but it's true
DATE OTHER RACES OF MEN! Frequent their handouts. Broaden your horizons. Date online. Hang out with friends of other races. DONT LIMIT YOURSELF TO ONLY BLACK MEN.
Less no. but when you are in 2 different worlds. he's ok with the weed smoking crowd. he doesn't do it but several he knows does and as he says everybody does it. you not so. you want nice things and went to school to ensure you get them. live on the north side. buy from whole foods and trader joes. he doesn't know what this is and still eat fat backs and has a gold tooth and rims. and usually several kids and the same number of baby mamas.
yeah like the lawyer who married the auto mechanic.
that's usually the man who wants something.
TRUTH!!! Kobe Bryant was all in Brandy's face begging her to go to his prom with him when he was a high school nobody. got some money and married a latina girl. not some on the move latina but a video chic! yes one of the greatest players in the history of the game married some noneducated video chic!!!!
Mason have pillow talk just like everyone else who claims to keep secrets. Hence starting on organization for the wives. Since they already know the info, might as well include them.
they are not talking you make 90k and they make 80k. they are talking they make 40k and blue collar. you are 80k and white collar. different worlds. different levels of ambition. usually different respects towards money.
didn't see your post but basically just posted the same thing.
Here's the thing about dating other races of men. Everybody just can't do it. Not because of bw being too much or too little of anything, but because some women have either a mental or physical block that prevents them from crossing that particular line and that has to be respected.
"but last week wasn't you sayin...."she need to increase her age range. up.
straight crazy!This reminds me of that thread about the lady that made over $200K as a doctor while her man made $40K with no drive or something close to that amount and how she paid all the bills. A lot of hoteps were like but maybe she truly loves him or what about love...what about it?
I understand that but you need to have the mentality that you will kiss frogs before you find that good one. same as before. you just have a bigger pool and not as limited. also you don't have to have 1000000 men who want black women.Here's the thing about dating other races of men. Everybody just can't do it. Not because of bw being too much or too little of anything, but because some women have either a mental or physical block that prevents them from crossing that particular line and that has to be respected.
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I have noticed that there's an element of bw who will go into IR dating with the expectation that they are going to find a ready made woke non black partner. Unless you are dealing with a non black man who has dated black women exclusively who have already broken him in like the comfortable pair of shoes you want him to be, wokeness is an uphill battle. That **** is going to take yearS. These chicks usually hop back to the black side and go full hotep preaching how polygyny ain't all that bad. I be looking at my facebook feed like
when I used to hear that played out chit, I would automatically cancel him out.
I don't know now anything about polygyny but I do know what you mean by a mental block...I can't wrap my mind around it.Here's the thing about dating other races of men. Everybody just can't do it. Not because of bw being too much or too little of anything, but because some women have either a mental or physical block that prevents them from crossing that particular line and that has to be respected.
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I have noticed that there's an element of bw who will go into IR dating with the expectation that they are going to find a ready made woke non black partner. Unless you are dealing with a non black man who has dated black women exclusively who have already broken him in like the comfortable pair of shoes you want him to be, wokeness is an uphill battle. That **** is going to take yearS. These chicks usually hop back to the black side and go full hotep preaching how polygyny ain't all that bad. I be looking at my facebook feed like
That's not by accident. Girls are tethered to a shorter cultural leash than boys. I've been hearing first and second hand black men freely saying they would f a white girl but not marry one since I was a kid, but I had never heard a black woman utter such a thing growing up. My brain breaks even trying to imagine my mothers friends saying anything like that and these were not women who shied away from talking about sex when the gin got to flowing.
That has less to do with a cultural leash and more to do with pop culture portrayals of the whites women and white men's sexuality. Why would black women cira 70-80 talk about sexing white men when the stereotype is that EVERYONE what's to sec black men because they are the sexiest, have the biggest dacks, can sex the longest, etc. Even white men perpetuate this stereotype about themselves: little penis, no stroke, and scared a big black buck is coming to take their woman.
Oh heck no...There was a thread here or subset of one that transitioned into black women signing up for polyamory because there aren't enough "good black men" to go around. Lots of hotep dudes talk that mess too. They are assuming most bw are sharing men and should just do so openly. My cousin says this ALL the time....hes not nearly as good as he thinks he is.
Women are called selfIsh or short sighted for not buying into it.
??? This was my general rule. Is that unusual?
I don't think it is for black women who grew up amoungst them/had access. I didn't get exposed to good looking white guys until high school and by then I was 100% committed to black boys.??? This was my general rule. Is that unusual?
