silverbuttons
Not Impressed
I think most couples should actively swing. Long term couples are sooo bored with one another. Just swing, damn.
What? You mean a guy older than you or the oldest guy in the family or what?Unpopular opinion: anyone in a relationship with an eldest male is in an open relationship.
What? You mean a guy older than you or the oldest guy in the family or what?
I don't understand this statement.
What? You mean a guy older than you or the oldest guy in the family or what?
I don't understand this statement.
Oldest male in the family
Kimora's only requirement after Russell Simmons, verbatim, was fidelity.
. There's a reason why AA men are my least ideal.
But... with all the cosigning then anything outside of the box of thumbs up would be radical, not conservative even if it was previously considered traditional. This thread represents the views of most people at lhcf which is the new normal.with a shockingly conservative and traditional concept of relationships? oh the horror
I thought you were pro black love? Or is it only AA men? I know other groups of black men who are whores as well. I think whores come in all colors. Where dis coming from or am I confusing one of your previous comments? I never thought you were fanatical about it and thought you would be open to other possibilities but not actively excluding AA men.
Technically with all the cosigning then anything outside of the box of thumbs up would be radical, not conservative even if it was previously considered traditional. This thread represents the views of most people at lhcf which is the new normal.
Right. I'm introverted, so I really don't have the energy to expend on multiple people. And because im introverted, I love alone time even more than I love time with my lovable DH. And so....lemme find out he needs another one. Just stay with her then ️an open relationship would either drive me crazy me because too many ppl expect something (event if "too many" is just two ppl. Hell, I was annoyed when I saw dH car in the driveway today when I got home because it meant I wouldn't have a second to myself) or enrage me (because if you have somebody else, why are you in my face? And how stupid are you to have somebody else?).No thank you. I'd rather just be single if I were going to do that.
I also feel like a lot of ppl think they can handle open relationships and they can't. They think they will charm the other person. I have a friend in an open relationship that gets depressed as hell when her dude is occupied. Just sitting up in other women's driveways looking dumb. It was like that with her last guy too.
Also, my first paragraph not
my absolute favorite married couple of the moment are in an open relationship.
they are literally everything i want in my future....black, attractive, own 2 places already only in mid 30's, do things that belong in black movies like "Love Jones" like host poetry nights at their place.
they seem sooooo enamored with each other-they're so cute!
the husband (SO's frat brother) highly recommended having an open marriage to my SO. like you'd recommend a good restaurant.
Waiting?
Yes I have a price point where I'd consider an open relationship; poor people don't need open relationships
wait what?!! Why just poor people? So there's a price point where you will sell your soul to go shopping?Yes I have a price point where I'd consider an open relationship; poor people don't need open relationships
wait what?!! Why just poor people? So there's a price point where you will sell your soul to go shopping?
Has nothing to do with shopping I can shop now with one husband and spastic work habits
Hahahahahahahahaha!!!!! I wanna know your price, I believe everyone has a price.
Why yes, yes I amUmmmmmmmmmm. Uhhhhh. I think we know some of the same folks....youre still in Chi right?
Sounds exactly like my aunt. Her husband is military and I'm afraid he'd do something to her, but he MUST know.Say wha.....but really nothing should surprise me. I know a married woman that takes trips with her boyfriend, and post them on FB saying shes OOT with this or that female friend. Anytime she says she with her bestie, but you dont see a pic of said bestie shes with her side boo, who is also married. They have been kicking longer than she has been with her husband. She is so bold I'm scared that when she gets busted her very sweet husband will kill her from the embarrassment.
Why yes, yes I am
Z and A? Or maybe S and A, I'm not sure how she spells her name.
poor people cant afford open marriagesYes I have a price point where I'd consider an open relationship; poor people don't need open relationships
Lordt now if I start swinging with my man you gonna recognize my hair in public and judge meAbsolutely. There are so few degrees of separation amongst Chi bp.
To me this makes 0 sense bc if they found out about it they already got "caught".Yep. Also, a lot of women have a "just don't 'disrespect' me by getting caught" policy.
pretty much.Money that gets my name on buildings and spearheading global charities
Absolutely. There are so few degrees of separation amongst Chi bp.
Money that gets my name on buildings and spearheading global charities
lol, its not no...its I could only see myself doing it if I married for money. I think once you get past a certain net worth monogamy becomes highly unlikely.But come on now that such an unrealistic expectation.
I mentioned part of the money component upthread. It's clear no money hunter women have posted in this thread yet. So if a woman doesn't choose rich mates as rule or didn't marry for money its safe to say any open relationship she has won't be with a monied man or involve huge amounts of cash.
That's said, I'm assuming those women who say they would only do it for x amount of dollars simply mean no. Lol