Naw gurl. Most women are too busy twisting themselves into pretzels trying to appeal to as many men as possible. I'm guilty of that in the past too. If I look a certain way, act a certain way, **** him a certain way then he'll like me. Big mistake.
Oh no, that's a bad plan, for purely logistical reasons, I mean. It's damn near impossible. You gotta find your niche and rock the heck out of it.
For me, my style and overall flow always attracts a certain type. Out of black men, it's always bm who don't often 'claim' women, like 'You're special, I'll make an exception for you'.
They're usually really smart (read: arrogant). These can be thugs, professionals, whatever. Then, different races/ ethnicities. For wm, it's usually the type that likes bw, but not the crunchy ones, 'bad bihs', video girls but with more class, etc. Usually older for some reason(?), foreign or domestic. Indians usu want to 'sidepiece' me (this fluctuates based on class, tho. recently a fine Indian lawyer damn near threw himself at me), but other 'brown' men want to
court me. (It helps if they come from a country with a population of bp.) Etc. All types I mention but the low-class Indians would be willing to put a ring on it. I think that's a colorism thing.
My mind apparently sorts and classifies this info easily.
I'm lazily strategic. I like to find the most receptive area for my efforts.
