***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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I had a bad dream about my ex. He did me pretty foul so I thought id never dream of him.

His new victim was a singer and jazz flute player at a big hotel party. She was horrible. She was quite younger... Had braids, not a very pretty girl . He looked exactly the same, perfect... her accompaniment on piano.

Why was I burning in anger? He ended our engagement abruptly, claiming he wasn't financiially ready, among other lame excuses.

In the dream I had a fit of rage after politely asking him to meet me in my room, telling him how he broke my heart and ruined my dreams. He showed no emotion and walked out.

His new victim overheard us but had the sweetest disposition ever... Even offered me homemade 7-Up Cake which I declined. She told me sorry and pretty much that the guy has changed... That "it" won't happen to her because she's saved blah blah blah.
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I thought I forgave him but I guess I need to dig deep and forgive again. From a distance, of course. Why am I crying?
 
So in the process of "putting myself out there" I got a ticket last night on the way to the lounge...Ugggh! And I was 5 minutes from the location...well I decided to enjoy myself and make the most of it and ended up having a really nice time..exchanged numbers with a cutie (took pics with him too) and had 2 different guys buying drinks for me..
See there Mr.Officer, nothing you could have did last night would have ruined my evening

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SuchMagnificance said:
So in the process of "putting myself out there" I got a ticket last night on the way to the lounge...Ugggh! And I was 5 minutes from the location...well I decided to enjoy myself and make the most of it and ended up having a really nice time..exchanged numbers with a cutie (took pics with him too) and had 2 different guys buying drinks for me..
See there Mr.Officer, nothing you could have did last night would have ruined my evening

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That's the spirit!:yep: I'm glad you had great time inspite of the ticket :)
 
I have been getting texts for months on random weekends talking bout "do you wanna hang out this weekend? are you free? wanna get together?" Originally I knew who the texts were from but I forgot very quickly (like within weeks; I don't save numbers into my phone unless it's someone I regularly contact) and stopped answering. The texts have continued for the past 3 months.

Finally I respond today to ask that they stop texting me. He replies "wth I thought you liked me!"

*side eye* I don't even know who you are! How you thought I liked you when I have ignored you every time you attempt to contact me FOR MONTHS? You are not that delusional.
 
So, the "faux" nice guy I recently stopped seeing is coming to my sister's birthday party this weekend. He is a co-worker of my brother in law which is how he found out about the party. I also found out he is moving back to his home state at the end of the month and had gotten back with his ex girlfriend. I am pretty sure he plans on making his way over to me to share this information, cause it so seems like his personality.

My niece's uncle (my sister's ex-husband's brother) is coming to the party as well. This fool has decided he is going to marry me and carries on at how beautiful I am now. I think he is 6 or 7 years older than me and I have known him and his family since I was 12.

This should be an interesting evening.
 
The above posts makes me think...
When a man says he's gonna marry a woman...he usually marries that woman.

Men always seem to get what the heck they want! wow

(random rant)


I'm starting to wonder if alpha dog sometimes equal *****assness.
 
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Yeah, I fell off the relationship horse but I'm pickin myself up, dusting myself off and gettin right back on that b*#ch!
 
I love a man who smells good. With that being said, I sprayed my fave cologne out his collection in my purse :look:

It was cute for the moment, but now i'm sitting here and all I can think about is him *sigh*

And here I am trying to brush him off..
 
PopLife said:
Yeah, I fell off the relationship horse but I'm pickin myself up, dusting myself off and gettin right back on that b*#ch!
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Yeah.. sometimes taking a break is overrated. You know when you need a break and you know when you don't.
 
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I need to learn to go with my instincts. Dating is a game I just don't want to play. I was thinking of trying a professional dating service, but had obvious reservations (I'm 23, not interested in dating someone in their 30s). But after my mom practically hounded me, I decided to give it a shot. Now I'm not having doubts after hearing more failures than successes, my original reasons for not wanting to try it are coming to the forefront. I just hate being in this rut but I feel like there's no way out.:nono: Moving out of California sounds like an even better idea right about now.
 
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