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^^^ In other words- If the man isn’t a total loser completely sucking off the woman‘s existence as his life force. Got it.
^^^ In other words- If the man isn’t a total loser completely sucking off the woman‘s existence as his life force. Got it.
Um I'm pretty sure Whitney was grinding yearrrrrrs before he went to nursing school. She was making YouTube videos (for fun) but she was already in her career when she started on YouTube. I'm not sure about anyone else but I don't know what Felipe was doing then. I don't think he went to nursing school until much later. Like I said before some of her earlier videos were always about her working more and harder so they could buy nice things, buy a nice house, etc. Never a mention of what they were going to do together or what he was going to do, even if he was sitting right next to her in the video. I'm not trying to take away from his current accomplishments but if the statement I quoted is supposed to imply that he was grinding while she was playing on the internet then that would be false.People are commenting that Felipe was a bum, but I watched their family vlogs for years and he always seemed like a hard worker. He went to nursing school while Whitney was making Youtube videos. . .about hair.
Hmmm... you make a good point.I’m not as concerned because I feel that both of them are equally involved and made a joint decision to use their popularity to further their individual and couple goals.
Another point.... Cameron is the breadwinner (he also formed his own company) and I’ve seen him do separate things media-wise involving his field after the show.
From what I’ve observed, when the men in these “popular SM couples” have their own things (career, business, etc) and they either just guest star in their SO’s social media streams once in a while and/or increase their SM presence to compliment what they are already involved in (Bryan &Rachel, Ciara&Russel) then whatever good or bad happens in the rlsp isn’t really an issue of SM.
I remember her old videos. Seemed like she had her money together - both from her job & videos-and he was flailing about, finding himself.Um I'm pretty sure Whitney was grinding yearrrrrrs before he went to nursing school. She was making YouTube videos (for fun) but she was already in her career when she started on YouTube. I'm not sure about anyone else but I don't know what Felipe was doing then. I don't think he went to nursing school until much later. Like I said before some of her earlier videos were always about her working more and harder so they could buy nice things, buy a nice house, etc. Never a mention of what they were going to do together or what he was going to do, even if he was sitting right next to her in the video. I'm not trying to take away from his current accomplishments but if the statement I quoted is supposed to imply that he was grinding while she was playing on the internet then that would be false.
I can't remember what job Felipe had before he became a nurse, but I remember Whitney being a graphic designer. I'm just making the point that people try to make being a lifestyle Youtuber equivalent to a job that is actually demanding (like being a doctor or nurse in a hospital), when they're not.Um I'm pretty sure Whitney was grinding yearrrrrrs before he went to nursing school. She was making YouTube videos (for fun) but she was already in her career when she started on YouTube. I'm not sure about anyone else but I don't know what Felipe was doing then. I don't think he went to nursing school until much later. Like I said before some of her earlier videos were always about her working more and harder so they could buy nice things, buy a nice house, etc. Never a mention of what they were going to do together or what he was going to do, even if he was sitting right next to her in the video. I'm not trying to take away from his current accomplishments but if the statement I quoted is supposed to imply that he was grinding while she was playing on the internet then that would be false.
But no one is doing that. Even if they were, she was a Youtuber and had an actual demanding job so maybe I'm missing your point? Either way, she currently has 2 businesses along with her youtube channels that generate hefty income for her. Once you get to her status being a youtuber can be quite demanding. It's not just recording for 5 minutes on camera and simply hitting upload at her stage. I remember her complaining years back (when she was starting to make real money) about the amount of time editing her videos was taking (among other things) in addition to working full time. It was another video of her talking about being a workaholic. Anyway, I think we've gotten off topic.I can't remember what job Felipe had before he became a nurse, but I remember Whitney being a graphic designer. I'm just making the point that people try to make being a lifestyle Youtuber equivalent to a job that is actually demanding (like being a doctor or nurse in a hospital), when they're not.
I agree!Anyway, I think we've gotten off topic.
So he responded on his insta stories...
“This is the last time I’m going to address this ... In regards to what Whitney posted, I did not cheat on her... Now that is a discussion between me, her and our lawyers. Our relationship was toxic... this was a long time coming. All I want to do is be a better person, grow from this, and be the best dad I can be... I want my personal space, I want people to respect my space .... please stop asking me questions ... stop commenting. Leave me alone .... period! Leave me alone. I don’t owe anybody anything ... no explanations... just leave me alone.”
I hope their divorce is not messy for the sake of the kids.
This is the nonsense I don’t understand. You wanted to show the world your relationship but you don’t want the world to comment on it. I don’t watch vlogs about couples because I don’t care. It never occurred to me to be interested in their marriage. I watched Naptural85 for her hair videos. She should have stuck with that and kept her personal life personal. Has no one learned from the mistakes of reality show stars? Very few manage to stay married once they put their lives of front street. At least The Real Housewives pull in big checks for destroying their lives.Yikes, but telling people to leave you alone when you're the one who invited them into your business in the first place by putting your life on YouTube. They will never shut up about it, unfortunately.
Didn't she put him thru Nursing School? and this is how he repays her?? what a scrub!Filipe is an RN.
I hope he doesn't get a penny of any of her Melanin Haircare money. She said the relationship has been toxic for 15 years. I'm glad she's leaving. She will eventually find someone who isn't insecure by her success.
What ethnicity is Felipe?Never really followed these closely two but I was always surprised that they had another child when she said that she(or perhaps they?) never wanted any more. Even more surprised now after she has admitted that their relationship was toxic for 15 years.
Let's see. Which IR Youtube couples have hit the skids:
The Nive Nulls
Jamie and Nikki
Maryam Shumate and her husband
Valencia and Jim
Bailey Living
Whitney and Felipe
Travis and Judith(anyone remember them?)
Just a note on "girl code". To me, it's not all about women being blameless but showing support for a sis who has been wronged and is in pain because if I don't, who else will? It ain't like you go find threads on men's boards showing support for women who have been cheated. There is no two sides to every story when somebody cheated. People cheat because they want to cheat any reasons they give are to justify doing what they wanted to do anyway.
What ethnicity is Felipe?
He's Brazilian, if I remember correctly.I'm not sure exactly. Anyone know?
You’re right. Very rarely do I see “girl code” when relationships turn south. Typically, the responses from other women are about the woman knowing what they got into, at least the man got xyz, at least man does/doesn’t xyz, the woman probably did/didn’t xyz, and/or if she likes I love it type comments. I’ve never read or heard a group of men discussing relationships in a way that does not benefit men. Why? Because it would undermine how they want to be treated by women.
It’s fascinating hearing and reading women support responses, especially in public settings, when a male treats a woman or girl like garage. A group of men will never be caught telling each other in response to a woman cheating, “well at least she keeps the house clean” or other equivalent responses women say to other women.
Just a note on "girl code". To me, it's not all about women being blameless but showing support for a sis who has been wronged and is in pain because if I don't, who else will? It ain't like you go find threads on men's boards showing support for women who have been cheated. There is no two sides to every story when somebody cheated. People cheat because they want to cheat any reasons they give are to justify doing what they wanted to do anyway.
Also as far as Felipe McFatty's statement, of course he ain't go admit to cheating. That's what lying cheating 's do.
I mean really, what was Felipe supposed to say, " Yeah I ****** all up in Whitney's YouTube subscriber with no condom, want some more details?" He go take that lie to the grave unless there's a benefit like a paid interview or tell all pamphlet to him and since nobody cares that much, he keeping his cheating lips sealed.
I have never ever heard a man say, about another man who was cheated on by his wife: well, he seemed so aloof, and his wife is an outgoing girl, so...
When a woman cheats, men can’t come up with any explanation besides, she’s a hoe and she belongs to the streets. When a man cheats, everyone wants to bring out the scales of justice and start weighing his cheating against how many hot meals he didn’t get, how many times she wore a bonnet to bed, how many times she didn’t laugh at one of his jokes, etc. As @Crackers Phinn stated above, “girl code”, is to offer additional balance and support in the face of this.