Men-free Zone ~ The Non-romantic Relationship Thread

I had a reading about six-ish months ago where she said that she saw me moving out by the end of the year because a romantic relationship would cause tension in my home and cause me to just up and leave. I thought she meant my relationship with my bf but it's looking like she was talking about my mom's bf, who I don't like. I still don't see how I'm going to end up moving out or where I would go because the way my financial situation is set up... :nono: Unless I leave school, I can't see that happening. I's broke, y'all.
 
sarumoki said:
I had a reading about six-ish months ago where she said that she saw me moving out by the end of the year because a romantic relationship would cause tension in my home and cause me to just up and leave. I thought she meant my relationship with my bf but it's looking like she was talking about my mom's bf, who I don't like. I still don't see how I'm going to end up moving out or where I would go because the way my financial situation is set up... :nono: Unless I leave school, I can't see that happening. I's broke, y'all.
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Interesting. You never know. You might get so fed up and do something you never thought you would or could.
 
My sister has to bring her boyfriend everywhere. Why exactly is he coming to dinner with me, her and my mom for my mom's birthday? Please explain this to me? Why? And she sees nothing wrong with it. I mentioned it and her response was "how can I tell him not to come?" The thing is this is someone else's birthday. Your own mother's no less. What about what that person wants? It is such a selfish way of thinking but somehow it may turn into being the one who was wronged.

I like her bf and all but if I could and it wouldn't start WWIII I would tell him to stay home. Like bruh, why you wanna hang with us girls anyway. We're just gonna laugh and gossip and window shop and stuff. Girl stuff. Be gone!
 
KammyGirl said:
My sister has to bring her boyfriend everywhere. Why exactly is he coming to dinner with me, her and my mom for my mom's birthday? Please explain this to me? Why? And she sees nothing wrong with it. I mentioned it and her response was "how can I tell him not to come?" The thing is this is someone else's birthday. Your own mother's no less. What about what that person wants? It is such a selfish way of thinking but somehow it may turn into being the one who was wronged.

I like her bf and all but if I could and it wouldn't start WWIII I would tell him to stay home. Like bruh, why you wanna hang with us girls anyway. We're just gonna laugh and gossip and window shop and stuff. Girl stuff. Be gone!
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How does your mom feel about that?
 
caribeandiva said:
How does your mom feel about that?
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She said she wanted it to be us 3. Meaning me, her and my sis. Actually she said she was happy it would just be us 3 this year. But she only told me and I didn't mention it to my sister. And funny thing is I asked my sis why he was coming before my mother even said that. She was set on it so I only mentioned it the one time and left it alone. I'm learning to pick my battles.

Anyway, we went out today and we all had a ball together. Her bf left us to go off and do his own thing while we were walking around and stuff. My mom had a great time. Dinner was good and everyone got along.
 
I've gone to various hen parties over the years. They vary from long weekends in Europe or like a spa weekend/pampering session or dinner in a swanky restaurant in town.

The hen party normally consists of the bride, her bridesmaids and perhaps a couple of other close friends.

Whatever the hen party is I do NOT do loud, brash and tacky like a lot of WT British women do. It's like an excuse to act badly.

However if you're not going to the wedding I fail to see why you should be organising any hen activities!
 
Hung out with my cousins Friday night and my mom and sis at the Earth Wind and Fire concert last night, so today is my "me" day. Will probably just chill and continue watching the Breaking Bad marathon.

Next weekend my cousin's (caucasian) in laws are coming and he wants me and our other cousin to come out and meet them. The father JUST met my aunt not too long ago and the mothers will be meeting for the first time, despite my cousin and his wife having been married for 16 years. It's gonna be interesting. :look:
 
KammyGirl said:
She said she wanted it to be us 3. Meaning me, her and my sis. Actually she said she was happy it would just be us 3 this year. But she only told me and I didn't mention it to my sister. And funny thing is I asked my sis why he was coming before my mother even said that. She was set on it so I only mentioned it the one time and left it alone. I'm learning to pick my battles.

Anyway, we went out today and we all had a ball together. Her bf left us to go off and do his own thing while we were walking around and stuff. My mom had a great time. Dinner was good and everyone got along.
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I'm glad you ladies had a good time. Does your sister don't like to leave him alone? Was she on her phone texting him a lot? Does she tell you she has to ask what he thinks about something?
 
shortdub78 said:
I'm glad you ladies had a good time. Does your sister don't like to leave him alone? Was she on her phone texting him a lot? Does she tell you she has to ask what he thinks about something?
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Not really. She makes it sound like he's the one who always wants to be around but I don't see that either. She isn't usually up under him and he doesn't seem like he's up under her. But when there's an outing with either of their families they have to be attached at the hip. I think it has more to do with their comfort level around their around us/his family. Like if he's around she can use him as an excuse to leave or if she's uncomfortable she has a buffer and someone in her corner. Same for him I think. Whatever.
 
hopeful said:
They really are. So rude and inconsiderate. @Sumra said "I told her I was feeling down but alright." And her response is to ask for a favor:confused:.

After my mom died a lady I hadn't spoken to in quite a while asked me for a favor. I texted her back that I was still grieving the loss of my mom. In other words, leave me alone :look:. Her response was something like oh yeah well time heals all wounds, and asked for the favor again. I just ignored her.
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Lordy, that kind of happened to me. When my godmother suddenly passed, someone called & asked if I could do their hair before I left town for her funeral. :confused:
 
Y'all... I really hate working with women all the time. They are the worst with their pms and moods and bs! i never see men taking the first opportunity to throw folks under the bus. at least not when working with me.

false competition amongst women who are not even on the same level in the hierarchy nor same departments is a freaking waste of time and energy.
 
DarkJoy said:
Y'all... I really hate working with women all the time. They are the worst with their pms and moods and bs! i never see men taking the first opportunity to throw folks under the bus. at least not when working with me.

false competition amongst women who are not even on the same level in the hierarchy nor same departments is a freaking waste of time and energy.
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Lucky you because this happens. You have to see the way some of these partners in my firm go at each other blaming each other for things. Funnily enough, even though they fight and compete with each other, when it comes time to gang up on the first named partner (woman) they can all get along to come at her. I just sit back and laugh because I never knew men could be like this.
 
DarkJoy said:
Y'all... I really hate working with women all the time. They are the worst with their pms and moods and bs! i never see men taking the first opportunity to throw folks under the bus. at least not when working with me.

false competition amongst women who are not even on the same level in the hierarchy nor same departments is a freaking waste of time and energy.
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I work in maintenance. The men are worse. Believe me. Trust me.
 
KammyGirl said:
Lucky you because this happens. You have to see the way some of these partners in my firm go at each other blaming each other for things. Funnily enough, even though they fight and compete with each other, when it comes time to gang up on the first named partner (woman) they can all get along to come at her. I just sit back and laugh because I never knew men could be like this.
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C4B said:
I work in maintenance. The men are worse. Believe me. Trust me.
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ugh! maybe I have just been lucky when dealing with men. never had this issue. exactly the opposite! the male chief medical officer had me under his wing... until the women VPs got together and ousted him. then they go at each other. now I got women coming for me. It's Game of Thrones up in this piece. My boss is Cersei.:confused: :help:
 
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Sorry to hear that @DarkJoy. Hang in there.
DarkJoy said:
ugh! maybe I have just been lucky when dealing with men. never had this issue. exactly the opposite! the male chief medical officer had me under his wing... until the women VPs got together and ousted him. then they go at each other. now I got women coming for me. It's Game of Thrones up in this piece. My boss is Cersei.:confused: :help:
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Welp, if your boss is Cercei, gotta model yourself after a GOT character that can kick her butt. Find a strategy to win. Winning isn't everything...
 
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