I am sad but because I am so thankful.

I was dating a man for three years. I found out two months ago he was cheating and for the past two months I have been sad, depressed and thinking about the worse. Well, today I learned that while I was dating him, he had a "girlfriend" in Orlando.

I am not even mad anymore. For the first time in two months I am actually so thankful for God in delivering me to freedom. I could have married that man or gotten pregnant but now I can just walk away with my dignity. I didn't know who he was. He was a liar and a fraud. It is raining today but I have clarity and when I found out this heavy burden from my chest had been lifted. God knew that he was not the one and he doesn't want me to be unhappy.
 
Zdubs, you are starting to make me mad because I can't read you. I'm sure you're stressed out and crap, but dang! That doesn't mean you have to go around looking and acting all forlorn like you lost your best friend all the time! Don't worry; be happy! This mixed signals crap is for the birds (and yes, I realize I am probably doing the same thing to you). Urgh.
 
mischka said:
i have seen you make a lot a lot a lot of posts about getting older and not finding the right man. now that you have found a man you like its the wrong time?
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I wish that more of my personal goals were accomplished by now. I am just not were I want to be in life at the moment. Its easy to complain when you have no options but now that one is right in front of my face its all a little to real. I hope that makes sense. :ohwell:
 
diadall said:
I am crying as I type this...not because I am sad but because I am so thankful.

I was dating a man for three years. I found out two months ago he was cheating and for the past two months I have been sad, depressed and thinking about the worse. Well, today I learned that while I was dating him, he had a "girlfriend" in Orlando.

I am not even mad anymore. For the first time in two months I am actually so thankful for God in delivering me to freedom. I could have married that man or gotten pregnant but now I can just walk away with my dignity. I didn't know who he was. He was a liar and a fraud. It is raining today but I have clarity and when I found out this heavy burden from my chest had been lifted. God knew that he was not the one and he doesn't want me to be unhappy.
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I could have written this whole post! This was me two years ago...I truly believe that God spared me from a lifetime of unhappiness....please know that you arent alone and it will get better! .:bighug:
 
I am crestfallen:cry2:

I will not go into detail but suffice to say its a definite deal breaker. I truly want a life partner but I don't know if I can take any more bad endings.

I'm going back into my shell for a while.

Keep ya head up ladies :kiss:
 
diadall said:
I am crying as I type this...not because I am sad but because I am so thankful.

I was dating a man for three years. I found out two months ago he was cheating and for the past two months I have been sad, depressed and thinking about the worse. Well, today I learned that while I was dating him, he had a "girlfriend" in Orlando.
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diadall said:
I am not even mad anymore. For the first time in two months I am actually so thankful for God in delivering me to freedom. I could have married that man or gotten pregnant but now I can just walk away with my dignity. I didn't know who he was. He was a liar and a fraud. It is raining today but I have clarity and when I found out this heavy burden from my chest had been lifted. God knew that he was not the one and he doesn't want me to be unhappy.
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((((((((((((diadall)))))))))))

Please know you are not alone. Many of us have been there at least once. Yes you were set free, and you are blessed. Thank GOD! It will only get better from here.
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crlsweetie912
ChasingBliss

Thank you so much! All this time I was thinking I could not get better than him. Smart, well-dressed, educated, attorney, handsome... when really I lowered my standards to be with him...he is not confident, trustworthy, honest and he is a social climber, who tried to climb all over me.

I am surprised I got over him in such a flash. I really thought I was going to be depressed over him for ever. I was like Juliet ready to fall on the sword because we was the best man that ever walked the Earth and the best man I could ever get.

But I guess when God intervenes, it IS that quick. I thought I was going to feel bad for the rest of my life over this man. Now I am just glad he didn't kill me and put me in a ditch somewhere, because I really didn't know him.

I feel like I can conquer the world now. God got rid of 220 lbs of baggage for me.
 
diadall said:
@crlsweetie912
@ChasingBliss

Thank you so much! All this time I was thinking I could not get better than him. Smart, well-dressed, educated, attorney, handsome... when really I lowered my standards to be with him...he is not confident, trustworthy, honest and he is a social climber, who tried to climb all over me.

I am surprised I got over him in such a flash. I really thought I was going to be depressed over him for ever. I was like Juliet ready to fall on the sword because we was the best man that ever walked the Earth and the best man I could ever get.

But I guess when God intervenes, it IS that quick. I thought I was going to feel bad for the rest of my life over this man. Now I am just glad he didn't kill me and put me in a ditch somewhere, because I really didn't know him.

I feel like I can conquer the world now. God got rid of 220 lbs of baggage for me.
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I love this post. Yes!!!!
 
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