***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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2 random thoughts 1 I really wish I had male friends.The only 1 I have is my male coworker other than that I have none.Im preparing to move and will have to pay to have someone move me.

2 I wish I knew of some good people who could just match me up with some great guys.It seems I may never date unless I have some outside force to help.
 
Reading that thread about pretty people in OT made me think about how glad I am that I am no longer obsessed with looks like I was when I was younger. I used to stress about what I wasn't/didn't have physically and wish/think that if I was pretty my life would be perfect.

But its so not that deep. I just focus on my good attributes, work with what I got, and keep it moving. As my grandmother says, there's somebody for everybody.
 
OrangeMoon said:
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What happens when the ride or die chick/bottom b**** quits? Just wondering...After yesterday I'm resigning. For serious! I don't get it and I seriously pissed. I call you and you don't answer, you call back, I don't answer because I went into another room and didn't take my phone. So I call you back, don't answer then you text me talking about I'll be over at 8. I respond Ok, then you call not to long afterward and ask what's for dinner. My response nothing really did you want me to cook something....yeah I want some BBQ wings. My response what do you want to go with them...his response anything but Mashed Potatoes. So I'm like ok well I go the grocery store and get some wings because all I have is salmon and turkey burgers. His response ok see you at 8. So I head to the grocery store purchase the wings and some salad stuff, season the wings refrigerate and fire up the grill...text him like 5 minutes to 8 telling him "the wings are almost done." He hasn't called and isn't in my driveway at it's 8...8:30 not call/no text. 9 pm I call no answer. He calls me at 10:30 talking about I'm making my rounds but I'll be there. I'm like okay. Rewind to this morning no text, no call, no sorry, just no nothing. I'm so pissed right now because there have been so many instances when I've attempted to let this person into my world and this person cancelled or flaked on me. This time I didn't solicit the visit, he did, I didn't offer to cook, he put in the request. What pisses me off is I basically set myself up for this disappointment but seriously.

I want to call and/or text him so bad and tell him how I feel. But that would show that I care. :perplexed *flustered*
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When that ninja texted at 10 I would have told him dont bother because I'm not home. More I could say but I dont feel well.
 
I am sick :( he offered to come by and take care of me but I declined. He has to go to work and I would have felt guilty. Not sure why I dont like to accept help.
 
:lachen: he called me a "pimp" and a "playa" for talking to other guys :lol:

What he thought I was gonna put all my eggs in one basket? ***
 
I'm sick of my brother for commenting on my Facebook pix. I know he is uber selective about which ones he *likes or comments on. They are always those of me posing with racially ambiguous girls or clear 'others'. He will be like: wow! Nice picture! ... and I know it is meant to catch my friend's attention. Luckily, that hasn't worked.

He once asked me about this Asian girl in one of my pix. I was like oh Lawd, totally saw that one coming. It's so annoying.

He just did this on a pic I posted last night of me and an Asian friend, and I just feel like blasting him right on FB by saying: this was meant for Helen, wasn't it?

Ugh.

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I want to seduce one of my co-workers :look: It's weird. I've never actually WANTED to seduce someone. I've just had crushes and admired from afar. This is different.

I used to be all nervous and weird around him when I first started here 3 years ago (He totally called me on it too once, in the elevator. Bastard!).
Now I'm used to him and more confident in general (thanks, in large part, to some LHCF threads :)), and every so often I get a vibe...

I wonder what it would take...*plots* :sekret:
No, I'm dead serious. I just finished reading Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction, and am now going back through all the passages I highlighted on my Kindle :look:
I highly recommend the book, by the way. It's fun and very interesting.
 
Do_Si_Dos said:
I have only been on my semi-MANcation for a few days, and I realize I hate being alone.:sad::sad::sad:
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Yes, it's even harder when you get used to male company. I called my friend last night just so I could hear a male voice other than the one that's been gettin on my nerves lately:lol: <----who I just got off the phone with:drunk:
 
Just got back yesterday from visiting my potential SO, and we have officially downgraded to just platonic friends :sad: He's going through a transition in his career and wants to focus on that. Although, I'm a little salty and a little sad, I hope he doesn't expect me to wait on him. He has a time frame in mind, but if I find somebody between now and March when he claims he's finished, I'm out. If I decide to move to another state/country between now and then, I'm out. These dudes get on my nerves! They claim to want to find somebody, but when it comes time to actually put in a little work, they don't want to do that. Whatever!

The next guy is going to have to fall out of the sky and say God sent him. I focusing on H.B.M.- hair, body, money in no particular order.

Okay, rant over.
 
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chocolat79 said:
Just got back yesterday from visiting my potential SO, and we have officially downgraded to just platonic friends :sad: He's going through a transition in his career and wants to focus on that. Although, I'm a little salty and a little sad, I hope he doesn't expect me to wait on him. He has a time frame in mind, but if I find somebody between now and March when he claims he's finished, I'm out. If I decide to move to another state/country between now and then, I'm out. These dudes get on my nerves! They claim to want to find somebody, but when it comes time to actually put in a little work, they don't want to do that. Whatever!

The next guy is going to have to fall out of the sky and say God sent him. I focusing on H.B.M.- hair, body, money in no particular order.

Okay, rant over.
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This is exactly how I feel right now!
 
chocolat79 said:
Just got back yesterday from visiting my potential SO, and we have officially downgraded to just platonic friends :sad: He's going through a transition in his career and wants to focus on that. Although, I'm a little salty and a little sad, I hope he doesn't expect me to wait on him. He has a time frame in mind, but if I find somebody between now and March when he claims he's finished, I'm out. If I decide to move to another state/country between now and then, I'm out. These dudes get on my nerves! They claim to want to find somebody, but when it comes time to actually put in a little work, they don't want to do that. Whatever!

The next guy is going to have to fall out of the sky and say God sent him. I focusing on H.B.M.- hair, body, money in no particular order.

Okay, rant over.
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:bighug::bighug::bighug:
 
OrangeMoon said:
I am! Thank you for let me know I'm not overreacting. Just trying to figure out should I just put it all out there and tell him how I really feel via text. Or should I just wait until he calls and wants/needs/request/needs someone to listen to his BS and just tell him flat out "No, can't do it" or send him straight to voicemail. :sad: *sigh*
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Do do anything...just don't answer text or phone calls. He is taking you for granted bc he thinks you will always be there which is why he does not return fall calls or come through when he says he will.
 
This weekend made me further realize that guys are very very sensitive. I know at times I keep whats bothering me inside from others to not burden him. But what he told me I felt he could have said bc sometimes you need to vent to people. I am just glad that he called me to tell me he was better and that I did not jump to conclusions and yell at him.
 
^^^Well, my heart/wishes are only good things. I can't wait to get them.

But, if yours are good things, I'm happy for you.
 
So.... I have a 2nd date Friday evening and I'm kinda excited. This one seems to have potential. I will try to stay positive about it....
 
*non relationship RT*

I can't wait for next Friday to get here, I'm officially moving to IL for school! I can't wait to begin my new adventures and enjoy all the eye candy that awaits me:grin::lol:
 
Took a walk with a college friend to get some food last night. He told me that if he were in the right mindset, he'd pursue me for marriage... :giggle: I thought that was kinda cute.
 
This date last night was... interesting. So discombobulated (at least the first part). He was nervous and.was trying to impress me... said so himself... and I'm thinking dude, if you want to impress me, do so with structure.

He must have tried to change the plans 3 times, and I'm like no, let's stick to.what we had discussed.

Conversation was good/decent, but with the lack of structure I was thinking: this is a serious downgrade from my previous dates :look:

He wants to go on a second date. Still insists on cooking dinner for me. I agreed...

I'm very lukewarm abt him, but I do enjoy his kisses :look: :lol: frankly, that's the main reason for all this. I don't want more physically nor emotionally... just some more lip-locking experiences :look:

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Dun dun duuuuun...Ladies after coming home and mentally going through the events that have ocurred today it has struck me that I have left my panties and dress along with my panties did I mention my panties (!) At his place. Nothing remotely sexual happened. I went over his place after work with a change of clothes for today. I took a shower and changed into his clothes as soon as I got to his house. I thought I put my clothes back in my bag but I may have taken them back out whilst looking for my clothes to wear to work today while I was half sleep. He is full possession of my drawers!
 
janiebaby said:
Dun dun duuuuun...Ladies after coming home and mentally going through the events that have ocurred today it has struck me that I have left my panties and dress along with my panties did I mention my panties (!) At his place. Nothing remotely sexual happened. I went over his place after work with a change of clothes for today. I took a shower and changed into his clothes as soon as I got to his house. I thought I put my clothes back in my bag but I may have taken them back out whilst looking for my clothes to wear to work today while I was half sleep. He is full possession of my drawers!
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that can be trouble LOL
 
have to learn how to be happy and live my life...also i need to start cutting guys off when i know they aint right for me. i have a small heartache right now, but im not gonna cry cuz i know i should have known better.
 
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